Shumi Beauty Kali Counselling

07/07/2025

Ever notice how the whole family tiptoes around the same person?
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Sometimes “keeping the peace” means handing the loudest person all the power,
while everyone else is expected to stay quiet.
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But real peace doesn’t come from walking on eggshells
or tiptoeing around dysfunction.
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It doesn’t come from silencing your own needs
just to soothe someone else’s chaos.
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It comes when boundaries are respected,
when harmony is shared,
not forced. ⚖️
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Because if you’re constantly comforting the person who causes the most pain,
that’s not peace,
it’s quiet at a cost. 🕯️
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And eventually,
someone’s silence becomes too heavy to carry.
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04/06/2025

03/06/2025

💛 Gratitude for the Ordinary

We often wait for the “big moments” to feel grateful.

But the real magic?
It’s in the ordinary:
☕ A warm cup of tea
📚 A good book
🌻 A smile from a stranger

Today, let’s celebrate the beautiful “small things.”
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Create a safe space for communication in your marriage.

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SUCH a powerful reminder for our kids.
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25/03/2025

Complaining affects your mental health.

12/03/2025

9. You spend time talking about people you don't like.