Michael Leak Counselling & Family Law Mediation

17/03/2026

I enjoy posts published on the Conscios Rethink - this article by Jack Nollan has some good pointers regarding more effective communication: clarifying intention, not jumping to assumptions based on your partner's actions, choosing the best time to communicate what you are feeling, using appropriate and proportional response to what is being shared with you, do not shame when correcting your partner, avoid sensitive topics when either of you are feeling emotional or overwhelmed, focus on the present and protecting the future, and maybe the most challenging, learn when to just keep your mouth shut.

Follow these principles if you want to learn how to be tactful when communicating with others.

11/11/2025

A great article that encapsulates many elements of family estrangement. I have deep personal experience in this regard and would be happy to work with clients who want to make sense of your own situation. Reach out via DM or WhatsApp 082 674 9481.

Cut-offs cut deep and wide, their emotional impact reverberating far beyond the combatants. Because much of the suffering is hidden, repair is challenging for everyone, not least of all therapists.

08/11/2025

Absolutely. It is easy for couples to blame each other instead of the problem.

22/10/2025

Relationships require strong foundations. This is a good read. What are your thoughts? What has helped create a solid relationship for you and your partner? What do you wish you had done sooner?

All marriages are stories, not of perfection, but of two individuals who make the choice, every day, to continue to construct together.

16/10/2025

Reminder: R500 reduced rate to kick-start your counselling journey in support of Mental Health Awareness Month. Only 2 weeks left.

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I am supporting World Mental Health Day by offering a reduced session rate R500.

10/10/2025

I am supporting World Mental Health Day by offering a reduced session rate R500.

08/10/2025

Interesting read around October Theory. What are your thoughts?

October theory can look good on paper but, like any other productivity system, can fail if you’re not realistic about it. Here are two ways to ensure it works for you.

01/10/2025

October is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time dedicated to educating the public about mental wellness, reducing the stigma associated with mental illness, and encouraging people to seek support in improving their mental wellbeing.

I’m often asked: “Is mental wellbeing part of mental health, or the other way around?”

The truth is, mental wellbeing is the foundation of mental health. It’s the daily experience of emotional balance, purpose, and connection, even when life gets tough. Mental health, on the other hand, includes both wellbeing and the presence or absence of mental illness.

Think of it like this:
• Mental wellbeing is how we thrive.
• Mental health is how we function across the full spectrum from flourishing to struggling.

Stephanie Murdock from Sanford OccMed positions this difference as such: “The primary difference between health and wellness is that health is the goal and wellness is the active process of achieving it.”
You can live with a mental health condition and still cultivate wellbeing. On the flip side, you can feel “fine” on the outside while your wellbeing quietly erodes.

Supporting mental wellbeing isn’t just about avoiding illness but also building resilience, meaning, and joy. But here’s the nuance: mental wellbeing is only one part of the overall wellbeing puzzle. True wellbeing also includes physical, emotional, spiritual, intellectual, environmental, occupational, social and financial wellbeing (Anderson, 2002). Each piece matters as they all interact, forming a system.

While some shifts are happening, barriers like limited access to care, affordability, and cultural silence around emotional support can make this journey more difficult. These challenges often discourage people from seeking help, even when they’re actively trying to maintain their wellbeing.

Another barrier that often goes unspoken is the fear of opening up, particularly when it comes to sharing personal struggles, relationship tensions, or what’s happening within the relationship. The idea of speaking to a professional can feel exposing, even risky, especially when trust has been eroded elsewhere. Therapeutic spaces are designed to honour your pace, your boundaries, and your story. Support doesn’t have to mean full disclosure from day one, and trust with your counsellor develops over time.

By normalising mental wellbeing as just one part of overall health, we open the door to more compassionate, inclusive care where seeking support is recognised as a courageous and necessary step toward wholeness.

In support of Mental Health Awareness month (October 2025) I’m offering a reduced rate of R500 for your first individual or relationship counselling session. If you’ve been considering support, this could be a gentle first step.

View my website at www.michaelleak.co.za or go directly to my booking profile and register and book your first session at https://clientportal.uk.zandahealth.com/clientportal/michaelleak

If you have any questions please WhatsApp me on +27826749481

10/04/2024

Why am I a counsellor? It is one of the ways I live out my mission of doing good in the world. I work with clients to identify the obstacles that are preventing them from living their best life, and then together we work out a plan to shifting these.

Go to my web site and then follow the link to schedule your first session. www.michaelleak.co.za

If you would to first have a free 30 minute intro/chemistry-check session WhatsApp me on 082 674 9481.

Michael Leak Counselling, Coaching & Mediation Home Counselling, Coaching & Mediation to help you live your best life.

17/03/2024

To all Followers of my Page, if you don't mind, please share my QR code with friends, colleagues, or clients (can be individuals, or couples) that could make use of, or that you know would benefit from counselling. Thank you.

04/03/2024

Putting clients in the driving seat - schedule your own appointments according to your availability: https://clientportal.uk.powerdiary.com/clientportal/michaelleak