20/12/2023
Dear Clients,
Thank you for another fulfilling year together.
As you reflect on 2023, please give yourselves permission to have downtime,time to do nothing. Defending your right to such time takes courage, conviction and resiliency. Such time,space and quiet will strike our family and friends as a withdrawal from them. It is! Withdrawal is necessary though- especially during the festive season.
Embrace creative solitude; you require the healing of time alone. Without this period of recharging, you are basically on a treadmill of virtuous production and you are caught in a virtue trap. By this I mean that we may consider others before ourselves. This is the season of giving but letās challenge ourselves to say yes to ourselves a little more!
Here is a little āvirtue-trap quizā to help you determine whether your life is serving YOU or only others, taken from Julia Cameronās āThe Artistās Wayā (a worthwhile read):
1. The biggest lack in my life isā¦
2. The greatest joy in my life isā¦
3. My largest time commitment isā¦
4. As I play more,I workā¦
5. I feel guilty that I amā¦
6. I worry thatā¦
7. If my dreams come true, my family willā¦
8. I sabotage myself so people willā¦
9. If I let myself feel itā¦
10. One reason I get sad sometimes isā¦
Then, list 10 things youād love to do but donāt allow yourself to do. So often, the mere act of writing out your forbidden joys breaks down the barriers to doing them! Put this list somewhere visible š
Letās embrace our gift of creativity this festive season and avoid the virtue trap as much as possible. š