Revive HER The Midlife Awakening with Anjana

24/08/2025

21/08/2025

🚦 THE RED LIGHT IS SHINING

For years, you’ve been stuck in traffic on someone else’s road.
Idling at red lights you didn’t choose.
Merging into lanes that never felt like yours.
Slamming the brakes on your truth—just to keep the peace.

But what if you could take the exit ramp off called- " The GOOD GIRL EXIT"?
What if you could trade the backseat for the driver’s seat…
and finally steer toward your own freedom, desires, and voice?

🚦 THE ORANGE LIGHT IS ON - WARNING LADIES
✨ A new road is opening soon… and it’s for every woman who’s tired of driving on empty, running other people’s errands, and following maps that were never hers.

I can’t spill all the details yet, but here’s your road sign:
👉 5 days
👉 5 exits
👉 One unforgettable ride back to you

💋 Buckle up, beauty—the engine is running, and the green light is coming.

18/08/2025

🌸 MIDLIFE TRUTH: Rewriting the Love Story They Never Taught Us 🌸

Stop chasing someone to love you.
Start becoming someone you can love.

Here’s the secret the “good girl” was never told:
She was trained to earn love through pleasing, perfecting, and performing. But that isn’t love. It’s survival.

You dream of a partner who is:
✅ Loyal ✅ Supportive ✅ Safe ✅ Confident ✅ Present

But what if the real work is becoming that partner for yourself?

Because the first relationship you’re always in… is with you.
And for many women, that relationship is built on self-abandonment, guilt, and strings-attached love. GOOD GIRL STUFF.

That’s why love often feels like chasing relief, not connection.
Not romance. A painkiller.

But here’s the truth: until you build a love story with yourself, every other relationship will feel off. Something always feels missing.

So stop asking: “How do I get them to love me?”
Start asking: “Am I being someone I can love?”

💠 That’s the REVIVE HER path.
Not just healing. Homecoming.
Not just self-care. Self-devotion. Self Love

Because when you love you…It feels like home. 🕊️

Its time to come home - my midlife queen.

14/08/2025

Name Change - From the Rejuvenated woman in Midlife to Revive HER - the Midlife awakening. WHY?

For a long time, my business page was called -
The Rejuvenated Woman in Midlife. It was beautiful, heartfelt… and it represented where my work began. YES however...

As I’ve evolved, and as I’ve listened deeply to the women who come into my world, I’ve realized something:
Most of us don’t start this journey feeling “rejuvenated.”

We start tired.
We start wondering where we went.
We start quietly aching for more — more voice, more freedom, more us. The Whole Of US!!

That’s why I felt called to rename this space Revive Her™: The Midlife Awakening.

Because “revive her™” is where the real magic begins.
It’s that sacred moment when you decide to come back to yourself after years (or decades) of living for everyone else.
It’s not just a new chapter — it’s an awakening.
A remembering.
A rising.

And while we talk about reclaiming your voice and shedding the “Generational Good Girl” conditioning…
we also honour the whole midlife journey — body, mind, and soul.
💠 The body that has carries you through storms and seasons.
💠 The mind that’s ready to release old patterns and invite new possibilities.
💠 The soul that has been whispering, “It’s time to come home.”

This new name holds the truth of the work we do here:
✨ Coming alive in every part of you.
✨ Reclaiming your voice without apology.
✨ Stepping into midlife as the most authentic, powerful version of you.

If you’ve been feeling the stir of something bigger inside you — the quiet nudge saying it’s time — this is your sign.

Welcome to REViVE HER™: The Midlife Awakening.
This isn’t just a page.
It’s a movement. Strong. Quiet. Impactful.
And it’s your invitation to rise (at your own rhythm and beat) — body, mind, and soul. 💎

Welcome REViVE HER™ where The Good Girl Exits™

13/08/2025

A Revive Her movement isn’t just about sessions, programs, or packages.
It’s about creating a wave so powerful it carries women out of the old “Good Girl” conditioning and into a life where they own their worth, their voice, and their visibility.

This isn’t about chasing fame or building a business for the sake of numbers.
It’s about answering the deeper call:
💎 What does your soul want to give the world that will outlive you?

My movement is not just coaching.
My movement is Revive Her—helping midlife women shed generations of self-silencing, cultural obedience, and quiet suffering so they can stand rooted in who they are and lead lives that feel like theirs.

Revive Her means identity revival.
It’s about shifting how a woman sees herself—not as someone who exists to please, but as someone whose very presence changes the atmosphere in every room she walks into.
And here’s the magic: when she claims her personal power, she gives silent permission for others to do the same.

This is not small work.
It’s not tidy.
And it’s definitely not for the faint-hearted.

I’m not “just” a coach.
I’m a woman on a mission to burn down the outdated Good Girl scripts we were handed… and throw a block party in the ashes.

Because let’s be real… coaching is great.
But movements?
Movements shake the ground you walk on.
Movements make your mother-in-law raise an eyebrow.
Movements change the inheritance we pass to the next generation of women.

My movement?
Revive Her: Authenticity Beyond Generational Good Girl Conditioning.

I’m coming for the invisible rulebook that told us to be agreeable, accommodating, and so quiet you could hear the kettle boil. The one that made us smile politely while our dreams quietly packed up and left.

I’m done with it.
Done with “Be nice.”
Done with “Don’t cause trouble.”
Done with “Good girls don’t…” (You can fill in the blank — I’ve heard them all.)

Here’s what I’m here for:
✨ Women who speak without shrinking their voice.
✨ Women who make choices without needing permission slips.
✨ Women who can say “No” without guilt and “Yes” without fear.

Because I believe authenticity is the root.
And when you live it unapologetically… freedom is the fruit.

This isn’t just self-help fluff.
This is Revive Her work—generational repair, identity reclamation, and unapologetic liberation.

If that makes me “too much,” good.
If that makes someone uncomfortable, even better.

I’m not here to make everyone happy.
I’m here to make women free.

authenticity is the root.
freedom is the fruit.
And in my world? We’re planting a whole damn orchard.

11/08/2025

rom FOMO to FOBI — The Hidden Switch in the Good Girl Exit

We’ve all heard of FOMO — Fear of Missing Out.
It’s that restless little voice that pushes you to say yes to things you don’t actually want to do.
It’s what had you signing up, showing up, and smiling through events, conversations, and commitments that drained you.
Why?
Because the Good Girl conditioning taught you that being included meant you were liked, accepted, safe.

But here’s the quiet truth no one talks about:
Sometimes, being included is exactly what keeps you stuck.

That’s where FOBI comes in — Fear of Being Included.
The moment you step onto the Revive Her path, FOBI becomes your ally.
It’s not about isolation or pushing people away.
It’s about finally recognizing that not every circle deserves you.
Not every conversation deserves your energy.
Not every seat at the table is worth the cost of your soul.

When you’ve spent decades in FOMO mode…

You said yes before you even thought about what you wanted.

You kept peace at the expense of your own.

You stayed visible in spaces where your true self was invisible.

Now, with FOBI…

You pause before you agree.

You check in with yourself: “Do I even want this?”

You let the wrong invitations pass without guilt.

FOBI is not fear in the old sense — it’s discernment dressed as courage.
It’s your inner knowing saying:

“Not every party, project, or partnership is my path. My belonging is not for sale.”

This is the Good Girl Exit in action.
It’s moving from being afraid to miss out…
…to being relieved to miss out.
Because missing out on the wrong thing is actually protecting your right thing.

When you live in FOBI:

Your calendar is lighter.

Your boundaries are stronger.

Your voice is clearer.

Your energy is yours again.

And that’s when you realise — the truest form of inclusion is including yourself in your own life.

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03/08/2025

NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU
And thank goddess for that.

Because the “Good Girl” in you? She’s been waiting. Waiting for permission. Waiting for validation. Waiting for someone to say, “You’re allowed to want more.”

But here’s the truth bomb: No one is coming. Not Prince Charming. Not the boss who finally sees your worth. Not the family member who suddenly understands your boundaries.

And you know what? That’s liberating as hell.

Because it means the power isn’t out there. It’s in you. In your voice. In your rage. In your dreams that refuse to die quietly.

The Good Girl was trained to be polite, pleasing, and palatable. But the woman you are now? She’s done waiting. She’s rewriting the damn story.

So today, let this be your Good Girl Exit. Not with a whisper. But with a roar.

🦸‍♀️ You don’t need saving. You need remembering. Of who you were before the world told you who to be.

Drop a 🔥 if you’re done waiting. Tag a sister who’s ready to rise. Let’s make “No one is coming to save you” the most empowering thing we’ve ever heard.

31/07/2025

STOP MAKING YOURSELF POOR, STOP SAYING YOU DON'T HAVE, THAT YOU DON'T GET ENOUGH, THAT YOU EARN LITTLE.

Because if you live declaring poverty, poverty is what you're going to get.
Also, break that bad habit of playing the victim.
You're never gonna get better like this.

The first thing you need to change is your
SELF-CONCEPT.

You are not poor, you are just broke.
The money will come, you will get it.
But first you must get a new state of mind.
Remember that your Financial status is only a reflection of your mental state..

so if in your mind you see money, you see wealth, you see opportunities, you see progress, soon, that will be reflected in your pockets.

The second thing to improve, is your evaluation.
Don't settle for small things, go for big.
Learn to manage when you have, do not spend for spending define your priorities well
The third thing to improve is your language.
Change your words.

There are people who talk all day about illnesses or that they don't get enough.
You ask them how you’re doing, and they answer almost reluctantly: “Here, sort of.” "Having a good time" "here with nothing, on the edge of indigence." Others say: "you don't earn, but you enjoy."

If you realize, those are expressions that become seeds of more need..
Change your words, move to the wealth lane.
When they ask you how you are, reply with attitude: "One million. "Advancing the whole machine"". Nice. " " Positive. "Your words create a new vibration.

Credit:Billionaires Wisdom

29/07/2025

20/07/2025

We Got Authenticity All Wrong 2

We were told:
✨ “Cut them off.”
✨ “Protect your energy.”
✨ “Walk away to rise.”

Sometimes, yes. But not always.

Authenticity isn’t an exit.
It’s a re-entry—on your terms.

It says:
“I care for you, but I care for me too.”
“I’ve changed—but I’m still here.”

Growth is messy.
People will say “You’ve changed” like it’s a flaw.
(It’s not. It’s just unfamiliar.)

Your silence isn’t distance—it’s depth.
You didn’t vanish. You evolved.

Authenticity doesn’t mean leaving people.
It means leaving roles that kept you small.

You’re not cutting ties—
You’re cutting scripts.

Let them meet you again.
The real you.
The whole you.

You belong. Boldly.
No performance required.

18/07/2025

The Myth of the Generational Good Girl

She’s obedient. She’s self-sacrificing. She’s seen, not heard. The "Good Girl" in Indian society isn’t just an identity—it’s an inheritance. An ingrained inheritance that is weaved deeply in our DNA.

For many Gen X women born between the mid-60s and 70s, this silent code was stitched into childhoods, whispered through rituals, school rules, television serials, and kitchen conversations. An invisible thread stitched so intricately people-pleasing, self-sacrficing, birn to make everyone happy.

But what happens when a generation raised to be pleasing, polite, perfect starts craving power? Freedom? A voice?

Are you craving for using your inner power?

Image by co-pilot

17/07/2025

𝐈 𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐋𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐌𝐘 𝐕𝐎𝐈𝐂𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐖𝐄𝐄𝐊
This week, I lost my voice.
Literally. No sound. No whisper. Just silence.
That is so foreign for a person who love to talk. Its one of my hobbies.

But as I sat in that stillness, I realized…
This wasn’t just about swollen vocal cords.
It was a sacred message from my body. It triggered something & I think its got to do with a person who had an issue with me using AI. It was the strangest experience. Like she was the VOICE police. I am still baffled with this experience. However it brought up the issue of being real. How do we integrate AI with our real human voice. The ethical use of AI – jury is still out on this.

For decades, I silienced to avoid conflict.
Smiled when I wanted to scream.
Nodded when I disagreed.
Spoke “nice YES” and “doesn’t matter whatever you want to do” to keep people around me happy. Oh I was liked loved for this.
That, my friends, is the Good Girl conditioning —
The deeply ingrained pattern of playing small,
being polite,
pleasing others,
and silencing ourselves.
So when my voice disappeared this week, I didn’t just rest my throat.
I grieved all the times I had swallowed my truth as I didn’t feel safe
I honoured the younger me who thought silence meant safety and being loved
And I whispered to my soul: It’s safe to speak now. Even if your voice shakes.

Losing my voice wasn’t a weakness. Time to go within. Connect with inner wisdom.
It was a rebirth.
A shedding. A sacred pause. A quiet revolution. (I like quiet, soft transformation)
Because the REAL voice — the one rooted in truth, not performance — doesn’t need to shout. It waits for us to come home.

🗣️ 𝐒𝐨 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞…🗣️
𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟:
𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭?
𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐈 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐢𝐟 𝐈 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧?

It’s time to reclaim your voice. 𝐑𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐯𝐞-𝐇𝐄𝐑™

Dissolve the Good Girl mask. Resolve to own your voice. Evolve into the real woman you’ve been hiding