24/11/2025
We grow up hearing parents say, “I would die for my children,” as if sacrifice is the ultimate proof of love. But what if love isn’t measured by what you’d die for, but by what you’re willing to change for? What if the real inheritance isn’t money or legacy, but the emotional climate you create?
What if the greatest act of love is allowing your children to become people who challenge you, stretch you, and move beyond the limits you had to survive?
This thread is not about blaming parents, it’s about inviting accountability as a form of love. Because healing often begins the moment you admit that what you inherited isn’t what you want to pass on 🤎
So here’s the real question:
Are you raising children to obey you, or raising children who feel safe enough to outgrow you? 💭