28/07/2021
One most amazing review, by John, of my book, Life Anon: A 12-step guide to life for non-addicts. Read and buy the book:
"Life Anonymous?? For people addicted to Life??
According to Richard Rohr*, a globally recognized teacher and writer, "Most people's initial level of free response is very limited. While thinking they are surely 'doing their own thing, they are almost totally programmed, conditioned, and addicted to everybody else's thing and everybody else's wounding. Substance addictions like alcohol and drugs are merely the most visible form of addiction, but actually we are all addicted to our own habitual way of doing anything, our own defenses, and most especially, our patterned way of thinking, or how we process our reality"
We're all familiar with Alcoholics Anonymous, an organization credited for the rehabilitation of millions of alcoholics worldwide for over 60 years. Along the way, many other addictive disorders have (thankfully) been recognized: addiction to narcotics, overeating, Anorexia, sex/love addiction (more properly, an Intimacy disorder), Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Codependency, anxiety, anger, to name but a few.
The approach all these 12-step programs follow, is to dig below the manifesting addictive behaviors to identify the so-called underlying character defects, ie. the root causes of these addictive behaviors - typical examples being anxiety, low self-esteem, anger, fear, etc. In doing so, recovering addicts come to realize that the same character defects which manifest in the presenting addictive behaviour, are also manifesting simultaneously in other life-related aberrant behaviours and that the 12-step principles of recovery can be applied in those areas also!
Building on Richard Rohr's premise, Life Anon recognizes that everyone is addicted to something! .... that we ALL need help in one way or another. Life Anon thus adapts the 12 step program to address these same principles (and steps) to Life in general.
In recognizing that we react (rather than respond) to circumstances in unhealthy ways we are able to change these behaviours.
Life Anon is a workbook, being a very practical guide to identifying our aberrant behaviours and finding ways to remedy them.
Just as the traditional 12-step program has been invaluable to me in my journey of recovery from a recognized addiction, I have likewise found Life Anon invaluable in recognizing and correcting life-related aberrant behaviours.
Highly recommended!
*Breathing Underwater, Spirituality and the 12 steps" 2011, Franciscan Media"
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