12/06/2025
Happy Pride month!
I'm a great example of why Pride is important.
Whenever I share photos of my amazing (and trans) husband Lucas - I lose followers. I don't share him (or LGBTQ+ content) a lot in general because it always means that I'm going to deal with crappy comments after. (Think about how sad that is.)
And I don't have the mental bandwidth for it.
I get people telling me I'm gross, that they're disappointed in me, that they don't follow me to 'see that type of thing', that they just can't condone my lifestyle, they'll pray for me, I'm harming my husband, I need help or he needs help, and on and on and on.
We're really just a boring couple who love each other a lot. There should be nothing controversial about that.
And that's why Pride matters because it's so much safer to hide and that's not how it should be.