15/09/2025
The truth is, when brown men don’t confront their emotions, it doesn’t just stay with them. It bleeds into their relationships, their parenting, their workplaces, their friendships. Silence becomes distance. Anger becomes intimidation. Control gets mistaken for care. And the cycle continues.
Yes, the pressure is real. Generations of expectation, migration, and survival shaped them this way. But at some point, that history stops being a shield and starts being a choice. Choosing not to feel is still a choice.
Healing asks for courage - the courage to sit with pain instead of bury it, to admit fear instead of masking it, to let love be more than providing and protecting. Because when men refuse that work, the cost isn’t only theirs. Their partners, children, and families inherit it too.
In one word, how would you describe the pressure on men? 💭
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