Speech Therapist / Spraakterapeut Santie van Aartsen

21/11/2025

29/10/2025

Congratulations from SAAA Mazaleni!

24/10/2025

"Ever noticed how quickly adults stop talking to a deaf child and start talking around them?"

A deaf child walks into a room… and everything shifts, but not in the way people think.

The adult smiles at the parent and says:

“Does he want to sit here?”

The waitress looks past the child and asks the parent:

“What will she have?”

The teacher gives instructions while looking at Mum the entire time.

The child is right there.
Present. Aware. Listening in the ways they know how.
But the world speaks around them… not to them.

For deaf children, communication is not the problem.
Being spoken to like they don't belong in the conversation is.

Inclusion is not just access to sound.
Inclusion is access to dignity.

When adults speak to the parent instead of the deaf child, even with good intentions, this is what it silently says:

“You’re here, but not fully expected to respond.”
“The real conversation is happening above you, not with you.”

It’s subtle. It’s unintentional.
But deaf children feel it. Every time.

They deserve more than presence.
They deserve connection.
Eye contact. Direct words.
And someone turning to them and saying:

“Is this okay with you?”

That moment changes everything.
Because communication is not only about being heard...
it’s about being addressed.

No glances to the parent first.
No assumption someone else will speak for them.
Just direct communication ... with dignity.

For many deaf children, that single shift ... being spoken to, not around... tells them:

“You are seen.”
"Your response matters."
"This space expects you to belong here.”

When that happens, the parent steps back.
The child steps forward.
And identity, independence and confidence meet.

If a deaf child is right there… pause.
Look at them. Speak to them.
Let them be part of the world... not just standing beside it.

Talk to deaf children like their response is worth waiting for.
Because when the world speaks to them directly, you don’t just include them.
You honour them.

© Talking Deaf Kid, 2025

18/07/2025

Often parents have a nagging sense they should limit screen time. Now there’s enough evidence to justify yanking coveted devices.

18/07/2025

Celebrating my 5th year on Facebook. Thank you for your ongoing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

09/07/2025

21/06/2025

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World’s first middle ear transplant using 3D-printed bones restores hearing:

In a medical breakthrough, Professor Mashudu Tshifularo and his team at the University of Pretoria have successfully performed the world’s first middle ear transplant using 3D-printed bones.

This pioneering procedure offers new hope for individuals suffering from conductive hearing loss caused by congenital defects, infections, trauma, or metabolic diseases.

The innovative surgery, initially performed in 2019 by the team, replaces the middle ear ossicles—hammer, anvil, and stirrup. And it has already transformed the lives of two patients, including one born with an underdeveloped middle ear.

Using 3D-printing technology, the bones are recreated with biocompatible titanium, ensuring a precise and safe reconstruction. The minimally invasive procedure is performed with an endoscope, significantly reducing risks such as facial nerve paralysis and scarring compared to traditional methods.

Professor Tshifularo, head of UP’s Department of Otorhinolaryngology, views this achievement as a testament to the power of innovation in medicine. “3D technology is allowing us to do things we never thought we could,” he stated.

While the procedure has shown promising results, the professor emphasized the need for sponsors and funding to further advance and scale this revolutionary technique.

learn more https://www.up.ac.za/news/post_2750323-up-academic-pioneers-worlds-first-middle-ear-transplant-using-3d-printed-bones