Sacred Dying - Embracing the End of Life

23/04/2025

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Marlene Wide, Candice Storm Baker

10/04/2025

Congratulations to our certified doula Vuya Kabanyane!

𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐀𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐚 𝐛𝐨𝐚𝐫𝐝:
We are delighted to welcome Vuya Kabanyane Ilengou as our newest Advisory Trustee. Vuya is the former Head of Group Brand Marketing at Liberty. Vuya brings a wealth of experience in marketing, advertising, and communications. She has also recently completed her training as a death doula and is passionate about opening up conversations about the end-of-life across cultures.

"I am thrilled to join the DSA Advisory Trustee Board and look forward to contributing valuable knowledge and expertise to support the growth and success of the brand during my tenure."



An Advance Directive is one of the best ways to ensure your end-of-life care preferences are honored. Please like our page, follow us, share our posts, and support our cause in the comments below, and become part of the conversation. 𝐌𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞, 𝐌𝐲 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡, 𝐌𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞. 👇👇👇👇👇

08/04/2025

SPIRITUAL COMPANIONSHIP FOR THE DYING

Sitting with the dying and offering one-to-one care, companionship and support, Death Companions (Doulas) also offer spiritual companionship.

Our definition of the word 'spiritual' is both loose and wide: we are non-denominational, multi-faith and work alongside the beliefs of the person we are caring for. If they have no beliefs, that is fine too. Death Companions (Doulas) should, however, have an understanding if the mainwisdom teachings and rituals of the major world religions, as they will be caring for people of all religions.

Whatever their beliefs, many dying people want to talk about the meaning of their life and death. Death Companions (Doulas) can help ease emotional concerns by listening and participating in these conversations.

Content Source - The Soul Midwives Handbook -Felicity Warner
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31/03/2025

https://omny.fm/shows/the-full-circle/what-is-a-death-doula-and-how-does-having-one-help

Guest: Mona Minnaar, Death Doula and Founder of Sacred Dying Just like birth doulas use their emotional support to bring life into this world, death doulas assist in the dying process. Death is inevitable, but no one should die alone. In Western societies, many have lost touch with the spiritual asp...

26/03/2025

Mona Minnaar will be interviewed live at 13.10 today talking about the role of the Death Doula.

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10/03/2025

Sharing this beautiful work from a special women offering remembrance ceremonies in South Africa 🩷

In the Western world, we don’t have a dying rite of passage. Death is something many fear, avoid, and push to the edges of our lives. Even when it arrives at...

06/03/2025

🌿✨ The Movement of Death Doulas is Growing in South Africa! ✨🌿

At Sacred Dying SA, we are beyond grateful to be part of the growing movement of Death Doulas in South Africa. 🕊️ This incredible community is dedicated to supporting individuals and families through one of life's most profound and transformative experiences.

As more people embrace this essential role, we encourage those with a calling to consider becoming a trained Death Doula. The work is deeply meaningful, providing comfort, care, and guidance during life’s final moments. 🌸

If you feel drawn to this work, we invite you to enrol and be part of this amazing movement. Together, we can help transform the way we approach death and end-of-life care. 💫

Join us in creating a more compassionate, informed, and loving end-of-life experience. 🙏

To enrol, click here: www.sacreddying.co.za

Sacred Dying South Africa Embracing The End Of Life “Death must be so beautiful. To lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above one’s head, and listen to silence. To have no yesterday and no tomorrow. To forget time, to forget life, to be at peace.” ~Oscar Wilde~ The Art Of Sacr...

04/03/2025

✨ The Unspoken Transition: Silence at the Threshold ✨

In the final moments of life, a profound silence often settles in. It is not just the absence of sound but a presence—deep, resonant, and filled with meaning.

For those sitting vigil, this silence can feel heavy. The urge to fill it with words, music, or reassurances is natural. But what if silence is exactly what the dying need? What if, in that space, they are listening—to something beyond this world, to the voices of ancestors, to the call of the Great Mystery?

Holding space in these moments requires trust. Trust that nothing more needs to be said. That our presence, our breath, and our witnessing are enough.

💭 Have you ever experienced this sacred silence? What did it reveal to you?

28/02/2025

Talking About Death: A Vital Conversation

Death is a natural part of life, yet many avoid discussing it. The Death Positive Movement encourages open conversations, seeing them as essential for a healthier relationship with mortality.

Proud to share this radio interview with our mentor and founder of Sacred Dying SA, Mona Minnaar on this important topic.

🎧 Listen here: https://omny.fm/shows/on-the-move/it-might-sound-like-an-oxymoron-how-can-death-poss

Enjoy 💜

The fact is we’re all going to die and openly discussing our mortality can help us frame death as the final phase of life, rather than as something separate from life that is too scary or morbid to acknowledge. This concept of embracing death as a part of life defines the Death Positive Movement a...

27/02/2025

What has grief taught you?

Grief is one of life’s deepest teachers. It can break us open, reshape our understanding of love, and show us the depth of our own resilience. For some, it brings clarity; for others, it reveals unexpected lessons about life, death, and healing.

We invite you to share—what has grief taught you? Your words may bring comfort or insight to someone walking a similar path.

25/02/2025

🌿 Embrace Life with a Living Funeral at Sacred Dying 🌿

At Sacred Dying, we believe that celebrating life is just as important as honoring death. A living funeral offers a beautiful, meaningful way to gather with loved ones while you’re still here, sharing stories, gratitude, and memories that can be cherished for a lifetime. 🌸

This is one of the unique services provided by death doulas – we are here to guide and support you in creating a ceremony that reflects your journey, expresses your wishes, and allows you to connect deeply with those who matter most.

💬 Reach out to us today to learn more about how we can help you plan your own living funeral, celebrating life and legacy with love and intention.

24/02/2025

🌿✨ Creating a Sacred, Clean Space for the Dying ✨🌿

A clean and peaceful environment can bring comfort and peace to those who are nearing the end of their journey. A sacred space promotes calm, healing, and a sense of safety. 🕊️

Here are a few simple ways to improve the cleanliness and energy of this space:

🕯️ Tidy the space: Clear clutter and create a serene, organized environment that allows for ease and calmness.

🌸 Freshen the air: Light a gentle candle, use essential oils, or open a window for fresh air to fill the room with tranquility.

🌿 Natural elements: Incorporate plants, soft lighting, or meaningful objects to bring comfort and peaceful energy to the space.

A clean and nurturing space can greatly enhance the final moments of life, providing a loving atmosphere for both the person and their loved ones. 🌿💖

21/02/2025

🌿✨ Weekend Vibes at Sacred Dying SA ✨🌿

As we step into the weekend, let’s take a moment to nurture our souls and honor the sacredness of life and transition. Whether you're seeking peace, healing, or connection, Sacred Dying SA is here to support you on your journey. 🌙💫

This weekend, we encourage you to embrace mindfulness, reflection, and self-care. Take time to connect with nature, your loved ones, or your inner peace.

Remember, we're here to guide you through life’s sacred transitions with love, compassion, and respect. 🌸

20/02/2025

🌿 Sacred Dying: How to Start the Conversation About Approaching Death 🌿

Talking about death is never easy, but it’s an essential part of the dying process. At Sacred Dying, we believe that opening up honest, compassionate conversations about the end of life can bring peace, clarity, and comfort to both the person dying and their loved ones.

Here are a few gentle ways to begin the conversation:

🕊 Create a Safe Space
Approach the topic in a calm and quiet environment. Ensure that the person feels safe, loved, and supported. Let them know you’re there to listen, not to judge or rush their feelings.

🗣 Ask Open-Ended Questions
Start with simple, open-ended questions like, “How are you feeling about the days ahead?” or “Is there anything you’re thinking about or would like to talk about?” These questions allow space for the person to express their thoughts or concerns.

💬 Be Honest, But Gentle
It’s important to acknowledge the reality of the situation, but do so with care. If the person seems ready, you can say, “I know things are difficult right now, and I want to make sure we talk about what’s important to you as we move forward.” This invites openness without forcing the conversation.

🌱 Respect Their Pace
Everyone approaches their own mortality in different ways. Some may be ready to talk, while others may need more time. Respect their needs and follow their lead.

💖 Offer Comfort and Reassurance
Let the person know that they are not alone. Reassure them that their feelings are valid and that you’re there to support them every step of the way.

Death is a sacred journey, and the conversations we have along the way can help bring peace and closure. At Sacred Dying, we’re here to guide you through these profound moments with compassion and respect. 💫

If you have any tips or experiences to share, feel free to comment below. We’re all in this together. 💬🕊

20/02/2025

Are you ready?

🌿✨ Preparing for the Journey: End-of-Life Documents ✨🌿

At Sacred Dying SA, we believe in the power of preparation to bring peace of mind, both for you and your loved ones. Planning ahead for the end-of-life journey can make a significant difference when it comes to ensuring your wishes are honored.

Here are some essential documents to consider:

🖊️ Advance Directive – Clearly state your healthcare wishes, guiding your loved ones and medical professionals in the event that you're unable to make decisions.
🖊️ Last Will and Testament – Make your wishes known regarding the distribution of your estate and assets.
🖊️ Organ and Tissue Donation – If you wish to donate, ensure your intentions are documented.

Not sure where to start or need guidance? Chat to us today to find out what’s essential at the end of life. We’re here to help guide you through this important process with care and understanding.

💚 We’re here for you and your family every step of the way.

18/02/2025

🌿✨ Preparing for the Journey: End-of-Life Documents ✨🌿

At Sacred Dying SA, we believe in the power of preparation to bring peace of mind, both for you and your loved ones. Planning ahead for the end-of-life journey can make a significant difference when it comes to ensuring your wishes are honored.

Here are some essential documents to consider:

🖊️ Advance Directive – Clearly state your healthcare wishes, guiding your loved ones and medical professionals in the event that you're unable to make decisions.
🖊️ Last Will and Testament – Make your wishes known regarding the distribution of your estate and assets.
🖊️ Organ and Tissue Donation – If you wish to donate, ensure your intentions are documented.

Not sure where to start or need guidance? Chat to us today to find out what’s essential at the end of life. We’re here to help guide you through this important process with care and understanding.

💚 We’re here for you and your family every step of the way.

17/02/2025

🌿 Sacred Dying Weekly Update 🌿

Happy Monday, Sacred Dying community! 🌟

As we step into another week, we’re reflecting on the beauty of transformation and the sacredness of life’s final journey. At Sacred Dying, our mission is to support families and individuals with compassion, guidance, and holistic care during one of life’s most profound transitions.

We believe in creating a space for healing, connection, and peace, and this week, we’re reaching out to those who feel called to join our passionate team. 💚

If you’re someone with a heart for service, an interest in end-of-life care, and a desire to bring comfort to others, we would love to connect with you. Whether you have experience in the field or simply a deep sense of compassion, we believe every unique perspective contributes to the work we do.

✨ Why Join Sacred Dying?

Be part of a supportive, loving, and like-minded team
Provide meaningful and fulfilling care during life's final chapters
Make a lasting impact on families and individuals in their most vulnerable moments
If you feel called to walk this path with us, we encourage you to reach out and learn more about the opportunities available. Your presence could make all the difference in someone's journey. 🌱

Wishing you all a peaceful and fulfilling week ahead. Let’s continue to honor life and death with reverence, grace, and love. 💫

Sacred Dying South Africa Embracing The End Of Life “Death must be so beautiful. To lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above one’s head, and listen to silence. To have no yesterday and no tomorrow. To forget time, to forget life, to be at peace.” ~Oscar Wilde~ The Art Of Sacr...

14/02/2025

💖✨ Wishing all our Sacred Dying friends and followers a beautiful and peaceful Valentine’s Day! ✨💖

On this special day, we honor love in all its forms—whether it's the deep love for ourselves, the sacred bond we share with others, or the everlasting love that transcends all. 💫

Take a moment to reflect on the love that surrounds you, both seen and unseen, and know that it is with you always. May your day be filled with compassion, connection, and a sense of peace.

Sending warm, loving energy to all of you today and every day. 💖🌿