08/10/2025
Even with the best prep, toddlers will still have big feelings - and that’s okay.
🗝️ The secret is in how you respond:
Acknowledge their feelings. Instead of “Stop being jealous,” try: “It’s normal to feel jealous of your baby sister. But our love grows with each new child - there’s more than enough for you.”
Shift the focus. Instead of: “I can’t play, I need to feed the baby,” say: “Get the blocks out, and I’ll join you as soon as I’m finished.” Even 2 minutes of one-on-one connection helps.
Don’t blame the baby. If your toddler keeps hearing: “I can’t, the baby needs me,” they’ll link the baby with rejection. Instead, frame it around what you can do together.
And don’t underestimate the power of stories - sibling-themed books help toddlers process their feelings and see themselves in a positive “big helper” role.
Adjustment takes time, but with empathy and consistency, jealousy can transform into healthy, loving sibling bonds.