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26/08/2024

Wena wawungenzani part 1

Ungumama usemendweni ,ulabantwana ababili,inkazana nomfana.Lobaba wantwana lizama nje konke okusemandleni, ukuthi likhulise abantwana kodwa kunzima ngoba lonke alisebenzi yikubamba lapha lalaphana.Kufike isikhathi lapho lingesenelisi khona kuphoqe abantwana ukuthi bayekele ukufunda ngesimo .Kuthi umntwana ongumfana abelenhlanhla asebenze abelama bhizimisi,esikhundleni sokuthi ancedise abazali abe lenzondo ukuthi yena ngeke abanakekele ngoba behluleka ukumkhulisa waze wazibonela ngempilo.Akhalale nje kanjalo umntwana aziphilele entofonto impilo abazali behlupheka.Asithi nguwe umzali wawuzayenzani kusimo esifana laleso.

22/08/2023

Ngileminyaka engu30. Umama wami uleminyaka engu70. Loba engaguganga kangako kodwa ungumuntu ongaselampilo kahle. Indaba ilapha, uhlala ebalisa ngesimo esikomunye wabafowethu kodwa uyindoda laye elomuzi wayo labantwabayo. Njengoba sengitshilo ukuthi umfowethu ulomuzi labantwana ubuye abelabantwana njalo eSA okuyilapho ahlala khona njalo asebenzela khona ababili. Unina wabantwana kamthathanga njalo lo osekhaya uyazi ngabantwana lonina kodwa akulaconnection kumbe ngithi abakaze bahlanganiswe. Abakaze bafike ekhaya kithi abantwana. Lokho kuyamudla kakhulu umama osekhala ngokuthi engafa loba nini engabonanga abazukulu bakhe. Uyamthanda umalukazana wakhe kanti futhi uyabathanda labazukulu ngokunjalo. Uhlala engibuza ukuthi yina ongayenza ukuthi abone abazukulu engazange athukuthelise umalukazana? Sizani boo!

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11/08/2023

Sanibonani lonke zithandwa zezulu, sikunyanga yabomama asike sixoxeni ngamalungelo abomama, ingabe amalungelo abomama siwasebenzisa kahle noma kukhona lapho esesithatha i-advantage khona. Okunye futhi engicela sixoxe ngakho yikuthi yiziphi izinto abesifazane abahlangabezana nazo ezibahlukumezayo ikakhulukazi emsebenzini nxa ungabe uphethe indawo elabobaba. Uyenza njani to balance umndeni wakho lezinto zomsebenzi. Phose elakho.

We still remember our loved ones who lost their lives, & may their soul rest in Peace 💔💔

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09/06/2023

Let's talk about disciplining step kid
I step parent sigcina kuphi ,kukhona ama boundaries na ,

Let's engage

15/05/2023

From the Adimn's corner...

Ukuxola noma ngubani engaxola noma ngabe egilwe kangakanani. Awuxoli ngoba wenzela abantu kodwa uxola ngoba ufuna ukukhipha okusemoyeni wakho.
Kunenkulumo engicabanga ukuthi yiyona eyenza abeslisa bangaxoli kalula lena ethi INDODA AYIKHALI. Mina ngokubona kwami lenkulumo ayiphelelanga kwakumele ipheleliswe ngokuthi AYILHALELI EMPHAKATHINI ngoba uzogcina ukhale phambi kwesitha okuzosinika enkulu injabulo.
Iyakhala indoda angithi nayo ngumuntu futhi iyabuzwa ubuhlungu. Ma uzwa kuthi khala noma kukhona okukuphule umoya ngena endlini uzivalele ukhale kuze kufike lapho ozwa khona ukuthi cha ukhalile iphumile lento kuwe.
Ngoba phela ukungakhali yikho okuyenza ubambe amagqubo ngoba ma ukhala lokhu okukuzwisa ubuhlungu icala lakho liyathethwa ngaphakathi kuwe kuze kufike lapho eliphothulwa khona.
Eskhathini esiningi sibona abesmame bekhala njalo kanti yibo futhi abakhona ukuxola noma sekwenzeke elinjani iphutha emzini wakhe lenzwa ngumyeni wakhe. Owesmame engayibamba indoda nomakhwapheni ekhaya phakathi komuzi belele kodwa emva kokukhala uyaxola impilo iqhubeke. Kodwa ngoba indoda yona ayikhali futhi ayikaze ikhale ngakho konke vele ikuvalele ngaphakathi akusakhoni ukungena okunye yikho yona ma ingambamba unkosikazi oqotsheni lendoda mumbe alithethwa lelocala iyamxosha.
Amadoda amaningi sefana namafon angena memory card. (Memory is always full) Kube kanti indoda ekhona ukukhala iyodwa endlini iphume phandle isikhale kwaze kwawa isbibithwane iyakhona ukubhekana nomhlaba ngaphandle kokuthi abantu bazothini. Buka mangaki amadoda azikhungayo emthini,amanye aqeda umdeni wonke ngenhlamvu ngenxa nje yokuthi awakhoni ukuzixolela wona kuqala. Uyabona iningi lamadoda linomkhaba ayi ukuthi ahleli kahle cha zinyembezi lezi ezingaphumeli phandle eziwela esiswini sekuze kunama 10litres phakathi uzwe kuthiwa usbani bani uhlaselwe yisiso senhliziyo. Khalani madoda nizivalele endlini lokho kuzosiza nina uqobo.
UJesu elenga esphambanweni wagebisa ikhanda lakhe wakhala ethi baba ungishiyelani na yilapho amadoda noma abeslisa kumele bafunde ukubaluleka kokukhala. Njalo zibuzeni ukuthi yindaba kukhalwa esifeni kungoba udinga ukuzixolisa wena umoya wakho.

14/05/2023

Posta admin.
Ngingumakoti phakathi komuzi indoda izalwa nabafowabo abangu 3. Umyeni wami usebenza isisotsha manje iskhathi sonke uhlala engekho ekhaya plus uyaphuma phandle kwelizwe.
Inkinga yami omunye wabafowabo uyangiqomisa bakithi and ngiyesaba ukuthi ngingatshela eyami indoda bazoxabana ngoba bayezwana kakhulu.
Inkinga sonke sihlala emzini omkhulu and eyami indoda yiyona endala.
Sengiyesaba ukuthi nasebusuku engangingenela endlini lobabomcane.
Ngiyenzeni ngoba angifuni besekungathi ngazoqatha ingane ezalala esiswini esisodwa kodwa angiphathekile kahle.

08/05/2023

Dear Admin...

Ngingubhuti ona 25 years. Ngakhulela komalume wami ngoba umama nobaba baxabana umama wasithatha mina nodadewethu saya kubo.
Inkinga yami nansi umama wafika ekhaya wasitshintsha isbongo sasebenzisa esakhe konke naku ID sisebenzisa esako Malume. Mina manje ngikhuluma nje usisi esthandanayo ukhulelwe angazi ukuthi isbongo ingane ezozalwa izosebenzisa siphi.
Ngabe ikhona yini indlela engingayisebenzisa ukutshintsha isbongo ngisebenzise esami?
Ngake ngayibuza lendaba two years ago ngabona abantu bengizondela umuzi wonke bethi ubaba kalobolanga.
Khonamanje umama sowayenda komunye ubaba sokunzima kakhulu kimi ngoba ngifuna ingane yami isebenzise isbongo sikababa.

Sakhula sitshelwa ukuthi ubaba ngumuntu omubi nathi sakhula sinaleyo imfundiso.

Ngisizeni ngendaba yesbongo ngoba ingane yami ingasebenzisa esako Malumami kutsho izokhula ingazazi ukuthi ingowakwabani okuzoyenza kusasa ivuke ithandane nezihlobo zayo ngoba isebenzisa isbongo esiwrong.

Ngiyabonga..

06/05/2023

Post admin and hide me..
Sazalwa sababili nodadewethu ubaba wasetshona kodwa ebhalise indlu ese Sizinda emaflatini ngami nosisi.
Ekutshoneni kukababa usisi wayeseyendile ekhaya kusele mina nomama nami ngaze ngashada ngilokhu ngihlala ekhaya.
Inkinga yaqala ekubuyeni kukasisi ekhaya umama waqala ukungezwani nonkosikazi wami. Nami ngoba ngibona kungasekuhle la ekhaya ngaphuma ngayohlala emqashweni.
Ngokuhamba kweskhathi umama naye wasitshiya ekhaya kwasala udadewethu . Ekuhambeni kweskhathi usisi wathandana ke neyinye indoda belokhu behlala lapha ekhaya ngamcela usisi ukuthi asthengise indlu ngoba ngibona ukuthi kuzoba nenkinga phela umkhwenyane mbumbulu kusasa uzoba yinkinga.
Usisi wayala elokhu ethi akaphumi abanamali yokuqala indawo entsha.
Kwaze kwathi ngonyaka ophelile usisi washona naye and sekuvela ke manje ukuthi usisi ubesetshadile nalomgulugudu manje indlu ayisathengiseki ngoba njengoba kade sebetshadile nalomgulugudu sekungeyakhe and abantwana baka sisi laba adifosa khona kuqala uyise wabalobola ngabe ngisebenzisa bona ukulwela indlu yakithi.
Phela nalomgulugudu ufuna i share ma indlu ithengiswa.
Badala ngisizeni ngithole indlu kababa back .

04/05/2023

Ekuseni enhle linjani? Yiziphi izizatho ocabanga ukuthi zixabanisa umakoti labakwabozala kumbe umkhwenyana labakwabozala? Akwejwayelekanga ukuthi umkhwenyana abeyisitha kwabozala kodwa omakoti bambalwa abathandekayo kwabozala. Nxa ucabanga kudalwa yini lokho?

03/05/2023

Kuyikuhlakanipha yini ukucela ama-advice ngerelationship yakho kumbe ngomtshado wakho kumngane? Wakwenzani owakho umngane kumbe kwenzekani emuntwini omaziyo ethethe i-advice emnganeni wakhe? Nxa ungakaze uhlangane lakho ukubona njani wena.?

02/05/2023

Sawubona. Ngicela ungangivezi.

Ngingumama oleminyaka engu40. Ngendela kubaba wabantwabami ababili saphila sonke okweminyaka engaba ngu5 esengithethe. Ubehlala ngakibo njalo nguye isicino lani liyaza sikhule kuthiwa isicino asiphumi ekhaya. Ngenxa yokuthi bengibona ukuthi sisabusisiwe amacent asadobheka ngamcela ukuthi sakhe umuzi wethu njengoba sesilabantwana wangavumi ngenxa yokuthi eyisicino lami ngazwisisa. Ngakhile ngafaka amandla ami wonke ngangithole umuzi ungekho esimeni esihle ngazama ukutshintsha isimo bengingelankinga lakho. Njengomama ngadobhadobha ifurnisher ukuze indlu yami ibukeke (3 roomed) ngagcwalisa phakathi yebo besincedisana lobaba kokunye.

Sithe siqeda ukwakha saqoqa okuyimadlana esasesikuthola sathenga imoto (van) ukuthi ibe isincedisa ingenisa isinkwa ekhaya. Sikhethe ukuyibhalisa ngegama lakhe njengenhloko yomuzi angibanga layo inkinga ngoba besingeke siyibhalise ngabantu ababili. Kuhambe isikhatshana sehlukana. Waphuma endlini singazwisisananga wahamba ngaqala ngithi uyabuya kwafika ukuthi ngibone ukuthi ngeke aphenduke. Ungitshiye abantwana omunye efunda igrade ephansi omunye ele6months. Kazange azihluphe ngokuletha loba ubisi lomntwana njengomama ngazama wakhula umntwana leschool fees ngibhadala ngingedwa lokusebenza bekungasafani sengidonsa nzima . Uhlupho lwami lulapha, wayetshiye imota ifile ngasala ngiyilungisa yangingenisela okuncane. Nxa ngimcela ukuthi njengoba ngingeke ngilande lutho ngakibo lezindlu ngeke ngizidilize ngoba zisemzini wabanikazi katshintshe iownership yemoto ibize mina ngoba yena usele lezindlu, lefurnisher njalo kalabantwana kabondli uyala ukwenza lokho.Ngixakekile bakithi ngicela ukuboniswa. Imoto le yiyo engincedisa ukondla abantwana. Ngiyaxolisa ukubamude.

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28/04/2023

Fihla admin and post. Ngingumama ona 44 years. Ngahlukana nendoda ngina 34 ngayohlala kithi nomtanami oyintombazane , ngathola omunye ubaba wangilobola wangithatha konke nomtanami ngoba naye wayenowakhe oyedwa ngathola ingane naye lobaba ukubamba isbongo sahlala nje kahle abantwana bebathathu ekhaya futhi kungela nkinga nencane.
Inkinga iqale ma leyami ingane yentombazane engaza nayo isikhulakhulile isinabo 19 years kwaqala manje ukubanenzondano phakathi kwayo nendoda yami. Eseyifundisile isisebangeni lokuqeda iskolo. Ma ngithi ngiyabuza ukuthi ngabe yena nengane inkinga ikuphi lobaba uvuka ngolaka kimi athi ingane ayimhloniphi ngikhuluma nje ingane ibalekele kubhuti wami yilapho ekhona manje ithi ingane iyamsaba lobaba iyihwabhela njalo .

Bakithi ngizibuza ukuthi ngabe sekwenzenjani ngoba lobaba iminyaka yonke le ingane ubeyithanda eyenzela konke. Sengisesaba nami kutsho kusasa zisengajika izinto ngizibone sengixotshiwe nami. Ngisizeni kulesimo esibuhlungu kakangaka phela manje sekumele ngikhethe phakathi kwendoda nendodakazi yam. Ngiyabonga..

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