Bessie Venter Educational Psychologist

16/01/2026

The start of a new school year brings fresh routines, expectations, and transitions.
While some children settle in quickly, others may need more time — and that’s okay.

Early in the year, challenges may show up as:
🧠 Difficulty concentrating
😟 Increased worry or school reluctance
📘 Struggling to keep up with classroom demands
🗣️ Withdrawing or becoming easily overwhelmed
😔 Low confidence or frustration with schoolwork

These responses are not signs of failure — they are part of adjustment. For some children, they can also highlight underlying learning, attention, or emotional needs.

Understanding how a child processes information, manages demands, and copes with change can make a meaningful difference to their school experience.

If you’re unsure whether what you’re seeing is part of normal adjustment or something that needs support, you’re welcome to reach out. A conversation or assessment can offer clarity and reassurance.

Bessie started her career as a secondary school teacher in 1991, whilst studying part-time in order to obtain her registration as an Educational Psychologist. Bessie currently runs a practice in both Kempton Park and Edenvale.

07/01/2026

Tania Johnson | December 18th, 2025 Why Children Crave Structure After Unstructured Breaks The holiday season often brings joy, activity, and cherished

25/12/2025

Merry Christmas! 🎊

11/12/2025

So many children work incredibly hard just to get through the school day.

For a child with Dyspraxia / DCD, school can be exhausting in a way that isn’t always visible:
The constant effort.
The planning.
The motor coordination.
The energy it takes to keep up.

By the time they come home, they’ve used up every last spoon of capacity.
What you see isn’t 'behaviour'.
It’s fatigue, overload, and relief to finally let go.

Today’s Voice of the Child visual shares what a young person with Dyspraxia might wish they could tell you when they walk through the door after school.

If you support, live with, love, or work with a neurodivergent child, this one is for you.

For those who want to understand the hidden effort even more: Masking & After-School Restraint Collapse Toolkit. Instant electronic download with secure global checkout. at link in comments ⬇️ or via our Linktree Shop in Bio.

Your understanding matters more than you know.

26/11/2025

As report cards come out, many parents focus on the numbers — but behaviour, attention, emotional regulation, and learning patterns often tell the real story.

A few questions to reflect on:
✨ Does my child enjoy learning?
✨ Are they confident or easily discouraged?
✨ Do they need more time or repetition?
✨ Are friendships affecting their school performance?

If any of these questions raised concerns for you, feel free to get in touch. A conversation or assessment can provide clarity - and peace of mind.

18/11/2025

Some children become so skilled at masking in school that their struggles are almost invisible.
They may appear calm, compliant and engaged — while inside they are working incredibly hard to hold it all together.

It’s often only once they step through the door at home, where they feel safe, that the emotional cost of the day is revealed.

Recognising this hidden effort is the first step to understanding and supporting children who experience after-school restraint collapse.

In the Resource Store:
After School Restraint Collapse Toolkit for Parents & Educator
Masking: The Toolkit
Links in Comments⬇️

07/11/2025

Do you think reactively or responsively? The way you think determines the way you feel, so be sure to monitor your thoughts to protect your feelings 🫶

22/10/2025

These brain breaks are designed to serve different purposes, and selecting the right one at the right time can yield positive results.

10/10/2025

"There is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn’t."🌞- John Green

06/10/2025

These 8 key skills - from impulse control to planning and flexibility - are vital building blocks for children's cognitive and emotional growth. Whether helping kids manage tasks or adapt to change, supporting these functions empowers them to thrive in school and life. 💡✨
Credit: Reach Out Recovery

26/09/2025

Simple Ways to Teach Toddlers About Boundaries

While toddlers may not fully understand the why behind boundaries, they can learn the what and how with patience and consistency, building a foundation for healthy social skills as they grow!

16/09/2025

Supporting children to find their emotional dial means creating space for every feeling—so they can thrive, even on tough days 🙌🌞