Spirit Nova

06/04/2026

Join us on the 12th April at Melville Sanctuary of Love Spiritualist Church Mary-Anne will be doing Chair, and I’ll be doing the Address and sharing messages from your loved ones. Looking forward to seeing you all there!

01/04/2026

Be your own beautiful

01/04/2026

When a Mother Outlives Her Child
There is no language that truly prepares you for the moment your child leaves this world.
When a child passes, the entire world doesn’t just stop, it spirals. Everything you once knew feels disoriented, unnatural, almost unreal. As mothers, we carry an unspoken understanding: we are meant to go before our children. It is the quiet order of life we trust without question… until it is broken.
And when it breaks, something deep within us fractures too.
It can feel as though your child has been robbed of breath, of time, of the life they were meant to live. And in that space, a heavy, unspoken guilt often follows, the guilt of still breathing. Of still waking up. Of continuing on, when they cannot. Like somehow, by living, we have taken something that should have been theirs.
How do we cope with that?
How do we continue without their presence, their laughter, their warmth?
That is one of the hardest questions I am asked as a medium, and the truth is, it is also the hardest for me to answer.
Because 21 years ago, I became that mother.
I experienced the loss of my own child. And even now, all these years later, I cannot say there is a perfect sentence, a correct phrase, or a single comfort that can take that pain away for another mother.
When I sit with clients and say, “My heart aches for you. I understand what you’re going through,” I often see the same reaction—wide eyes, pain, even resistance.
“How could you possibly know?” they ask.
“You’re a medium… you don’t know my loss.”
And gently, I tell them:
“I do. I have lost a child too.”
In that moment, something shifts. The energy softens. The walls begin to lower. Not because the pain disappears, but because they are no longer alone inside it.
Grief doesn’t end. It changes shape.
We don’t “move on” we learn to carry it differently.
I live by example, not because I have all the answers, but because I am still walking the same path. I continue, not in spite of my loss, but alongside it. And in doing so, I hold onto what can never be taken away, memories.
Memories become the bridge between worlds.
I once had a client ask me, “How do I know my son is still around? What should I look for?”
And the answer that came through was simple, beautiful, and filled with life:
“When you eat Rice Krispies and hear that crackle and pop… that’s me. Reminding you that life is still fun. Enjoy it for me.”
And that is where healing begins, not in forgetting, but in remembering.
In the small signs.
In the quiet moments.
In the laughter that returns when you least expect it.
Your child is not gone from your story.
They are woven into it—eternally.
Love
HM🌻

26/03/2026

23/03/2026

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23/03/2026

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22/03/2026

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21/03/2026

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21/03/2026

Introduction to Me

21/03/2026

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20/03/2026

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