23/01/2026
I often see well-meaning family members speak to their loved ones with aphasia as if they're children. It's heartbreaking to watch because I can see the hurt in my client's eyes.
Having a language disorder doesn't mean you've lost your intellect, maturity, or dignity. The person you're speaking to has lived a full adult life. They have work experience, relationships, knowledge—all of it is still there. They just can't access or express language easily.
Here's how to help without infantilising: Use simple sentence structures. Speak at a moderate pace. Give them time. But maintain your adult vocabulary and tone. Show respect.
"Would you like some tea?" is perfect. "Do you want some yummy tea tea?" is absolutely not.
Communication support should preserve dignity, not diminish it.
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