Evelyn Alessandri - Intuitive Coach

25/05/2026

I want to ask you something that might be uncomfortable. Whose expectations are you currently living by? Not whose values. Whose expectations. Because here is what I have noticed, in fifteen years of sitting with women: most of us are driving a route that someone else planned for us. A parent. A partner. A society that had very clear ideas about what a woman's life should look like. And we have been following that route for so long that we have started to think it is ours. One of the most powerful things I ever did was stop and ask: is this what I want? Not what I think I should want. Not what would make everyone else comfortable.
What do I actually want? The answer surprised me. It might surprise you too.

18/05/2026

There is something I want to say to you this Monday afternoon: You've done the hard things. I know that sounds simple. But I want you to actually sit with it for a moment. You have survived things that would have stopped other people. You have made decisions in the dark without knowing whether they were right. You have kept going on the days when keeping going was the hardest possible thing. And somehow, here you are. We spend so much time looking at how far we still have to go that we forget to turn around and see how far we have come. This week I want to invite you to do something unusual: give yourself credit. Not false praise. Real, earned acknowledgment of the road you have already driven. You are more capable than you think. The evidence is in your own story.
Your road. Your wheel. Your journey.

11/05/2026

Can I share the single most useful thing I've ever learned? Before you answer, decide, or react, take three slow breaths. That's it. That is the whole thing. I call it a Pull Over Moment. And I have used it in the most high-stakes situations of my life - a cancer diagnosis, a courtroom, the morning my husband clutched his chest in pain, the day I walked out of a job that was making me smaller. Three breaths creates a space better the event and your response, and in that space, you get to choose. Not react. Choose. That is what it means to Take the Wheel. Try it today. Before the next difficult conversation, decision or moment that triggers you. Three slow breaths. Then see what you do.
Your Road, Your Wheel. Your Journey.

10/05/2026

A question to end the week with: If your life were a road trip, who would you want in the passenger seat? Not who is there right now. Who would you choose? I'd love to know. Drop a name or a quality in the comments - even just one word works.

Happy Sunday.

08/05/2026

In the quiet, I found my power.

When life handed me a diagnosis I wasn’t ready for, I discovered the most important thing I could do was pause. Not run, not react, just breathe.

I’m so grateful I got to share my story in the latest Odyssey Magazine.

If you’re in the middle of something hard right now, know that stillness is not a weakness, it’s where your answers live.

05/05/2026

I want to tell you something I have never said quite this directly before. For years I drove my life from the passenger seat. I was busy, capable, holding everything together and completely at the mercy of what everyone else needed from me. I didn't even notice it was happening. One reasonable compromise at a time, I had drifted. It took a cancer diagnosis, a move to the ocean, and a lot of very honest questions to find my way back to the wheel. I'm writing about it, and I'd love to share the journey with you. Over the next few weeks I'll be posting thoughts, questions and tools from my book, Taking the Wheel. Some of it will make you nod. Some of it might make you uncomfortable. All of it comes from a real road, driven honestly. I hope it helps you find yours. Your Road. Your Wheel. Your Journey. Love Evelyn

22/01/2026

Sometimes we step outside of our comfort zone ..... a little nervous .... a little unsure… and we end up experiencing something unexpectedly beautiful.
Saying yes to officiating this wedding was one of those moments for me.
I didn’t realise just how special it would feel to stand with two people on such a meaningful day, and how saying YES to one brave moment has opened the door to others still to come.
A great reminder that we truly grow when we step beyond ‘what’s normal for us’. There is magic when we're brave enough to feel scared, but decide to do it anyway!
I hope this post inspires you to try something new and brave in 2026.

31/12/2025

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Can you believe it’s the last day of 2025?
It is with gratitude that I share this New Year Bridge meditation to help move from 2025 to 2026 with peace and grace.
May we put down what no longer serves us and embrace the new year open to new possibilities.

Here's to new beginnings in 2026.

Thank you for your support this year. What a journey it has been!

This guided meditation is an invitation to pause at the threshold between years. To release what you've carried, honour how far you've come, and cross gentl...

21/12/2025

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05/12/2025

Let it go, let it go!!