Kind Roots

11/09/2025

Yesterday I was surprised when a colleague brought me roses and a chocolate. She shared that she and my other office mates had noticed that I was not myself. She did not ask why that was, she simply gave me a smile and this act of kindness. It brought me to tears.

I did not realise I was holding this heaviness, and that it was starting to show.

Each day I pick up my phone and grieve. I grieve for the hordes of children starving. I grieve for the parents who know no peace, who have no hope for their futures. I grieve for the people who have become so consumed by the difference that they do not see their sameness. I grieve for the people who have given up on growing, evolving, and reaching for love. I grieve for all those who seem to have lost their humanity.

My instinct when I’m struggling is to hide, to close the door, retreat into books or series. I am resisting that pull. Instead, I am inviting in connection. Because the closer I am to people, the more I see their beauty, their kindness, and their infinite possibilities.

If you are feeling this heaviness too and want to lighten it, I invite you to join me either online or in Swellendam. We are gathering to support, share and encourage each other in a world that can sometimes feel heavy.

When?
Swellendam: 22 September, 5:15 – 6:15
Online: 16 October, 6pm -7pm

05/09/2025

Kind Roots Counselling – Support for Parents, Children & Individuals 🌱

Life brings seasons of growth, change, and sometimes challenge. Whether you’re a parent navigating the ups and downs of raising children, a child needing a safe space to be heard, or an individual facing stress, anxiety, or a life transition – you don’t have to go through it alone.

At Kind Roots Counselling, I offer a gentle, supportive space where you can pause, breathe, and find new ways forward. My approach is warm, practical, and tailored to each person – whether through play therapy with children, support for parents, or counselling for adults.

Here, you’ll find:
✨ A safe, non-judgmental space
✨ Practical tools for navigating change and challenges
✨ Support that meets you where you are

If you’re curious about counselling and how it might support you or your family, I’d love to chat.

📍 Based in Swellendam | 💻 Online sessions also available
➡️ Send me a message to book or visit www.kindroots.co.za for more information

03/09/2025

This October I will be joining my friend and colleague Marina for a virtual coffee and we invite you to join us. We will be chatting about how to care for ourselves in an uncertain world. This is not a webinar. It is not therapy. It is something in between. Find out more about Coffee Chats and book your seat - https://mailchi.mp/e41b76102444/join-me-for-a-chat-over-coffee

29/08/2025

So many of today’s teens are more “connected” than ever — yet also lonelier than ever. 💔

As both a counsellor and a mom, I see first-hand the tug-of-war families face: wanting to protect children from too much screen time, but also knowing technology is deeply woven into their world. Add the rise of AI companions, and we’re entering completely new territory for developing brains.

The truth is, no parent has all the answers. What matters most is creating space where our kids feel seen, heard, and understood — beyond the screen. 🌱
I wrote about this: Is Hyper-Connectivity Fueling Teen Loneliness? (link in bio). I’d love to know what you think.

✨ How do you navigate screens, social media, and connection in your family?

29/08/2025

Our teens are more connected than ever before. All their friends and peers are at their fingertips, a mere tap or swipe away. And yet research shows us that a quarter of teens describe themselves as 'very lonely' or 'fairly' lonely. Could hyperconnectivity be fuelling the loneliness epidemic?

Teens and adolescents face an epidemic of loneliness, made worse by pervasive screen use and the impact of AI. But there are practical ways to help our youth feel heard and understood.

28/08/2025

An important conversation is happening in Swellendam. Mental health and physical health are entertwined. Join the conversation on healthier minds and bodies

Mental Health Conference 2025
Join us for an inspiring day of learning, connection, and awareness at the Swellendam Showgrounds on 10 October 2025.
Registration starts at 08:30 – don’t miss the chance to be part of important conversations that promote mental wellbeing and inclusivity.

Date: 10 October 2025
Time: Registration starts 08:30
Venue: Swellendam Showgrounds

Register now: https://forms.gle/Z45JysG8YVXYzh9aA

Let’s work together to break the stigma and build a healthier future for all.

Vorster Maverick & Kaye Swellendam Municipality - SWEMun National Department of Health (South Africa)

19/08/2025

🌿 Wondering what therapy is really like?

Sometimes taking that first step to reach out can feel daunting. It’s normal to wonder: “Will it help? Will they understand me or my child?”

Hearing how others have experienced the process can make a big difference. That’s why I’ve collected some reviews from parents and clients who’ve worked with me — sharing their journeys, breakthroughs, and moments of relief.

✨ You can read them here on my Google page: https://share.google/v4D7KEEtvIygGmkve

I hope these stories help remove any barriers that might be holding you back. Therapy is about support, understanding, and small but meaningful change — and it’s okay to take the first step at your own pace.

Thank you to each of the clients that have left a review - your honesty and vulnerability may inspire others to reach out for support too 😀

5.0 ★ · Counselor in Swellendam, South Africa

18/08/2025

We live in a world where we are more connected than ever. Notifications ping, messages arrive, feeds scroll endlessly…and yet, for all this connectivity, loneliness is rising.

In some ways, the very tools designed to bring us together may be driving us further apart.

In the quiet moments, when the screens go dark, the gap between connection and belonging becomes glaringly clear.
The antidote isn’t necessarily disconnecting entirely, but noticing the quality of our connections. Choosing depth over breadth. Being fully present with someone, even for a brief moment, can bridge a loneliness that endless scrolling never will.

Maybe it’s time to rethink what being “connected” really means and to give ourselves, and those around us, the gift of being truly seen.

15/08/2025

I’ve always been the kind of person who goes quiet when things get hard. It’s not that I don’t want to talk — it’s just that I don’t know how to talk when I’m overwhelmed. Sometimes I don’t even realise I’ve gone silent until a friend gently checks in: “Hey, you’re doing that thing again… want to talk?”

Over time, I’ve learned that this isn’t me being flaky or distant. It’s just how my nervous system has tried to protect me. But healing has looked like slowly learning to let people in. To respond to that message. To go for that walk. To believe I don’t have to do this alone.

I wrote about this — the real, raw kind of writing — and it’s up now on my Substack. If you ever disappear too, I hope it helps you feel a little less alone. 💛

https://open.substack.com/pub/kindroots/p/when-im-struggling-i-disappear?r=3krcsl&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

06/08/2025

Play is how children process the world. It’s how they make sense of big feelings, confusing experiences, and things they can’t yet put into words.

Therapeutic play isn’t just for children with diagnoses. It’s for any child navigating the ups and downs of growing up.

A move. A change in family dynamic. School stress. Friendship drama. Anxiety about things they don’t know how to explain.

In the playroom, children don’t need to talk their way through it — they show you what’s happening inside. And when met with warmth, curiosity, and attuned support, that showing becomes understanding.

At Kind Roots Counselling, Charisse Fourie creates a safe space where children can explore, express, and just be — through play.

💬 Curious about whether play therapy might help your child? Visit www.kindroots.co.za to learn more or reach out.

04/08/2025

Absolutely loving the big, serene therapeutic space at 7 Hermanus Steyn Street in Swellendam where I help children, teens and adults navigate life's ups and downs.

Still supporting clients online. Current base is in LA, Sydney, London and Cape Town.

29/07/2025

Ambiguity is part of the landscape of being human — and yet it’s one of the hardest things to sit with.

In my latest post, I talk about an interview question that caught me off guard… and how I’m trying to step gently through the not-knowing.

If anxiety, uncertainty, and overthinking are familiar friends — this one might resonate.

🔗 Link in bio to read.