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03/03/2017

The Top 3 Things Men Want You to Know During S*x
By: Eric Jensen
As a woman, you’ve got little to go on when it comes to knowing what men are thinking at any given time. Does he like your new haircut? Is he planning on taking you out for Valentine’s Day? Did he hear what you just said?
Who knows.
But during s*x, the male mystery gets really…real. You’re rolling around in the sheets together, naked, completely vulnerable, and you’ve got no earthly idea what he’s thinking!
Well, straight from the horse’s mouth, here are the 3 things that men are desperate for you to know about during s*x.

1. “We’re worried what you think of our bodies.”

We hear a lot of women say they’re nervous about their bodies during s*x. But are we considering the shape of your breasts or the fact that you’ve got a little stubble down there? No, we are most definitely not worrying or even thinking about these things. If we’re having s*x with you, you look … amazing.

With that being said, we are pretty self-conscious about our own looks. It has a lot to do with whether we have man b***s or a beer gut, but mostly it’s about how big we are. We want to know how we measure up—literally—and it freaks us out that we may be on the small side.

The stats say it all. In a 2015 study from the British Journal of Urology*, the majority of men polled were sure that their p***s was smaller than they were in reality. So if we seem a little tense, that’s probably what we’re freaking out about.

2. “We’re just as into cuddling as you are.”

You know those romantic comedies where the guy can’t stand cuddling and just wants s*x? Inaccurate. In fact, we love a good cuddle. A study from the Archives of S*xual Behavior actually found that men see cuddling as more important in a relationship than s*x*.

Listen, if we’re dating, we like you. We want to be around you. And we probably want to be touching you as much as humanly possible. So it makes sense that being sidled up against you under a cozy blanket on the couch or lying in bed is just about the best case scenario for us, and we love it.

3. “We’re more alike when it comes to s*x than you think.”

Men have a rap for being s*x maniacs. The trope is that at any given moment, our minds are buzzing with images of breasts, vaginas and flexible bedroom positions. Ok. This may be true sometimes. But really, there’s more going on in there than you know.

Women are emotional beings, and we get that. But we have emotions too; the truth is we just show them differently. While you may be able to gush a whole paragraph about how you feel, we may only be able to muster a, “I really like you a lot.” That sentence may seem dull and short to you, but it took everything we had to get it out, and we really meant it. We’re just as complex and emotional as you. We just often don’t express it the same way you do.

These are definitely three surprising facts that give you more insight into men … so do you want more?

The language of men has long been a mystery to women—especially in the bedroom. What’s going through his mind as you first start kissing and making out? What’s his response when you do that thing with your tongue? Should you say things? What things? What do men want?

Finally, your questions can be answered. An amazing, comprehensive resource is now available to all women who want to finally tap into their inner passionate selves and reveal the secrets of men. It’s called “The Language of Desire,” and it’s chockfull of vital tidbits and serious advice for satisfying the man of your dreams!

Learn the art of silent and verbal seduction. Find what will make his heart stop in bed. Learn how to be so s*xually confident and attractive that he can’t stop thinking about you when you’re not there.

02/03/2017

01/03/2017

10 Reasons Why Most Men Can’t Handle A Strong Woman
What exactly makes a strong woman? Her struggles, sacrifices, and selflessness. A strong woman has endured pain, overcome heart-wrenching experiences, and has allowed herself to be led by forgiveness. A strong woman has swam in deep and treacherous waters and held her breath as much as possible. This type of woman is self-sufficient, independent, loving, and has no fears of showing her vulnerability. The strong woman knows that one moment you are the teacher, and the next you might be the student. So, how does a woman like this keep a man?
Here are 10 reasons why most men can’t handle a strong woman:
1. A strong woman doesn’t need a man to fight for her.
A man needs to feel wanted. He needs to know that he is battling for the eternal love and admiration of his woman. A strong woman will show you that she loves her man, but she’s also independent and can manage on her own. The strong woman will fight for both of you, but she doesn’t need a man to fight her battles. If they have a problem, they deal with it. They don’t sit and wait, as victims, for a man to find the solution. Some men can’t handle this strength. If you choose to remain with this type of woman, be willing to walk beside her, not in front of her while pulling her to where you think she should be.
2. A strong woman knows what she wants.
Strong women know what they want, how to attain it, and remember all that they had to endure to get whatever they have. A woman like this knows what she wants. If she likes a man, she will go after him. She will not wait for the man to make the first move. Strong women have tenacious personalities that can be extremely intimidating for some men. They aren’t submissive. They love wholeheartedly and also can continue exploring the world, with a man or not. It takes a self-confident man to allow this type of personality to take charge.
3. A strong woman will require honesty and vulnerability.
Men have a hard time opening up to difficult questions. Strong women dive right into the depth of hurt, traumas, and life-changing experiences. They require a man who can be honest and vulnerable, because they have endured so much in their lives. They need to know that their mate can be available to navigate the ocean of uncertainties and travel the edges of madness. Strong women don’t fear the past. They excavate and search for those things that make us human. The strong woman will always find a strong man to stand tall with her in the face of diversity. Men tend to avoid vulnerability because they feel weak.
4. A strong woman is not intimidated by intimacy.
The strong woman will challenge a man in the most intimate of ways. She will require intimacy in all forms, from conversation to making love. She will hold nothing back. Because a strong woman is comfortable with her femininity, she will expect her man to also be open to all aspects of intimacy. She requires passion, desire and feel like she’s the one.
5. A strong woman can see right through lies.
Strong women are honest and expect complete trust in a relationship. She can sense lies in an instant, so don’t try to sugarcoat a white lie. Don’t give her bogus explanations. She has the ability to be a human lie detector. Being in a relationship with a strong woman requires that there is no holding back. She will never tolerate a sense of falseness and selfishness. If you can’t be with her completely, she will have no problem discarding you.
6. A strong woman requires integrity and consistency.
Women who have inner strength cannot tolerate irregularity or indecisive personalities. They want to know that the man they love has integrity, respect, and is a man of his word. If they start to feel that their man is pulling away, they will react accordingly and have no problem letting him go if they feel they are being played. They want to feel like they are loved unconditionally. If they feel disrespected, they will have no issues setting that on track. The worst thing you can do to a strong woman is make her feel weak.
7. A strong woman is intense.
A strong woman has endured extraordinary challenges and obstacles in her life. She has had to be extremely powerful. She knows she can endure anything else in her path, so this kind of intensity is often times difficult for a man to understand. It’s intimidating because of all the emotions and thoughts that come with this type of persona. She is willing to share her scars, and expects you to do the same. There are no secrets in her world.
8. A strong woman will not wait for you.
This type of woman will follow you to the depth of hell if she knows you are committed to her. However, the moment you start to pull back, she will let you go. She will not wait for a man to decide if he wants her or someone better. Strong women don’t play little girly games. You are either in, or you are out. They will get hurt, lick their own wounds, and get back up ready to conquer whatever is next.
9. A strong woman will love you unconditionally.
The love from a strong woman is faithful. Just like mothers with their children, the strong woman will nurture and love her man fiercely. When she feels that love in return, she will do anything she can to make him feel loved. She will support him, help him, and fight for him to get what he deserves. Some men can’t handle this kind of unconditional love. They get frightened by the intensity and depth of giving. Many times it is in this stage that men flee from a strong woman. And, just as deeply as she loved you, she will also let you go. She knows her worth.
10. A strong woman will show you who you are.
It’s hard to accept the things we don’t like about ourselves when someone points them out. But, a strong woman will mirror those parts in her man that need addressing. She will be there to help show you how amazing and powerful you are. She will stand by you and show you worth, acceptance, and confidence. Some men cannot handle the emotional chaos that comes up with this projection. Strong woman will find strong men. The weak ones won’t make it past the first few dates.
They don’t know what to do with the honesty, strength, intelligence and independence. A strong man, most likely, was raised by a strong woman and will either deal with the dark night of the soul or leave. Strong women have no time to play games. So, if you can handle the intensity, love, honesty, and conversations, you might just be that strong man who can complement this type of woman.

27/02/2017

27/02/2017

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17/02/2017

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15/02/2017

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14/02/2017

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14/02/2017

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13/02/2017

Coffee Break Read: Female​ S*xual Health Issues

It is important for you to understand the many s*xual health issues your female customers may be facing. Learning about these issues will give you the confidence to educate your customers and recommend products that can help them.

Vulvar and Vaginal Pain
Vulvar and vaginal pain have many different causes. When a woman experiences any type of v***ar or vaginal pain, she should see her health care provider to determine the cause and treatment options.

Here are some of the most common types of v***ar and vaginal pain that women experience:

Vaginal Dryness
Vaginal pain due to dryness in the vaginal canal is very common and can easily be remedied with the use of a moisturizing cream or lubricant. Vaginal dryness can be caused by low estrogen levels resulting from childbirth, breastfeeding, menopause (natural or surgically induced), or from other factors like a lack of arousal, stress, some medications, hormonal birth control, and smoking. Using a water-based lubricant to help with vaginal dryness during s*xual activity will moisten the vaginal walls, making penetrative s*xual activity more comfortable and enjoyable. For intense vaginal dryness, a vaginal moisturizer can be used on a regular basis to replenish moisture in the vaginal walls and help them recover lost elasticity.

Vaginal Infection
A vaginal infection can cause vaginal pain. An infection may be caused by bacteria (like with bacterial vaginitis), a fungus (like a yeast infection), or a parasite (like the s*xually transmitted infection trichomoniasis, or trich). It is important for a woman to seek treatment from her health care provider if she notices an unusual odor, discharge, itching, or any sort of irritation that doesn’t go away. To help prevent the spread of an infection, bedroom accessories should be covered with a condom and limited to use by one person.

Vulvodynia
Vulvodynia is defined as chronic pain or discomfort of the v***a with no identifiable cause. The location and severity of the pain varies greatly among women who suffer from this condition. The pain can be in one area, multiple areas or move around. Pain or discomfort on the v***a can feel like burning, stinging, or irritation. There is no cure for vulvodynia, but doctors can help a woman manage the pain, and lifestyle modifications can be made to ease a woman’s pain or discomfort.
Pure Romance Product Recommendations

You can recommend the following Pure Romance products to customers​ who are experiencing vaginal pain.

Foreplay: Spend more time in foreplay by using Dust Me Pink or the Blindfold to help build arousal and lubrication. Explore and find new erogenous areas on the body that can turn you on with touch or stimulation.​
Enhancement Product: Use Pure, Boost, "O", or Amp to increase arousal.
Water-based Lubricant: A water-based lubricant, such as Just Like Me, can help make s*x feel more comfortable and pleasurable for a woman experiencing vaginal dryness, as it will mimic her natural moisture and is pH balanced.
Cl****al Vi****or: Use Please Me to help increase arousal and lubrication.

Customers should consult with their health care provider to see if Kegel muscle exercisers like the Ben Wa Balls or Personal Trainer will help increase vaginal muscle tone and blood flow to the vaginal walls. These tools can help some women with certain types of vaginal pain.

Remind your customers that they should consult their doctor or other health care professional with any health-related issues they experience. Only a health care professional will know the full picture of their patient’s health, including their medical history.​​​​​​​​​

12/02/2017

Female​ S*xual Health Issues

It is important for you to understand the many s*xual health issues your female customers may be facing. Learning about these issues will give you the confidence to educate your customers and recommend products that can help them.
Vulvar and Vaginal Pain

Vulvar and vaginal pain have many different causes. When a woman experiences any type of v***ar or vaginal pain, she should see her health care provider to determine the cause and treatment options.

Here are some of the most common types of v***ar and vaginal pain that women experience:
Vaginal Dryness

Vaginal pain due to dryness in the vaginal canal is very common and can easily be remedied with the use of a moisturizing cream or lubricant. Vaginal dryness can be caused by low estrogen levels resulting from childbirth, breastfeeding, menopause (natural or surgically induced), or from other factors like a lack of arousal, stress, some medications, hormonal birth control, and smoking. Using a water-based lubricant to help with vaginal dryness during s*xual activity will moisten the vaginal walls, making penetrative s*xual activity more comfortable and enjoyable. For intense vaginal dryness, a vaginal moisturizer can be used on a regular basis to replenish moisture in the vaginal walls and help them recover lost elasticity.
Vaginal Infection

A vaginal infection can cause vaginal pain. An infection may be caused by bacteria (like with bacterial vaginitis), a fungus (like a yeast infection), or a parasite (like the s*xually transmitted infection trichomoniasis, or trich). It is important for a woman to seek treatment from her health care provider if she notices an unusual odor, discharge, itching, or any sort of irritation that doesn’t go away. To help prevent the spread of an infection, bedroom accessories should be covered with a condom and limited to use by one person.

Vulvodynia

Vulvodynia is defined as chronic pain or discomfort of the v***a with no identifiable cause. The location and severity of the pain varies greatly among women who suffer from this condition. The pain can be in one area, multiple areas or move around. Pain or discomfort on the v***a can feel like burning, stinging, or irritation. There is no cure for vulvodynia, but doctors can help a woman manage the pain, and lifestyle modifications can be made to ease a woman’s pain or discomfort.
Pure Romance Product Recommendations

You can recommend the following Pure Romance products to customers​ who are experiencing vaginal pain.

Foreplay: Spend more time in foreplay by using Dust Me Pink or the Blindfold to help build arousal and lubrication. Explore and find new erogenous areas on the body that can turn you on with touch or stimulation.​
Enhancement Product: Use Pure, Boost, "O", or Amp to increase arousal.
Water-based Lubricant: A water-based lubricant, such as Just Like Me, can help make s*x feel more comfortable and pleasurable for a woman experiencing vaginal dryness, as it will mimic her natural moisture and is pH balanced.
Cl****al Vi****or: Use Please Me to help increase arousal and lubrication.

Customers should consult with their health care provider to see if Kegel muscle exercisers like the Ben Wa Balls or Personal Trainer will help increase vaginal muscle tone and blood flow to the vaginal walls. These tools can help some women with certain types of vaginal pain.

Remind your customers that they should consult their doctor or other health care professional with any health-related issues they experience. Only a health care professional will know the full picture of their patient’s health, including their medical history.​​​​​​​​​