Thomas Jordi - Specialist Wellness Counsellor & Trauma Practitioner

Thomas Jordi - Specialist Wellness Counsellor & Trauma Practitioner Solution-focused goal-orientated, with a passion to see healthy connections amongst people and within families.

Especially focussed on adoption/foster-care education and awareness and the effects of childhood trauma on development.

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29/01/2026

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Beth Thomas was 19 months old when her childhood ended. Her biological father's abuse was constant and devastating. By the time protective services intervened, the damage appeared permanent.
Tim and Julie adopted Beth and her younger brother Jonathan, hoping to give them the loving home they deserved. They had no warning of what was coming.
At first, Beth seemed like any other child. Blonde hair, blue eyes, quiet. She looked innocent.
The reality was terrifying.
Beth showed no emotion. No affection. No connection to the people trying to love her. Then the violence began.
She sexually abused her brother. She tortured the family dog with needles. She masturbated publicly and compulsively. She threatened to stab her parents with knives while they slept.
Every night, Tim and Julie locked their six-year-old daughter in her bedroom. Not as punishment—as survival.
They were afraid of their own child.
Beth wasn't just "difficult." She had Reactive Attachment Disorder, caused by severe abuse during infancy. Her brain had been rewired by trauma. Where empathy and trust should have developed, there was only rage and self-preservation.
In 1989, therapist Dr. Ken Magid filmed sessions with Beth that would shock the world.
"Do you want to hurt your parents?" he asked.
"Yes," six-year-old Beth answered calmly.
"How would you hurt them?"
"Stab them."
Her voice was flat. Matter-of-fact. Like describing breakfast.
When asked if she cared if they died, she shook her head no.
This wasn't a child speaking. This was trauma speaking through a child.
Dr. Magid made a devastating recommendation: Beth needed immediate removal and intensive therapeutic intervention that no family could provide alone.
Beth was placed with attachment therapy specialist Connell Watkins for intensive treatment, then later adopted by therapeutic foster parent Nancy Thomas. Nancy's home wasn't normal—it was a controlled therapeutic environment with strict boundaries and constant emotional work.
Every day, Nancy taught Beth things most children learn naturally: how to accept affection, how to trust, how to feel empathy.
Beth resisted for months. She fought every attempt at connection.
But Nancy refused to give up. She provided structure, boundaries, and unwavering compassion for a child everyone else called a monster.
Slowly, something shifted.
Beth started responding to affection. She began showing remorse. The rage cracked, revealing the wounded little girl underneath.
The 1990 documentary "Child of Rage" aired Beth's chilling therapy sessions alongside her gradual transformation. The world watched in horror and fascination as this six-year-old articulated her desire to kill, then slowly, painfully learned to love.
People were divided. Some saw a child beyond saving. Others saw a child worth saving.
Nancy saw a child worth fighting for.
Years of intensive therapy continued. Beth remained in Nancy's care, learning day by day how to be human in the ways trauma had stolen.
And then, gradually, Beth Thomas healed.
Not completely—some scars never fully disappear. But enough. Enough to trust. Enough to love. Enough to build a life beyond what was done to her.
Today, Beth Thomas is a registered nurse.
The little girl who once wanted to stab people now dedicates her life to healing them.
She specializes in neonatal care—working with the most vulnerable babies. She advocates for early intervention in childhood trauma and Reactive Attachment Disorder.
She does this knowing footage of her at her worst—at six years old, calmly discussing murder—still circulates online. She does this knowing people will judge her for things she did as a traumatized child.
She does it anyway because her story can save children trapped in the same darkness she escaped.
In interviews, Beth speaks with remarkable clarity and courage. She acknowledges what she did while explaining how trauma literally altered her developing brain.
"I was a sick child," she's said. "But I wasn't born that way. I was made that way."
Her brother Jonathan also received intensive therapy and has gone on to live a healthy life.
Tim and Julie, her first adoptive parents, later reconnected with Beth after her recovery. The family that once feared her now celebrates the woman she became.
Nancy Thomas continues her work with attachment-disordered children through Families by Design, using Beth's case as proof that even severe trauma can be addressed with proper intervention.
Beth Thomas's story forces us to confront uncomfortable truths: children who commit violent acts aren't born evil—they're created by evil done to them.
Healing is possible, but it requires resources, expertise, and a society willing to invest in broken children rather than discard them.
Beth was six years old when people wanted to give up on her. She's now in her forties, saving lives.
Six-year-old Beth wanted to kill. Adult Beth wants to heal.
That transformation didn't happen by accident. It happened because specialists refused to believe a child was beyond saving, and because that child found the courage to let herself be saved.
The little girl of rage became a woman of compassion.
Her journey proves our worst moments don't have to define our entire story—if someone believes we're worth saving, and if we find the strength to believe it too.

07/01/2026

There’s a quiet kind of beauty we often rush past. The ordinary moments. The routines, the small, unseen faithfulness of everyday life. Reclaiming the beauty of the mundane invites us to slow down, notice what’s already here, and rediscover meaning in the moments that shape us most. Nothing flashy, just deeply human, deeply sacred and quietly transformative.

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As I close for Christmas, I want to say thank you to everyone who trusted me enough to invite me into your story this ye...
19/12/2025

As I close for Christmas, I want to say thank you to everyone who trusted me enough to invite me into your story this year. Walking alongside you, listening, and supporting you has been a real privilege.

I hope this Christmas brings moments of rest, connection, and hope for you and those you love. I look forward to reconnecting in the new year as we continue the journey together.

as people go, you are by far my favourite. 21 years married, 27 together, you have always been a light and support. My g...
09/12/2025

as people go, you are by far my favourite. 21 years married, 27 together, you have always been a light and support. My greatest encourager and safest place. This year has been filled with deep valleys and we haven’t yet reached the summit that allows it to all make sense. With all the challenges, you have always encouraged, always loved and constantly been a light our family can depend on. We may not have reached the summit yet, but when we do, we will do it together. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your love, your patience and your never ending belief in our journey, us and me.

01/12/2025

So much of our growth happens when we stop trying to be something and rather start choosing to notice something. When we aim to become aware of our patterns, reactions and stories, we free ourselves from needing to be ‘fixed’. Awareness creates movement, movement creates change and change creates possibility.

Some real questions we should be looking at
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Some real questions we should be looking at

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28/11/2025

With the ending of each school year comes a mix of joy and quiet sadness for our kids, the excitement of growing up, learning new things and stepping forward. With this comes the grief of leaving behind familiar routines, teachers, and the version of themselves they were just starting to understand. As parents, let’s hold space for both.

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