01/12/2024
Healing isn’t something that happens to us—it’s something we choose.
It’s a conscious decision to walk through the fire, to feel what’s been buried, and to face what we’ve been avoiding.
And while it’s tempting to bypass the hard stuff, to distract ourselves or wait for time to do the work, the truth is undeniable: the only way through is the way through.
No amount of avoidance, numbing, or pretending will make the pain go away. It stays.
It lingers in our hearts, our bodies, our patterns—whispering through our relationships, our choices, and the way we see ourselves.
These unhealed wounds don’t fade on their own; they wait. Not to punish us, but to be seen, to be felt, and ultimately, to be released.
This is why healing must be a conscious act.
It requires us to say, “I am ready.”
Ready to meet the parts of ourselves we’ve ignored. Ready to hold space for our anger, sadness, fear, or grief without judgment.
Ready to honor the pain we’ve carried—not as a weight to bear but as a portal to freedom.
And let me be honest with you: healing isn’t easy.
In fact, at first, it often feels harder than staying where you are. It asks you to sit with discomfort, to confront truths you may not want to face, and to trust that you’re strong enough to handle it.
But here’s the deeper truth: avoiding the work doesn’t save you from the pain.
It keeps you trapped in it.
The patterns repeat.
The weight builds.
The ache deepens.
Healing is not about perfection or fixing yourself—it’s about remembering who you already are.
Whole.
Worthy.
Divine.
It’s about shedding the layers of fear, shame, and self-doubt that have kept you from fully living.
Because you weren’t meant to carry this heaviness forever.
When you choose to heal, you’re not just transforming your life—you’re breaking cycles that may have existed for generations.
You’re rewriting your story and creating a new legacy.
You’re choosing love over fear, freedom over limitation, and possibility over pain.
The way through will test you, no doubt about it. But it will also liberate you.
With every step you take, you’ll feel lighter. More aligned. More at home in your own skin.
And as you heal, you’ll notice something profound: your healing is a gift to the world.
The love, light, and wisdom that emerge from your journey ripple out, touching every person you meet, every space you enter.
So, why choose healing?
Because you deserve to live fully, not just survive.
Because the version of you that’s waiting on the other side of this work is radiant, powerful, and free.
And because the only way to that life, to that version of yourself, is through.
Healing isn’t easy, but it’s always worth it.
So, take a deep breath, hold your heart with compassion, and step forward.
The way through is calling you home.
Ayala Lamel
With love & light 💖
Monique - Aspects Kinesiology ✨