21/11/2025
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We need better miscarriage education.
Because for most women, the first time they ever hear the real details of pregnancy loss…
is when they’re living through it.
No one tells you what the cramps mean.
No one tells you about the bleeding, the waiting, the fear.
No one tells you how it feels when the ultrasound tech goes quiet.
No one tells you that your body can grieve long before your mind catches up.
And no one tells you that miscarrying can mean physically experiencing labor…
the contractions, the pressure, the waves of pain that come in patterns…
all without the reward of hearing a cry at the end.
They don’t prepare you for what it means to pass a baby at home.
They call it “a clump of cells,” but that’s not what you see.
You see the sac your baby was growing in.
You see the tiny umbilical cord.
You see proof that your baby existed,
even if the world tries to pretend otherwise.
Miscarriage shouldn’t be a whispered topic.
It shouldn’t be a “deal with it and move on.”
It shouldn’t be something women have to learn through trauma.
Women deserve education.
Women deserve support.
Women deserve truth.
And we deserve better.
