
22/12/2023
I WANT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING:
MAYBE IT’S TIME.....
I’ve been thinking, about life, kinda figured out some stuff....thought I’d share with you...
We are afterall all doing life together, right?
Every relationship in our lives is simply a mirror of the one we have with ourselves..
Letting go is to love yourself enough to look at the past with a different perspective.
If I am unable to articulate what i want or need from someone, that’s a ME problem.
Darlings,
I’ve realised that I have to understand that I can’t change the past, but i can change whether my perspective nourishes or poisons me…
Every choice I make represents the value I place on myself..
It’s far from easy… to constantly see things from a positive perspective…easier said than done….
Did you know that your unexpressed emotions never die?
They are buried alive and will come forth later, in uglier ways...
Maybe it’s time we sit with them, these emotions...
Instead of drinking it away, smoking it away, drugging it away, sleeping it away, socializing it away, crying it away, or running from it....
Sit with it.
Healing happens by feeling.
Maybe it’s time we stop trying to explain ourselves to others because of our need to feel validated...
Maybe it’s time we stop worrying about what could go wrong and focus on what can go right.
Maybe it’s time we exchange obsessive Perfect Relationship Lists with Gratitude Lists.
Maybe it’s time we stop dwelling on the negatives, take a look at what’s not working on a regular basis and really let it go.
I know it’s difficult… but it’s the only way forward…
Maybe it’s time we stop speaking from a place of lack and fear because the truth is.. we only end up regretting the words we say to the ones we love..
Maybe it’s time we waited, to give ourselves time to see how we feel....
And maybe, just maybe, it’s time we understood that happiness doesn’t come from wanting what we don’t have, but rather from recognizing and appreciating what we do....even if it’s different from the picture we envisaged, it can still be beautiful.
Alhamdulila in every circumstance…
A beautiful reminder first for ME, and then for you..
I AM BEAUTIFUL
Zaheera Bayat Omar