20/01/2026
If this relationship feels like it’s breaking you,
I need you to hear this:
You are not weak.
You are not failing.
And you are not alone.
You didn’t imagine the distance.
You didn’t become “too much.”
You didn’t wake up one day and stop loving.
You tried.
You explained.
You waited.
You softened.
You stayed hopeful longer than anyone knows.
And when nothing changed,
your body did the only thing it could to survive,
it pulled back.
That doesn’t make you cold.
It makes you human.
So many couples sit in this quiet place,
loving their partner
while slowly grieving the relationship they thought they were building.
Feeling alone next to someone.
Feeling guilty for wanting more.
Wondering if giving up would finally bring relief.
If that’s you, please pause.
Because this relationship isn’t trying to break you.
It’s trying to grow you.
Not by asking you to tolerate less.
Not by asking you to abandon yourself.
But by revealing the places where you’ve been carrying too much, alone, for too long.
The confusion you feel?
It has a reason.
The pain you feel?
It makes sense.
The longing you feel?
It’s pointing somewhere important.
You don’t need to decide everything today.
You don’t need to leave or stay right now.
You just need support that understands what’s actually happening beneath the surface.
There is a way forward that doesn’t require you to harden your heart
or disappear from yourself.
I know the path, and I will walk it with you. I have walked it myself and I supported many couples before you in this journey.
If something in you is whispering, “This is me,”
please listen.
Take the leap.
You don’t have to do this alone anymore.
