Simply Pleasure & Wellbeing

28/12/2025

It's rolling station🤣

28/12/2025

Keeping a relationship secret is exciting, right? That's what movies and television shows might lead you to believe. Couples who sneak around together are usually depicted as full of passion and excitement. For example, remember when Monica and Chandler started sneaking around together on Friends? B...

28/12/2025

28/12/2025

A large number of people have s*xual fantasies that are impossible to act out because they feature elements of science fiction. As some evidence of this, I surveyed more than 4,000 Americans about their s*xual fantasies for my book Tell Me What You Want and found that more than half of my respondent...

28/12/2025

A list of our upcoming singles events for Jan 2026! Book now to avoid disappointment! Link in bio to book🫶

28/12/2025

S*x Experts Swear These 7 Tips Are Game-Changers For Couples With 'Desire Discrepancy'

28/12/2025

28/12/2025

I am not sure how I feel about this...

Each year around Christmas, searches for Santa Claus erotica begin to rise and people also buy countless “s*xy Santa” costumes. So why is that? How did Santa become such a popular s*x symbol?

Part of the appeal is that it’s transgressive. Christmas is a pretty wholesome holiday and—for many—it’s a religious celebration. As a result, s*xualizing one of the biggest symbols of Christmas is taboo, and we know that doing taboo things is a popular turn-on.

Another factor that makes Santa appealing to many is that he’s a “daddy” figure. He’s on the older side, has a great beard, and has a lot of power, too. He gets to decide who’s been naughty and who’s been nice, and he rewards and punishes people accordingly. When you think about it that way, Santa is a character tailor-made for B**M role play! We know that B**M in general is one of the most popular s*xual fantasies, so maybe all of this is just a convenient way of exploring interest in power play.

To learn more, check out Episode 460 of the S*x and Psychology Podcast where we dive deeper into the naughty appeal of Santa, as well as why people have more s*x around the holidays. Tis the season!

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28/12/2025

S*x Experts Say These Are The Best Positions To Hit Your G-**ot

28/12/2025

When people become friends with benefits (FWBs), what is it that they truly want from that arrangement? Are they just in it for the “benefits” (that is, s*x)? Or are they perhaps looking for more? I’ve conducted some research on this subject and here’s what I found.

14/12/2025

New research identifies five key factors that determine whether people decide to share their s*xual fantasies with a partner or keep them secret.

14/12/2025

100%! No pressure, only pleasure.

A lot of people approach s*x in a goal-oriented fashion, thinking that there are certain things they need to do or “achieve” every time. High on this list is the idea that everyone is “supposed” to have an or**sm each time they have s*x. So pervasive is this idea that some people do not even...