12/01/2026
Nervous system dysregulation is the last thing we look at or assume to be the issue, but 80% of our brain’s meaning-making is based on our nervous system state. What does that mean? 80% of the world you’re experiencing has been created through the nervous system state you’re in. Read that again.
Holiday seasons place a tremendous amount of stress on couples for loads of different reasons, no wonder research shows that breakups and divorces tend to increase after the holiday season. Too many people. Too much pressure. Too little rest.
By the time January arrives, many relationships are running on empty.
You haven’t actually fallen out of love; you’re just utterly exhausted and overwhelmed and are in desperate need of regulation. Alone and together.
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