Road To Independence

Road To Independence Road to Independence is an organisation aimed at assisting hearing impaired people to live a fully intergrated life

Resist the urge to withdraw!Having navigated my own journey with hearing loss, I’d like to share a few principles that h...
15/12/2025

Resist the urge to withdraw!
Having navigated my own journey with hearing loss, I’d like to share a few principles that have helped me cope:

- Acknowledge and express your emotions and communicate with trusted loved ones.
- Acknowledge the challenges associated with noisy environments and the inaccessibility of gatherings, but hold onto hope.
- Resist the urge to withdraw.

I’m grateful for the unwavering support of my loved ones and friends, who have demonstrated patience, understanding, and genuine empathy. Their presence has been a steady source of comfort.

If you’re looking for support or a peer to talk to, consider joining the Fanie Dreams Movement. We are available to chat; send an email or WhatsApp to faniedreams@gmail.com or 064 757 5528.(only text messages)

Fanie du Toit
National Council of and for Persons with Disabilities

www.faniedreams.co.za
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The root of the challenge lies deeper than changing or adding more legislation, codes and/or policies. There is specific...
06/12/2025

The root of the challenge lies deeper than changing or adding more legislation, codes and/or policies. There is specific legislation and codes to protect the rights of persons who have impairments in South Africa, yet there is little enforcement thereof.

Buildings and meetings, for example, to a major extent completely exclude specifically those with invisible impairments. Less than 1 % of persons with disabilities have gainful employment. People who have impairments are still victimised and abused and are often told to apply for a grant and/or find accommodation in a “special‑needs” facility.

Role players often have little or no idea how to interact with someone who has an invisible impairment, preferring instead to pretend that the impairment does not exist. It is commonly known among persons who have impairments that the single most disabling barrier is people’s attitudes.

Legislation, and its enforcement, must be taken up and lobbied for a successful conclusion. We have wonderful legislation such as the Equality Act of 2000 (PEPUDA), but we do not see it being used. If existing legislation is not utilised, how will a Disability Act in South Africa make any difference in the lives of persons with disabilities at the grassroots level?

Attitudes are far more difficult to change. Nobody is born prejudiced or discriminatory; it is learned behaviour, taught to us from early childhood. A culture of respect for diversity must be developed, as changing legislation or adding another act will not be the only solution. The root of the challenge lies deeper than changing or adding more legislation, codes and/or policies.

Talking about a change in attitudes—nobody is born prejudiced or discriminatory; it is learned behaviour, taught from early childhood and inherited from previous generations. Attitudes are years in the making, and we acknowledge that it may take many years to combat stereotypes and misperceptions about, for example, invisible impairments. As long as attitudes are not changed, there will always be direct or indirect disability imposed on persons who have impairments.

The first step in the process is surely to acknowledge that all people are human beings first, who happen to have an impairment. We may just as well say “people who have dark hair” or “people who wear red shirts”. As human beings, we are all different but entitled to equal rights such as the right to life, dignity, education, mobility, safety and security, independent living, health services, employment, etc.

Only once society recognises that all people, including those with visible or invisible impairments, are equal, will the tide of ignorance turn.

Do you have an opinion on visible or invisible impairments as well as direct or indirect disability?

Write to me at

Fanie du Toit
Fanie Dreams

www.faniedreams.co.za
National Council of and for Persons with Disabilities
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After 10 years, this message still falls on deaf ears! https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1A7xqMB7Vp/After 10 years, this ...
03/12/2025

After 10 years, this message still falls on deaf ears! https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1A7xqMB7Vp/
After 10 years, this message still falls on deaf ears! Still, no real‑time captions appear on television news.

The phrase captures the paradox of progress that feels like stagnation. Policies are drafted, captions are added in isolated projects, and awareness campaigns flash across social media, but the information barrier remains unchanged for millions who share his reality.

It is a reminder that hearing a message is not the same as listening, and listening is not the same as acting. When we say the message still falls on deaf ears, we also acknowledge the exhaustion of those who have shouted into the void—advocates, families, educators, and persons with hearing disabilities themselves.

Their voices have become familiar background noise to a world that nods politely before turning away. So the sentence is both a lament and a call to action. It asks us to ask: Who is responsible for turning that deafness into attention?

How can we ensure that the next decade does not repeat the same cycle? The answer lies not in another poster or a fleeting social‑media post, but in concrete steps—literally and figuratively—toward universal design, enforceable standards, and a community that refuses to let another ten years pass while we wait for access.

Fanie du Toit
Fanie Dreams

www.faniedreams.co.za

"I am deaf but do not use SA Sign Language as a primary form of communication. International Day offers people like me the opportunity to draw the authoritie...

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01/12/2025

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3 December 2025 | International Day of Persons with Disabilities. On this day we pause—the world is a stage. To hear the voices that often go unheard.

Four to five million South African souls have hearing loss and do not speak South African Sign Language (SASL). Decision‑makers often turn a deaf ear, overlooking the rich diversity of hearing loss and blocking the path to self‑advocacy.

Concert halls, churches, bustling streets, and meetings where ideas should flow freely remain walls of silence for those who want to be heard.
It is disheartening—a wound that runs deep—when the right to be heard is openly denied.

Let us lift the veil, let inclusion sweep, and give every invisible impairment the respect it deserves.

Fanie du Toit
Fanie Dreams



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