Kailie Labuschagne - Specialist Wellness Counsellor

11/07/2024

https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/971221

Kailie Labuschagne, General Counsellor, North Riding, 2169, 087 250 0442 x10, I create a safe space for those who are ready to invest in themselves and their interpersonal relationships. A space in which you can start your healing journey, face your trauma and put the time and effort in to become yo...

14/02/2024

Self love is of utmost importance. If we cannot love ourselves it truly is difficult to love another. If we cannot show the world how we ought to be treated, we allow poor behaviour and treatment of ourselves.
Love yourself today on this beautiful day ~ remind yourself of what you love about yourself.

Kailie Labuschagne
Specialist Wellness Counsellor
066 290 6339
Kailie@quintisensual.co.za

29/01/2024

Your healing is your responsibility.

Many people are not willing to accept the responsibility of their own healing and therapy. Often, this is because there is a very real resistance to accountability. When we are forced to be accountable for our life, our trauma, our behaviour and our coping mechanisms, we are forced to accept that the onus falls on us to become whole again. This does not mean that the trauma you have faced is your fault. What it does mean is that it is your responsibility to start your own healing process. Time does in fact heal - not because we can sit around and wait for a magical clock to delete our pain, but because we make the time to heal ... and over time, we feel the pain less and the most intense hurt alleviates somewhat. We are the only ones who can make this time for our healing to occur - nobody else (and not time alone) can do it for us. If you want to be qualified in a specific field or skill, you make the time to study. So why not make the time to be skilled in dealing with your triggers and trauma?

It's time to face the music - when are you going to be responsible (and accountable) for your own healing?

Kailie Labuschagne
Specialist Wellness Counsellor
066 290 6339
kailie@quintisensual.com

24/01/2024

It is important to be gentle and kind to yourself when you're actively on your healing journey. Healing looks different to each one of us and self-love and self-respect comes in many different forms. Some of these include taking time for yourself, being significantly picky about who is close to you and who is not, and efficient time management.
Being kind to yourself does not, however, excuse poor behaviour. It is so true that each of us is going through our own stuff. Hence, being kind to others is equally important as being kind to ourselves. It is unacceptable to behave unfavorably and then to blame your challenges in life. Challenges can also be positive experience ls ~ as can conflict. The negative connotation attached is not the only perspective we have. What you make with what you have and how you carry yourself as you handle your trials is what matters most. Of course, we all have bad days and that is also okay. But, we cannot be nasty to others in whatever manner, as a result of our life challenges.

Just as the Bible teaches us in I Corinthians 6v12: "I have the right to do anything," you say - but not everything is beneficial. "I have the right to do anything" - but I will not be mastered by anything.
We have to choose our words and actions carefully, as each of these has an effect on us, our lives and on others.

Choose wisely today and allow responsible counsel and support in your life.

Kailie Labuschagne
Registered Specialist Wellness Counsellor
Supervised Contact Practitioner
066 290 6339
Kailie@quintisensual.co.za

24/01/2024

Your healing is your responsibility. Just as Adam and Eve had the responsibility of obedience in the Garden of Eden, we have the responsibility of obedience in our mental, emotional and interpersonal health. There is a Living water source flowing from the Garden of Eden ~ at its very core, this garden is Life. Today you have the opportunity to choose to drink from this source of Life and to start healing. Your garden was intended to bloom as brightly and lush as that of Eden.

Are you choosing Life or death today?

Dr Kailie Labuschagne
Registered Specialist Wellness Counsellor
066 290 6339
kailie@quintisensual.co.za

18/01/2024

You cannot remain stuck in your bad circumstances. You deserve love, peace and happiness in your home and in your marriage. The relationship between a husband and wife, a father and mother, impacts the children more than you realise. Children are significantly resilient, but they should never be exposed to harm in their household. Let's work together to change your circumstances so that your children no longer suffer. Break the toxic cycle today and start living a Godly life.

Kailie Labuschagne
Specialist Wellness Counsellor
066 290 6339
kailie@quintisensual.co.za

12/01/2024

Affairs are never "easy" to navigate. When working with couples who are going through this struggle, I might like the situation to a bomb that has exploded. There is time to take cover from the shrapnel, time to be patient as you wait for the debris to settle and then time to be more active and practical as you rake the pieces back in. There is no going back to how things were ~ similarly, we cannot plaster bits of a bombed house back together. Rather, we build a new relationship with what each individual requires from the marriage. Forgiveness in this is not easy and we know that The Bible tells us to forgive 70X7, this is to forgive 490 times. We do not take this amount as a literal benchmark for when things will be ok again. Rather, we do use it to understand that the shock and trauma of finding out that your spouse has cheated on you takes significant amount of time for healing to take place and for trust to start growing again. We also know that it's not impossible to get to that point.

Kailie Labuschagne
Specialist Wellness Counsellor

066 290 6339
Kailie@quintisensual.co.za

Marriage counseling
Relationship conflict-resolution
Trauma

10/01/2024

https://www.psychologytoday.com/za/counselling/kailie-labuschagne-north-riding-gt/971221

Go see my new intro video on Psychology Today. It has taken a long time for me to rake up the courage to record and post this - I really do not like cameras in my face :/ I am grateful to my supportive husband who assisted me, and always encourages me to take the leap!

066 290 6339
kailie@quintisensual.co.za

Kailie Labuschagne, General Counsellor, North Riding, 2169, 087 250 0442 x10, I create a safe space for those who are ready to invest in themselves and their interpersonal relationships. A space in which you can start your healing journey, face your trauma and put the time and effort in to become yo...

09/01/2024

Come heal in a space where God's love overcomes all adversities.

In-person sessions ~ North Riding
Online sessions ~ Zoom

Specialist Wellness Counsellor
066 290 6339
Kailie@quintisensual.co.za

03/01/2024

OPEN TO SERVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Kailie Labuschagne
Specialist Wellness Counsellor
Supervised Contact Practitioner

066 290 6339
Kailie@quintisensual.co.za

19/12/2023

Have a lovely time with family, as you focus on building bonds and relationships with those you love.

See you all in the new year🎉✨

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