25/04/2026
Celebrating the house warming ceremony of Xhamelas .
PS;
For those who don’t understand the language
Generally , with Black African cultures (even beyond SA), parents celebrate their offspring’s success through survival of childbirth complications , motherhood obstacles , child rearing practices.., some women don’t survive such .
It is common then when celebrating success of your son or daughter , the songs lean towards surviving the above : the mother could have been a maternal mortality statistic etc
Hence some songs could be (mis)interpreted as sexual
This song: “we are parents.. we should be celebrating … even whatever sexual positions we were exposed to that resulted into conception .., we celebrate the outcomes …
2. So, when you attend a son’s initiation / circumcising ceremony, or daughter’s intonjane (as is with Zulu virgins celebration etc), for mothers like me ( I have 2 biological daughter,s, 2 adopted daughters, 2 inherited daughters, 2 grand daughters), expect such explicit sexual song .