06/05/2021
Someone asked me the other day, what is the secret to increasing their child's capabilities. Well, it's as simple as play. Children learn through play; they develop pre-academic skills through play, they learn to cope with emotions through play. And even better your child and you will deepen your relationship through play.
A guided step to playing with your child!
If play and spending time doesnβt come naturally to you, follow these simple steps:
1. Set aside 15 minutes every day (EVERY DAY) β make it a discipline.
2. Turn off your cell phone and put down your tablet β completely away
3. Go to a special space with a box of simple toys β a kit of 5 toys is enough β a few blocks, a car, a dolly, a book and a toy cup can be enough to invite a wonderful play session.
4. Sit on the floor with your little one and Watch, Wait and Wonder:
- Watch her and do nothing
- Wait for her to invite you to play with his chosen toy β he may look at you or touch you or hand you a toy
- Let her tell you how to play "Mommy you be the green turtle...","come here" etc. Don't direct. As adults, we often think our ideas are fabulous, and I am sure they are, but in order for your child's brain to develop and grow she will need to create her own ideas, even if it is a turtle eating a lion.
- Let her tell you how to play "Mommy you be the green turtle...","come here" etc. Don't direct. As adults, we often think our ideas are fabulous, and I am sure they are, but in order for your child's brain to develop and grow, she will need to create her own ideas, even if it is a turtle eating a lion.