Light Up Healing

05/02/2025

It’s here. No time to waste.

Lightworkers, it’s time to work 💪🏻🏹✨

02/02/2025

Wow 👏🏻❤️‍🔥

The first thing you need to understand is this: no one feels sorry for you, and no one ever will—not in the way you want them to. Not because people are cruel, but because everyone is carrying their own struggles, their own fears, and their own battles. People care, but they care about themselves first. It’s human nature. And that’s not something to be bitter about—it’s something to *free* yourself with.

For too long, you may have looked outside yourself for sympathy, for validation, for someone to truly understand your pain. But waiting for the world to acknowledge your suffering is a losing game. People don’t sit around thinking about what you’ve been through. They’re too busy trying to figure out their own lives. The truth is, the world isn’t built to stop for you. And that’s *good* news—because it means you don’t have to wait for it to.

Your pain is real, but your suffering doesn’t have to be permanent. The moment you stop expecting the world to save you is the moment you take your power back. Because no one is coming to lift you out of this hole—but you *can* climb out yourself. And that is far more powerful than any pity or validation you could receive from someone else.

Negativity is misplaced energy. The time spent resenting how unfair life is or waiting for someone to notice your pain could be used to build something greater. To heal. To grow. To move forward. The people who rise are not the ones who get the most sympathy; they are the ones who stop looking for it and decide to *become* something more.

You don’t need the world to feel sorry for you. You need *you* to believe in yourself. The second you shift from seeking sympathy to building strength, everything changes. You are not powerless. You are not forgotten. You are not waiting anymore. You are stepping forward—because that’s what strong people do. And you, despite everything, are stronger than you realize.

27/01/2025

Joy is the resistance ❤️‍🔥

25/01/2025

🫶🏻🙏🏻

10/01/2025

Let them era ❤️‍🔥

08/01/2025

Stories of shame and unworthiness lose their power when heard and held in safe spaces ❤️‍🔥

There is no healing like that of being genuinely seen and understood & healing should not be completed outside of community and safe spaces.
We need each other, we need mirrors 🪞

I know what it is to be abandoned, violated. To feel like somewhere deep down you are just broken.
To go around and around on a wheel of self improvement, only to come right back down to that unworthy feeling.
To crawl your way out of toxic spaces, places and people only to repeat them in different forms. ‼️
To have only yourself to rely on, to just accept that you will never be understood and certain things are out of reach for you.

That does not have to be your story anymore.

I know what it is to conquer these stories & to rewrite them.
This is what I am good at, this is why I’m here. To show you the way out of this wounding, your innate belonging and worthiness and how to take back your life and your purpose from deep pain and survival.

I am trained in the ancient Hawaiian healing modality of Ho’oponopono and I will use this wisdom as well as my intuitive gifts and guidance to help you.

Inbox me for any info or questions. Sessions are open for January and beyond 🫶🏻✨

With deepest aloha,
Candice 🌈❤️‍🔥

05/01/2025

Happy Sunday ❤️‍🔥

14/12/2024

Happy weekend ❤️‍🔥

12/12/2024

Ho’oponopono is essentially more about acceptance than it is, forgiveness.

The modern meaning centering around forgiveness, was perpetuated by the West.
Now that is not to say the famous mantra does not work. It does. ✨
But the meaning behind it and its power, has now been altered & watered down from that of the true origins of Ho’oponopono.
And let me tell you that meaning makes a massive difference to escaping patterns and karma 🤯

Let’s look at the first line of the modern mantra:

‘Please forgive me’

ie: I’m a sinner, I’m faulty, in error etc. This religious take of us being sinful or broken, is not Ho’oponopono
Ho’oponopono is ultimately about acceptance. Acceptance with forward movement.
It is far far more powerful
Acceptance of what has happened and now what?
Acceptance by declaring yourself independent from another’s actions.
It doesn’t make the persons behavior okay but it does free you from their darkness, their hurtful actions.
Do you see? That’s real freedom ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Now when applied to yourself, it means
I am whole
I am divinity
BUT somewhere along the way I have accepted untruths, due to trauma and repeated harm, about myself.

Unworthy, unloveable, broken- these are all the effects of other humans NOT of the Divine.
And so Ho’oponopono is used to clear those untruths, programs and bring you back to your original blueprint.

There is no heavy focus on guilt or shame.
To make yourself guilty, wrong or broken only deepens the untruth that brought about the circumstances and your behavior in the first place and you will find yourself in a painful loop.

When forgiving others, you may be doing it to be righteous but then find yourself in a new loop of resentment as they continue behaviors or you find you have offered forgiveness too soon and without proper processing.

This acceptance or forgiveness should focus on a clearing of the emotional charge ⚡️
So for example: when applied to another’s actions you declare independence from their actions but you may not necessarily allow them to remain in your life.

The focus is freeing yourself 🪽
Much more effective 🥂🙌🏻

If you are struggling with these concepts, send me a message about my Ho’oponopono sessions 🌹

This is my Roman Empire 😄🫶🏻🫶🏻
Freedom is a correction away
Candice 🌹🌹

10/12/2024

❤️‍🔥✨

05/12/2024

Game changer ❤️‍🔥

30/11/2024

Amen to that 🙏🏻✨

26/11/2024

Yes ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

21/11/2024

One shift can change everything 🦋✨