26/05/2023
Surviving difficult times caused by traumatic events can be challenging. In a world that’s moved on from COVID, nurses may still be dealing with residual trauma - our lives have irrevocably changed.
Also, nurses are constantly faced with trauma at their places of employment and on top of that we are the people our families turn to for support outside of work.
But what are the strategies we can use to cope and heal? Remember, everyone's journey through trauma is different, and what works for one person may not work for another.
Here are 10 suggestions to help you through tough times:
1 . Seek professional help: A mental health professional, such as a therapist or counselor, can help you work through your feelings and develop coping strategies tailored to your needs. Many employers have Employee Welness Programmes (EWP) where you have access to confidential counselling services.
2. Build a support network: Connect with friends, family, or support groups who can understand and empathise with your situation. Sharing your feelings with others can help you process your emotions and feel less isolated. Fellow nursing colleagues may share your feelings and understand your challenges.
3. Practice self-care: Prioritise your physical and emotional wellbeing by eating well, exercising, getting adequate sleep, and engaging in activities you enjoy. Taking care of yourself is essential to recovery. This may seem challenging especially when you work shifts, but use creativity to help you plan better e.g. meal prepping nutritious meals that will sustain and nourish you throughout your shift.
4. Establish routine: Regaining a sense of structure and predictability can help you feel more in control of your life. Establish a daily routine that includes self-care activities, work, and social interactions. Get out if your pyjamas on your off days - go outside and see the sun!
5. Express your feelings: Journaling, writing, drawing, painting, or engaging in other creative outlets can help you express and process your emotions.
6. Practice mindfulness and relaxation techniques: Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and meditation can help reduce stress and anxiety.
7. Set realistic goals: Break down work and house tasks into smaller, manageable steps and set realistic goals for yourself. This can help you regain a sense of accomplishment and control. AND ASK FOR HELP! You should not be held responsible for your whole family’s house work and tasks.
8. Be patient with yourself: Healing from trauma takes time, and it's essential to be patient and kind to yourself during the process. Allow yourself to feel your emotions without judgment and recognise that recovery is not linear.
9. Avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms: Try to avoid using alcohol, drugs, or other unhealthy behaviours as a way to cope with your trauma. These can ultimately worsen your mental health and hinder your healing process.
10. Educate yourself: Learn about trauma and its effects on the mind and body. Understanding the impact of trauma can help you better recognise your feelings and reactions, and help you feel less alone in your experience.
Remember, everywhere you go - there YOU are. You need to make your body and mind a safe and healthy space where you can prosper.
Sending you lots of love,
The LAMP Team