28/01/2026
๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ญ๐จ๐ซโ๐ฌ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ง๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ๐
My father was an ENT surgeon.
He was also my hero.
๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ก๐ ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ญ๐จ๐ซ.
๐๐ง ๐๐๐๐ญ, ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฆ๐.
Before I joined MBBS, he called up every senior doctor he knew โ his batchmates, his colleagues, his idols โ and told them,
โPlease talk to my son. Convince him not to take up medicine.โ
๐๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฒ,
โ๐๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐. ๐๐จ๐ฎโ๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ข๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ฒ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐๐ง๐ฌ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ๐งโ๐ญ ๐๐๐ซ๐.โ
I thought he was exaggerating. I was young, idealistic, and believed that purpose was everything.
So I became a doctor.
Years later, I understood what he meant.
๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐๐ค๐๐ฌ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ โ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก โ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐.
We train for a decade before we earn a stable income. We miss weddings, festivals, even funerals.
We put in the kind of effort that breaks the human body โ and then we walk into another 14-hour day because a patient needs us.
You give your youth to medicine.
And medicine, often, gives you fatigue in return.
My father used to say, โBeing a good doctor is easy. Being a happy one is hard.โ
Back then, I laughed. Now, I know he was right.
Because the world has changed.
The respect is fading.
The emotional and financial rewards donโt match the sacrifices.
Global portability? Non-existent. You can be a brilliant surgeon here and an anonymous immigrant abroad.
And every time a patient questions your intent, or an online troll questions your ethics, a small part of you breaks โ quietly, privately, invisibly.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ '๐๐จ๐๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ซ๐ฌ'.
Because somewhere along the way, society forgot that doctors are human too.
I have seen what this profession takes.
And thatโs why I have told everyone young in my family โ ๐๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ญ๐จ๐ซ.
Not because I regret being one.
But because I know what it costs.
The world has easier ways to make a living now. Ways that let you breathe, travel, create, sleep.
Ways that let you live and heal, without losing yourself.
Medicine gave me meaning.
But it also took more than I ever imagined.
So if you are a doctor reading this โ tell your children itโs okay not to follow in your footsteps.
Tell them itโs okay to dream beyond the stethoscope.
Because sometimes, love means not repeating the legacy.
It means protecting them from it.
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