16/03/2026
It is crucial to support new mothers.
I always say, happy mom, happy baby!
The lives of a mother and baby are tightly knit, it is also true that when a mother feels supported and understood that this will have a positive impact on her baby.
After welcoming a baby into the world, a new mother will experience a roller-coaster of emotions - heart-bursting love, exhaustion, uncertainty and extreme happiness. Sometimes a mother herself can get overlooked at a time when she needs a lot of support navigating the emotions and tasks of parenthood and recovering from birth.
Ways to support mothers:
- Encourage her in what she chooses to do, if she chooses to breastfeed do not push her to give formula, if she chooses to formula feed do not push her to breastfeed. It remains her choice and that should be supported and respected.
- Give her reassurance that she is doing a great job being a new mother
- Ask her how SHE is doing, not just how the baby is doing.
- Tell her how well she is doing
- Ask her what she needs : a shower, some fresh air, a nap, a household chore to be done. Be a helper , not a guest.
- Drop off a meal
- Do not make an unexpected visit
- Be there for her and let her know she can lean on you
- Check-in regularly by message or visit if she feels up to it
- Respect her boundaries
- Help her find more support services like a midwife or lactation consultant in her area if needed.