12/02/2026
Many people confuse pacing with avoidance.
But here’s the key difference:
Avoidance shrinks your world whereas pacing expands it.
Avoidance = reacting to fear
* stopping because of panic
* never attempting difficult things
* removing activities permanently
* reducing life demands
* reinforcing danger memories
Avoidance increases fear and sensitivity.
Pacing = planning your energy, and allows you to:
* stay active
* avoid overwhelming your system
* build tolerance gradually
* gain confidence
* reduce flare-ups
* stay consistent
* prevent the boom–bust cycle
Here’s how to start pacing effectively:
1. Break tasks into smaller steps
2. Add rest before you get tired
3. Alternate physical and mental loads
4. Prioritise, plan, and pause
5. Maintain consistency rather than intensity
6. Stay inside your “safe but challenging” zone
Pacing keeps you moving, safely.
And the nervous system learns from safe movement.