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05/11/2022

H A L L O W E E N
well spend.
What is it with kiddies and an empty box. They become cats 😂

23/10/2022

S E L F C A R E S U N D A Y
I’ve made this a ritual for the past 2 months.
Not only do I look better but I feel so much better too.
I apply the ordinary peel, it’s hectic but amazing! derma-roll ( both available on ) and apply ALOT of moisture. Don’t do both if you have sensitive skin. I also apply a hair mask from the salon or even just coconut oil with lavender-as it promotes hair growth.
Monday arrives and I feel like I have cleansed and healed the week that’s past and I am ready for all the coming week has to offer.
Do you have a self care ritual? No matter how big or small…..

14/10/2022

Workin’ mom
What an adjustment. This is the reason I have been MIA. Being a stay at home mommy is still the most challenging thing I have ever done. However I got accustomed to the challenges.
Being at work has thrown all kinds of curve balls into our lives and I’m just learning to handle them now.
My poor kids are also just learning to adjust. Mykel offered to walk himself to his class so I’m not late for work and can maybe come home before it’s dark….. my heart broke!!! But they are resilient and so I must be too.

04/05/2022

Dates with my Dude!!! Some one on one time makes the world of difference. My bestie taught me this. My little guy chose everything from the Resturant, meal and what we did afterwards too. We spoke about all things Mykel. It was magnificent :)

17/01/2022

F A M I L Y 🥰
What a special weekend with friends and family this weekend. My cup is overflowing. You cannot put into words what a best friends and family time can do for your soul. ❤️. (I have also had a bubble bath and meditated as recommended by so many of you 😘.)

12/01/2022

S U P P O R T 💪🏻
Over the past few months there have been ups and downs regarding my mental health, diagnosis and treatment. We are definitely in a much better place as a family. The main contributor? SUPPORT!!!! My mom, mother-in-law, husband and friends have been the most incredible source of support. This allowed me to feel what I was feeling and focus on getting better.
What does support look like?
-asking what can be done
-cooking dinner
-taking kids for an outing
-visits
-checking in on me
So ask for help and if you know someone that’s struggling ask what you can do. No person is an island and like they say: it takes a village!

19/11/2021

W I N D D O W N 😎
I feel like I haven’t recovered since Mykels incident a few weeks ago. It really makes me even more aware, in awe and proud of NICU mommies! They are there day in and out. Carrying their own fears, calming the family and being ever present for their little ones. AMAZING!! I have also been getting my new medication regime right, I am just a bit run down. As the year eases to an end I’m reminding myself to also wind down. Give myself and the kids grace. (I say this but Mykel cut his sisters hair 10min ago and I threw a silent tantrum, foot stomp included, before saying ffs under my breathe 🤦‍♀️). It’s not always perfect but I’m trying. Hope everyone is enjoying the gorgeous weather and being kind to all but mostly yourself.

04/11/2021

Being a mama is hard but moments like these with you and your brother make it all worth while....

25/10/2021

F R E E D O M 🙌
Big guy is so so happy to be out of the hospital. He is making an incredible recovery and I am so so grateful to everyone that messaged and called.
Children are so incredibly brave, resilient and adaptable. I could not be prouder! Also grateful to the amazing staff and doctors who cared for us. I am not an easy one to please regarding medical care, however my expectations where exceeded.

18/10/2021

B E B R A V E 💪🏽
This little guy is so brave and followed closely by his fearless sister. Mykel has this incredible gift. When something scares him, he insists on repeatedly exposing himself to it. For example deep sea creatures scared him. He asked so many questions, wanted to read every book and watch countless documentaries on them. They are now one of his favourite.
Today my big guy needs to be very brave. He had a fall at school and bit right through a large portion of his tongue. The doctor feels that he requires surgery. My guy has never needed hospitalization or any major interventions so this is definitely something new, big and scary. I think he will show me, once again, how to be brave

30/09/2021

M O M T I M E 💁‍♀️
Over the past weeks I have gone from letting my depression consume me to getting back to me.
I told Anthony not to book me in anywhere because I don’t want to get better. I’m tired of the constant fight to be “okay”. He asked me to go back to my old dr regardless of the fact that it was a 40min drive. I didn’t want him to have regrets when I was gone.... so I went.
This dr saved my life. She heard me out, already new my history and reassured me that I would get better, she knows me and she can help me. A month later I am a different person. I still have bad days but that just makes me human. I realized that I needed to be better to myself so I can live and be around for my kids and my loved ones.
I joined and have been fuming like a machine, and loving it. I’m eating food that nourishes me as well as tasted delish. I take time out from the kids and do my best to not feel guilty about it.
I’m so grateful for those that helped me through this and never want anyone to feel alone going through this. Don’t isolate yourself, reach out

13/09/2021

S I B L I N G L O V E ❤️
These two have been incredible! Mykel has been such a huge help while I haven’t been my best self. He is so kind, considerate and compassionate. He is his sisters best friend and tells me daily “I’ve got your back Mama!” In those moments I allow myself to believe I am a good mom even when I can’t give my all.
He has shown me that I have raised him well. There are still arguments, cheekiness and attitude ( he is only 4 after all) but overall my children and husband have been my lighthouse during a terribly dark time.
Remember to speak up, ask for help. No man in an island and there is always an outstretched hand if you need it. We are here for you!

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