11/08/2025
I used to think it was important to have common interests with the person you are in a relationship with, but now I believe it is more important to be similar in other aspects, such as kindness, how you treat the people you care about, and how you treat strangers. It's also about how you deal with anger and pain. It's not necessarily about handling these situations in the same way but being perceptive enough to understand what action each situation calls for. It’s important for both people to be on the same page about what that action should be. For me, having that kind of synchrony is crucial.
🫗 This reflects emotional maturity