Siqalo Nlp&life coach and speaker

Siqalo Nlp&life coach and speaker developing and motivating you to be great at work, home, and socially.

12/11/2025

A gentle reminder: You can listen to feedback without letting it break you.

Their criticism is their opinion. Your self-criticism? That shapes your reality.

Be kind to yourself today. What's one thing you're proud of yourself for? 👇

26/10/2025

🌙 You feel like you’ve lost your faith.
You feel like it’s tearing you apart.

But what if this isn’t the end—what if it’s a sacred pause? A moment where the soul is being prepared, not abandoned?

You are not alone in this feeling. Many have walked through valleys of doubt, fear, and spiritual silence. And in that silence, it’s easy to believe you’ve been forgotten.

But faith is not a place you leave forever.
It is a home that waits for you.

Come back to faith — you will be received. You will be restored. You will be loved, exactly as you are.

Even now, grace is whispering your name.
You don’t have to have all the answers.
You don’t have to be perfect.
You only have to turn around.

The path is still there.
The door is still open.
You are already being called back.

💫 You are not lost. You are being found.

18/10/2025

Hey everyone, let's talk about something that doesn't get enough honest conversation: Imposter Syndrome.

You know that sneaky voice in your head that whispers, "You're a fraud," "You don't belong here," or "Everyone is about to find out you have no idea what you're doing"? 🙈 Yeah, that. It affects high achievers, creatives, students, CEOs, and pretty much everyone in between.

I'm raising awareness about this because I believe the best way to silence that voice is to bring it into the light. You are NOT alone in feeling this way.

Let's do a little community brainstorming right here!

👇 In the comments, I'd love to know:

1. What's your go-to tactic for quieting your imposter syndrome? (e.g., "I keep a 'win folder' of nice emails," "I talk to a mentor," "I just fake it till I make it!")
2. What's one thing you've accomplished that your imposter syndrome tried to downplay? 🎉 (Big or small—let's celebrate it!)

This is a safe space. Let's share, support each other, and remind ourselves that we are more capable than we think.

Please give this post a 👍 LIKE if you've ever felt this way, SHARE it to spread the word to others who might need to see this, and jump into the COMMENTS to brainstorm with us!

12/10/2025

Feeling Stuck? Let's Change the Course of Our Lives Together!

Hey everyone,

I just finished a book that felt like it was reading my mind. It described exactly that feeling of being stagnant, knowing you have a destiny, but needing that spark or that guide to help you find the path.

It got me thinking: What are the books that have truly changed your life?

I'm not just talking about good books, but the ones that felt like a key unlocking a door you didn't even know was closed. The ones that shifted your perspective, gave you courage, or handed you the map when you were utterly lost.

I'll start! Here are a few that have this legendary status for me and millions of others. If you're feeling a little stuck or just curious, maybe one of these will be your next catalyst.

1. "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho 🏜️
· Why it changes lives: This is the ultimate parable about following your "Personal Legend." It’s a beautiful, simple story that reminds you to listen to the omens, trust the journey, and understand that the treasure was often within you all along.

2. "Atomic Habits" by James Clear ⚛️
· Why it changes lives: If you feel stagnant, this book is the ultimate practical guide to getting unstuck. It proves you don't need massive action—just tiny, consistent changes that build into remarkable results. It hands you the tools to become the person you want to be.

3. "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl 💙
· Why it changes lives: This one is heavy but profoundly liberating. Frankl, a Holocaust survivor, teaches that our primary drive is not pleasure, but the discovery of meaning. His central lesson—that we cannot always choose our circumstances, but we can always choose our attitude—is life-altering.

4. "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey 🌲
· Why it changes lives: This is the classic guide to moving from dependence to independence to interdependence. It’s not about quick fixes; it's about building a character-based foundation for a life of integrity and effectiveness. The chapter "Begin with the End in Mind" alone can change your entire trajectory.

5. "Daring Greatly" by Brené Brown 🛡️
· Why it changes lives: Stagnation is often rooted in fear—fear of failure, fear of what others think. Brené Brown's research on vulnerability gave me the courage to step into the arena, embrace imperfection, and understand that true connection and courage require showing up, even when you can't control the outcome.

Now, I'm turning it over to YOU! 📚

My bookshelf is hungry for its next life-changing read.

👉 What is ONE book that fundamentally changed your course?
👉Tag a friend who needs to read your recommendation!

Like, share, and comment below—let's create a massive, crowd-sourced reading list for transformation. You never know, your suggestion might be the exact map someone else needs to find their way.

31/08/2025

Ever feel like you're running a marathon but everyone else is on a sprint? 🏃‍♀️💨

I'm learning (and re-learning!) that everything of value, everything of quality, takes time. Good things grow slowly. Strong foundations aren't built in a day. And that includes ourselves.

Be patient with your journey. Trust the process. You are exactly where you need to be.

Tag a friend who needs to hear this today. ❤️

09/08/2025

"Happy Women's Day to all the incredible women out there! 🌟

To the women in prisons, hospitals, at work, school, and home—your presence enriches our lives. May you be seen, accepted, and celebrated for who you are. You matter, and your roles as mothers, sisters, wives, widows, and more are invaluable.

Let's also acknowledge the importance of authentic representation. Men playing women's roles in movies can be just as misguided as casting outside of racial context. We appreciate your strength and resilience.

Here's to the women who inspire us every day. 💪🏽 "

I made some minor changes to enhance the message while keeping it heartfelt and meaningful.

Self-care isn't selfish. It's an OBLIGATION. 💪 Stop waiting for someone else to take care of you. You are obligated to t...
22/07/2025

Self-care isn't selfish. It's an OBLIGATION. 💪

Stop waiting for someone else to take care of you. You are obligated to take care of yourself and your well-being. Never be apologetic about it.

For me right now? It means finally making time to read that book I've always wanted to start and finish. 📚 (No more excuses!)

What does self-care mean to YOU right now?** Share below! 👇 Let's inspire each other.

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