17/05/2024
The question for today is: what does No one left behind mean for us. This question came from the theme of International Day Against Homophobia Biphobia Inters*xism and Transphobia.
17 May of every year is set out to raise awareness of LGBTIQA+ rights violations worldwide. Growing up in one of the rural areas of South Africa, very confused, without resources and without information about gender identity and s*xual orientation was tuff. No one could tell me why I’m feeling different than my s*x assigned at birth and why I feel I’m in the wrong body. There was no information but there was a lot of abuse and bullying.
When we talk about equality, freedom and justice for all, who do we mean or who is all. Even when I realised the difference between s*xual orientation and gender identity and expression, I was and are still left behind. I’m left behind in research, social spaces and programming aimed at me. Why? Because these kind of events, like today, are too expensive to take to rural areas.
LGBTIQA+ people in the rural areas face discrimination on an everyday basis. We must often hear how our lifestyles and life choices (if you want to call it a choice, something I beg to differ with) are against the bible and that we are abominations. South Africa as a country has a very progressive constitution which in my opinion is just a white elephant, something that’s gathering dust somewhere because the human rights of LGBTIQA+ people are not implemented. Not in anyway.
This year we say: No one left behind. Left behind from what? Being a student at UWC had teaches me that I will always be left out or behind in academic spaces. Studying Women and Gender studies, Sociology and Anthropology, I always wonder: where am I in academic spaces. I mean, 2nd year studies in Women and Gender Studies covers me, but that’s it. Being a post-op trans person, taught me that spaces are not made for me because society tells me that I intervened with gods work by making alterations to my body. When we talk about s*xual and reproductive health care, me and people like me are left behind. In the whole of the LGBTIQA+ acronym, the T and I are forever left behind because people don’t know our first priority and our own agency are our gender identity, gender expression and our s*xual characteristics and not our s*xual orientation.
What a powerful theme we had this year. There is such a lot to talk about but I need to be respectful about time. I want to leave you all with this taught: if we say No on left behind, as activists, as academia, who do we refer to.