23/07/2025
WARNING TO MEN: MODERN LOVE ISN’T LOVE — IT’S A TRANSACTION
Today I came across a post by a lady —
And it got me thinking.
It gave me a brutal perspective about modern relationships.
It reminded me of a real incident:
A woman once asked me for money.
I said no — politely.
She snapped. Switched.
Turned abusive.
Said I wasn’t “man enough.”
Said I “wasted her time.”
All because I refused to finance her entitlement.
Then today, I saw this post by another woman:
> “There’s no such thing as a gold digger. All women are expensive. Just pick one in your price range and shut up.”
And suddenly it all made sense.
1. A lot of women today don’t want a man — they want a sponsor.
The moment you stop paying, you stop being “valuable.”
2. She doesn’t care about your pain, your struggles, your story —
She only cares about what you can offer.
3. If she turns disrespectful the moment you say “no,”
That woman was never interested in you — only what you could give.
4. They’ll shame you for setting boundaries.
Call you broke. Say you’re a small boy.
All because you chose to protect your pocket and peace.
5. She won’t care how loyal you are.
How you show up. How you treat her.
Only what you can fund.
6. This is not “dating.”
It’s bidding.
And the highest bidder gets to “win” her for a while.
7. If your value as a man is measured by your bank balance —
Then you’re not in love.
You’re in debt.
8. The world will call you selfish for refusing to carry her financial weight —
But will praise her “standards” for demanding a man who can carry hers.
9. A woman that flips when you say “no”
Isn’t hurt — she’s exposed.
Her intentions just got denied.
10. Respect yourself enough to say no.
And wise up fast — your money will never buy you real love.
FINAL WARNING:
If a woman’s respect disappears the moment the money stops,
That wasn’t love — it was a transaction disguised as affection.
Stop calling it chemistry.
Stop calling it connection.
It’s a trap.
Built to drain you, blame you, and shame you when you walk away.
Build with a woman who brings peace, not pressure.
She’s rare — but she exists.
Until then, protect your soul and your wallet.
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