20/05/2020
HOW TO DEAL WITH QUARANTINE EMOTIONS
Discover a new and healthier way to process stress.
Hi Guys
If you’re like DEBRA AND I, you’ve probably been under quarantine a month plus.
Which has really taken its toll on our mental health and wellbeing...
Being stuck at home can be deeply isolating.
Adapting to working at home and home-schooling your kids is a tough balancing act.
And whether you’re an entrepreneur or an employee, the future feels very uncertain.
We feel you.
We’re in the same boat here. BILLIONS of us.
This is why this week with MindQuest, We are bringing in a remarkable teachings which will rewire your mind to better deal, cope and process highly stressful situations -- so you remain at the peak of your mental health no matter what is happening around you -- lockdowns, quarantines or job losses.
Under normal circumstances, stress-related illnesses are already a massive issue in our daily lives.
But life today is far from ‘normal’ and our stress and anxiety levels have reached a new peak as a result.
Now, if you think you’re not really stressed out… think again.
There are specific symptoms to underlying stress that may indicate that you are far more stressed out than you really think you are.
Physical symptoms of stress include:
Low energy.
Headaches.
Upset stomach, including diarrhea, constipation, and nausea.
Aches, pains, and tense muscles.
Chest pain and rapid heartbeat.
Insomnia.
Frequent colds and infections.
Loss of sexual desire and/or ability.
Some of the psychological and emotional signs that you're stressed out include:
Depression or anxiety.
Anger, irritability, or restlessness.
Feeling overwhelmed, unmotivated, or unfocused.
Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much.
Racing thoughts or constant worry.
Problems with your memory or concentration.
Making bad decisions.
We suggest a powerful hypnotherapy technique that’ll dissolve your stress and put you into a deep state of relaxation.
When we went through this we were genuinely blown away at how profoundly relaxed I felt (while still maintaining mental sharpness)...
So if you’re feeling the burden of stress weighing you down and you’re looking for a better way to cope with the ‘quarantine emotions’, then try this
When one of our friends asked us to describe how meditation makes you feel, this is what I said:
Meditation makes me feel like I’m on a beach reading my favorite book. I’m deeply relaxed, I have nowhere to go and nothing to do. I trust that my day will unfold naturally and I don’t need to make anything happen. I feel so safe and so good.
I may not be able to go to the real beach right now, but I can get that feeling just by sitting in meditation.
So before you read on, the idea is to get yourself to a place you would really want to be , maybe you have been there before maybe you have seen pictures ,maybe its just in your mind. The key is to go to a place visually like your in a movie and you are the director, feel the happiness, safety peace allow yourself to be there experience every thing, the wind , smells , presence of safety , comfort ,happiness etc
I personally have been in very hectic and disastrous situations and I can tell you using this technique really works on such a profound level.
Here's how to begin a basic meditation practice:
Step 1: Get Into a Comfortable Position
Choose where and how you'll sit. Many people like to sit in a comfortable chair while others prefer to sit cross-legged on the ground. You want to be able to completely relax while still staying awake.
Ensure that your posture is correct. It is easier to stay awake through long meditations if your back is straight. If you begin your meditation practice with this in mind, your body will become used to the position as you move on to longer periods of time.
Tip: Should you feel your shoulders slump while meditating, simply straighten back up. A straight back will also prevent soreness during longer meditations.
If you choose to sit in a chair, sit toward the front of the seat and place your feet firmly on the floor. This will improve your posture and help you concentrate on your practice.
Step 2: Close Your Eyes Gently
When you are in a comfortable position, look into the distance with a soft gaze, then slowly lower your lids. Keep your jaw slack and slightly open as well. You want to relax all of your facial muscles.
Tip: Do not squeeze your eyes tight. If you feel your face tighten, slowly open your eyes, refocus on that soft gaze and lower them again.
At this stage, your goal is to relax every part of your body. If you feel some tension in certain parts of your body, take a deep breath and allow it to relax you.
Step 3: Put DISTRACTING Thoughts Aside
While you can't control your thoughts, you can control how much power they have over you. This doesn't mean you should ignore or suppress them, but simply remain calm, note them, and then use your breathing to bring you back to the moment. Learning to do this during your meditation practice can help you to let things go in the rest of your life as well.
Tip: If you get carried away in your thoughts, don't be hard on yourself. Take a moment, without judgement, to observe where your mind went off to and then return to your breathing.
Step 4: Keep Going
That’s it, really! Keep putting aside any thoughts that may pop into your mind. ( Other than your mind movie )The quiet spaces between thoughts will become longer and more frequent the longer you practice.
A Few Tips to Help Your Meditation Practice
Here are a few more tips to keep in mind as you move along on the road to mediation.
Give it time
Meditation takes practice and a lot of it. If you’re expecting to do it "perfectly," you may actually create more stress than you relieve. There is no "perfect" meditation session and if you go into it with an expectation of perfection, you may let yourself down and won’t want to stick with it.
Start Small and Work up to Longer Sessions
Begin with a short session of 5 minutes. After you are comfortable, move to 10 or 15 minutes until you are comfortable meditating for 30-minute sessions.
With practice, this type of meditation becomes easier and more effective. You will come out of a meditation session feeling relaxed and refreshed, ready to face the rest of your day.
Track Your Time and Set Goals ( or your mind movie )
It can be easy to lose track of time while meditating and two minutes can seem like an eternity when you are just beginning. This can cause you to worry and have thoughts like "Is my time up?" or "Have I meditated long enough?" Those thoughts defeat the purpose of clearing your mind.
To combat this, you may want to set a timer. Use an app on your phone and set it for the amount of time you want to meditate during that session. Be sure to use a gentle tone or set it to vibrate so it doesn't startle you when time is up, then turn off the screen and relax.
With practice, you may eventually find yourself saying, "Wow, that was 10 minutes? I could go longer!" When you are comfortable, skip the timer and allow your meditations to last as long as needed.
NB: Its very hard to let go of concern and worries, we know!
BUT this time is for you use it just for you give yourself a well need break.
Namaste