Emma Barter Victoria Home

08/10/2025

Today both residents and staff enjoyed a lovely spa day. With everyone getting envolved. What an awesome time it was to spoil each other.

Life is all about these special moments enjoyed together as one family. Thank you Sr Moodly and your team for oganising this time of sharing and caring.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

07/10/2025

Let us not forget our Elders living in care facilities. This is where we all came from. Spend time getting to know somebody new each day you can. Oh the knowledge they hold is vast and time is short.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

01/10/2025

Wanda Serena Pettersson

01/10/2025

Emma Barter Victoria home celebrated International Day of Older Persons. Starting of with Mansur Dalals message from CommonAge.

Whatch this space tomorrow to see more pictures of the day.

17/09/2025

Do not go to sleep without giving the ones you love a hug, kiss , call or thought. Remember life is short and we were made to love and care for one another. Don’t forget your loved ones always remember one day you may be in the same place , position or need for care. Yes they may have friends in the home , carers they may be close too but they also have you their loved one. A call , message, what’s app or even an email sent to the office can be the difference that puts a smile on their face and warmth in their hearts.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

10/09/2025

🎉 The 17th IFA Global Conference.

Key momoments on day one. Providing a space for delegates to make critical connections and partnerships to advance healthy ageing and What a privilege to be a part of this amazing event.

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241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.
improve the lives of older people.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

10/09/2025

What a privilege to be a part of this amazing event.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

08/09/2025

What an amazing start to the week. Collaborating with leaders in the field. Commonage; TAFTA; Femada Shamam; Carmel Murugen; Emma Barter Victoria Home and Marian Villa.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

07/09/2025

Can’t wait ! What an amazing opportunity to be attending the IFA’s 17th Global Conference on Ageing in Cape Town. Representing our wonderful home in Pietermaritzburg . Emma Barter Victoria Home.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

30/08/2025

12/06/2025

This should be hung in every dementia care home and in hospitals where there are patients with dementia.
If I get dementia, I’d like my family to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things.
And I would add one more:
Every time you enter the room announce yourself. “Hi Mom- it’s Margaret.”
NEVER ask- Do you know who I am??? That causes anxiety.
1. If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.
2. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.
3. If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.
4. If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.
5. If I get dementia, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.
6. If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.
7. If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.
8. If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.
9. If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.
10. If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.
11. If I get dementia, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.
12. If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.
13. If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.
14. If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.
15. If I get dementia, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.
16. If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.
17. If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.
18. If I get dementia, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original place.
19. If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.
20. If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.
21. If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”

Not only today but every day remember older adults not only your loved ones but everyone. This involves respecting their wisdom, experiences, and individuality, while also acknowledging potential challenges like memory loss, and supporting their well-being through social connection and care.

https://ebvh.org.za/
Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

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