Heather Fountain Hypnotherapy Clinical Hypnotherapist

Heather Fountain Hypnotherapy Clinical Hypnotherapist You can visit my website on www.heatherfountainhypnotherapy.com Covid 19 protocols are in place and will be practiced.

A questionnaire will be sent to you prior to come to the practice. Please arrive with a mask on and I will sanitize your hands before you enter the practice. A distance of 1.5 m must be observed at all times. The mask will remain on your face until I hypnotize you.

14/10/2025

Migraines and Unprocessed Trauma: A Complex Interplay

A significant and well-documented correlation exists between migraines and unprocessed trauma, which often remains overlooked due to the physical manifestation of symptoms despite potential emotional or neurological roots. The following breakdown elucidates this relationship:

1. Trauma and the Nervous System

Unresolved trauma can lead to a state of heightened nervous system vigilance (fight, flight, or freeze), resulting in:
• Overactivation of the amygdala (threat detection).
• Underregulation by the prefrontal cortex (rational calming).
• Tension in the autonomic nervous system, influencing blood vessels, pain pathways, and inflammatory responses—all factors directly linked to migraines.

2. Somatic Memory and Pain Pathways

Unprocessed trauma is often stored in the body as somatic memory, with migraines acting as a somatic expression of unhealed experiences. Common mechanisms include:
• Tightening of neck/shoulder muscles (protective body memory).
• Dysregulated pain circuits in the brain (neuroplastic changes caused by chronic stress).
• Migraine attacks acting as the body’s “release valve” for trapped emotional energy.

3. Stress, Triggers, and Flashbacks

Individuals with trauma histories often exhibit:
• Lower thresholds for stress—everyday pressures feel heavier.
• Heightened sensory sensitivity—to light, sound, and smells (all common migraine triggers).
• Migraines triggered by trauma reminders (subconscious flashbacks activating the same neural pathways).

4. Research Connection
• Studies demonstrate that people with Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) have significantly higher rates of migraines and chronic headaches.
• PTSD and complex trauma are associated with both the frequency and severity of migraines.
• Emotional suppression (not processing trauma) correlates with higher migraine occurrence.

5. Healing Perspective

Migraines in trauma survivors are best approached as both neurological and psychological:
• Hypnotherapy & psychotherapy: help process stored trauma and calm the nervous system.
• Somatic practices: grounding, breathwork, movement to release embodied tension.
• Neuroplasticity work: retraining pain pathways to reduce sensitivity.
• Lifestyle support: hydration, balanced sleep, reducing overstimulation.

In summary: Migraines can be seen as the body’s way of carrying unresolved trauma. Addressing the trauma—through safe processing, nervous system regulation, and integrative therapies—can reduce both the frequency and severity of migraine episodes.

14/10/2025

Who is a child that is parentified ?

Child who takes on roles and responsibilities that are typically the duty of a parent , emotionally, practically, or both.

This reversal of roles often occurs in dysfunctional family systems, where the child becomes the caretaker instead of being cared for.

Types of Parentification
1. Emotional Parentification
The child becomes the emotional support system for a parent or family member.
• Example: A child comforting their mother through her depression or marital conflict.
• Result: The child learns to suppress their own emotions to stabilize the parent.
2. Instrumental (Practical) Parentification
The child takes on adult responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning, managing finances, or looking after siblings.
• Example: An 8-year-old consistently caring for younger siblings because the parents are absent or unreliable.

Causes

Parentification can occur in families where:
• A parent is ill, addicted, or emotionally unstable.
• One parent is absent (due to divorce, death, or work).
• The family system lacks healthy emotional boundaries.
• Cultural or financial pressures push the child into an adult role early.Psychological and Emotional Impact

Short-term “gains”
• The child often becomes highly responsible, empathetic, and mature.
• They may receive praise for being “so grown-up” or “so strong.”

Long-term costs
• Chronic guilt or anxiety about others’ wellbeing
• Difficulty setting boundaries in adult relationships
• Tendency to attract emotionally dependent partners
• Burnout or depression from always putting others first
• Identity confusion , not knowing who they are outside of caretaking roles

Healing and Recovery

Healing involves:
• Recognizing the role reversal and its effects.
• Therapeutic work on boundaries, inner child healing, and self-worth.
• Allowing vulnerability and learning to receive care rather than only give it.
• Reparenting oneself — nurturing the inner child who never got to simply be a child

References
• Boszormenyi-Nagy, I. & Spark, G. M. (1973). Invisible Loyalties: Reciprocity in Intergenerational Family Therapy. Harper & Row.
• Chase, N. D. (ed.). (1999). Burdened Children: Theory, Research, and Treatment of Parentification. Sage Publications.
• Hooper, L. M. (2007). The Application of Attachment Theory and Family Systems Theory to the Phenomena of Parentification. The Family Journal, 15(3), 217–223.

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Hypnotherapy offers a unique form of support, allowing you to process emotions and build a sense of peace, even from afar.

Through online sessions, hypnotherapy addresses deep-rooted feelings of loss or isolation, helping you find grounding and resilience.

For those needing support beyond borders, hypnotherapy can reconnect you with a calm mind and inner strength.

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Focused on developing a growth mindset, one-on-one coaching is ideally suited for those wishing to achieve their full potential and to succeed in life and in business.

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