27/10/2025
I am not one for clichés - BUT - there is this line I often use with my clients...
"Put on YOUR oxygen mask first..."
The cliché "put on your own oxygen mask first" is a metaphor for self-care, advising you to prioritize your own well-being so you are able to help others effectively. Just as an airplane passenger must secure their own oxygen mask before assisting others to avoid becoming incapacitated, you must take care of your physical, mental, and emotional health to have the energy and capacity to support loved ones, family, or colleagues.
Meaning and application
You can't pour from an empty cup: If you neglect your own needs, you will eventually run out of energy and become depleted, making you unable to help anyone.
Prevents burnout:
By taking time for yourself, you can prevent stress, fatigue, and other health problems that can arise from constantly putting others first.
More effective help: When you are well-rested and supported, you are better equipped to offer effective assistance to others.
Applies to everyone:
This advice is particularly important for caregivers, parents, teachers, and anyone who spends a lot of time taking care of others.
Practice self-care:
Activities like eating well, exercising, setting boundaries, and seeking help are all ways of putting on your own oxygen mask. Self-care is increasingly vital in a world that can often feel insensitive and self-centered. But once youâve nurtured yourself and replenished your kindness, donât forget to share it outward. One thing is clear: the world could use a lot more tenderness.
Self-care is increasingly vital in a world that can often feel insensitive and self-centered. But once youâve nurtured yourself and replenished your kindness, donât forget to share it outward. One thing is clear: the world could use a lot more tenderness.