14/02/2025
Iām Dumisani Mbangata, and I want to share my journey of living with hearing loss. Growing up in Mthatha, I didnāt understand what was happening to me and as I got older, things only got much harder. I have endured bullying, discrimination, and abuse, simply because I couldnāt hear like everyone else. My hearing got progressively worse and in 2009, I lost my hearing completely. I was in grade 4 and I had to repeat the year because I was unable to learn.
Two years later I was fitted with hearing aids, but I was ashamed to wear them. Other kids mocked me, and I struggled to accept that I was deaf. I didnāt know much about hearing loss back then, and it made me feel like an outsider. When I was 14, things got even worse with constant bullying and teasing. I started rugby to build confidence and defend myself. Rugby taught me discipline and helped me connect with others. I also found comfort in reading, which helped me improve my vocabulary and cope with the challenges I faced.
At 16, my only hearing aid broke, and I couldnāt afford to fix it. I had to rely on my classmates for notes, which made my grades suffer, but I remained determined to pass. Things started to change when I moved to a new school, where I felt accepted and understood. The teachers there were supportive, and I began to embrace who I was, proudly wearing my hearing aids and encouraging others to do the same.
In 2021, after years of struggling, I received a cochlear implant, which changed my life! Today, I work as a Child and Youth Care Worker in Cape Town, helping vulnerable children and teenagers. My experience has fuelled my passion to raise awareness about hearing loss and help others who are going through what I went through.
To anyone struggling with hearing loss or facing challenges, I want to say: itās not the end of the road. Keep going, ask for help, and believe in yourself. Thereās always hope, and thereās always a way forward.