Emma Barter Victoria Home

30/08/2025

30/08/2025

In loving memory of Heather Farkas.

Two years ago we lost this amzing angel that was loaned to us. Heather Farkas was a kind, amazing, loving woman that gave her all to EBVH. We at Emma Barter Victoria Home were blessed to have her for the time she was here and her memory grows on in each and every life she touched.

We miss her smile and her rocking and rolling. She would be happy today knowing that the home has continued to grow in her adsence. We continue to have a wonderful, passionate and friendly home with an amazing team having Phillippa Randal joining us.

Hope you are smiling down on us, enjoying the view and having a good laugh here and there. Most importantly resting.

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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

31/07/2025

We at Emma Barter Victoria Home are blessed to have the most amazing staff, who do the job for the passion and love. Today Sr Jenny Moodly surprised the residents at the home cooking delicious chilli bites that were enjoyed by all.
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Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

12/06/2025

This should be hung in every dementia care home and in hospitals where there are patients with dementia.
If I get dementia, I’d like my family to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things.
And I would add one more:
Every time you enter the room announce yourself. “Hi Mom- it’s Margaret.”
NEVER ask- Do you know who I am??? That causes anxiety.
1. If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.
2. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.
3. If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.
4. If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.
5. If I get dementia, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.
6. If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.
7. If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.
8. If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.
9. If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.
10. If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.
11. If I get dementia, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.
12. If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.
13. If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.
14. If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.
15. If I get dementia, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.
16. If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.
17. If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.
18. If I get dementia, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original place.
19. If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.
20. If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.
21. If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”

Not only today but every day remember older adults not only your loved ones but everyone. This involves respecting their wisdom, experiences, and individuality, while also acknowledging potential challenges like memory loss, and supporting their well-being through social connection and care.

https://ebvh.org.za/
Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

Supported accommodation provides you with greater independence while ensuring you still have the support you need to navigate daily life.

11/05/2025

Happy Mother’s Day to all our mothers out there. May you be blessed.

https://ebvh.org.za/
Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

14/04/2025

What wonderful service we always review from Intercare. Dr Armstrong is amazing in treating our residents. Congratulations.

22/03/2025

Not only today but every day remember older adults not only your loved ones but everyone. This involves respecting their wisdom, experiences, and individuality, while also acknowledging potential challenges like memory loss, and supporting their well-being through social connection and care.

https://ebvh.org.za/
Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

Supported accommodation provides you with greater independence while ensuring you still have the support you need to navigate daily life.

25/12/2024

Emma Barter Victoria Home would like to wish all our residents their family and friends of the home a joyous and peaceful holidays. May this Christmas bring your way plenty of reasons to Smile as you spend time with loved ones.

https://ebvh.org.za/
Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.

09/11/2024

Wanda Serena Pettersson

30/08/2024

An absolutely wonderful afternoon spent honoring someone who gives so selflessly of her self. I am proud to know her🌺

17/06/2024

What an amazing day we had at the launch of The Africa and Asia chapters of Commonage 🙌 15 June 2024. Brilliant people and minds have come together with one common goal. To do the best we can for our elderly. Let us not forget what they have done for us.



https://ebvh.org.za/
Emma Barter Victoria Home
241-257 Retief Street, Pietermaritzburg.
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