Sylvia Mwewa - Nutrition & Health Expert

Sylvia Mwewa - Nutrition & Health Expert A seasoned Public Health Professional with over 15 years of experience.

“When Love Breaks the Mind: The Silent Mental Health Crisis Among Women”There’s something deeply unsettling about that s...
28/04/2026

“When Love Breaks the Mind: The Silent Mental Health Crisis Among Women”

There’s something deeply unsettling about that statement that a place like Chainama Hills Hospital is reportedly treating over 200 women whose breaking point traces back to failed relationships.

Even if the number is debated, the message behind it is loud and painful.

Because this isn’t just about “failed relationships.”
It’s about silent battles women are fighting every single day.

She didn’t just lose a relationship.
She lost the version of herself she built around someone else.
She lost time. She lost trust.
She lost the dreams she had already started living in her mind.

And for many women, love is never just love.
It is sacrifice.
It is endurance.
It is forgiveness stretched beyond human limits.

We are raising women who are taught:

“Be patient, he will change.”
“A good woman holds her home together.”
“Don’t speak too much, you might lose him.”

So she stays,
Through emotional neglect.
Through betrayal.
Through feeling unseen, unheard, unloved.

Until one day, her mind simply says: “I can’t carry this anymore.”

What breaks my heart is that when she finally breaks down, people say:
“It was just a relationship.”
No.
It was her whole world.

Many women are not just dealing with heartbreak. They are dealing with:

✅️Emotional dependency shaped by upbringing

✅️Financial vulnerability that traps them in unhealthy relationships

✅️Lack of safe spaces to express pain without judgment

✅️Societal pressure to “keep a man” at all costs

✅️Deep-seated trauma disguised as “love”

And when all of this collapses at once, the mind absorbs the shock.

We need to start asking different questions:

✅️Who is checking on her mental health while she is busy holding everyone else together?

✅️Who is teaching her that her identity is not tied to being chosen by a man?

✅️Who is helping her heal before she reaches a breaking point?

Support is not a luxury. It is a necessity.

We need:

✅️Safe counseling spaces that are affordable and accessible

✅️Conversations that normalize emotional struggles—not shame them

✅️Families that listen instead of dismissing

✅️Friends who go beyond “you’ll be fine” and actually show up

✅️Churches and communities that prioritize mental wellness alongside spiritual growth

And to every woman reading this:

You are allowed to grieve what you lost.
But you are not meant to lose yourself in the process.

You are more than who left.
You are more than what ended.
You are still worthy, whole, complete, and deserving of peace.

Maybe the real issue isn’t that women are “breaking over relationships.”
Maybe it’s that they’ve been holding too much, for too long, with too little support.

And now, their minds are asking for help the only way they can.

Let’s stop judging the breakdown.
Let’s start building support before it happens.


TODAY'S DEVOTION READ, RUTH 1:6-18Then Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth clung to her....Ruth replied, "D...
28/04/2026

TODAY'S DEVOTION

READ, RUTH 1:6-18
Then Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth clung to her....Ruth replied, "Don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God."
Ruth 1:14,16, NIV

TIME OF LETTING GO

Ruth and her sister-in-law, Orpah, both lost their husbands. Their widowed mother-in-law, Naomi, was moving back to her hometown. She told Ruth and Orpah to return to their hometowns and find new husbands, that there was no future in staying with her. Orpah kissed Naomi and moved on. But Ruth refused to leave Naomi and was determined to care for Naomi in spite of what it might cost her.

That tells me that if someone is supposed to stay with you, they'll stick with you through thick and thin. You won't be able to talk them into leaving. On the other hand, you can't convince the people to stay who are supposed to leave.

When God closes the door in a relationship, you can't pay them enough, compliment them enough, or treat them good enough. You have to accept that it's a necessary ending. You enjoyed the time together, but to become who you were created to be, you have to let them go so you can move forward into new relationships, new opportunities, new growth. Trust Him when you don't understand.

A Prayer for Today
"Heavenly Father, thank You that You are directing my steps even though the season of hurts, questions, and disagreements. Thank You that You bring people into my life and at times You move them out. Help me learn to accept Your sovereign plan, to stay in faith, and to see Your plan unfold. In Jesus' Name, Amen."

“Show Up Anyway: When Faith Carries You Through What Feelings Can’t”Show up even when you don’t feel like it.Because dis...
25/04/2026

“Show Up Anyway: When Faith Carries You Through What Feelings Can’t”

Show up even when you don’t feel like it.

Because discipline will carry you where motivation abandons you.

There will be days when your energy is low, your heart is heavy, and everything in you is whispering, “Not today.”
But those are the very days that define you.
Those quiet, unseen moments when you choose consistency over comfort, that’s where your strength is built.

And pray, pray even harder when nothing seems to be shifting.
Pray when the mountain refuses to move.
Pray when the silence is loud and the answers are delayed.

Because not every prayer moves the mountain,
Some prayers move you, your perspective, your endurance, your faith.

Keep showing up.
Keep believing.
Keep doing the work.

One day, you’ll look back and realize the mountain didn’t just move.
You became strong enough to climb it.

And that version of you? That, is unstoppable!

When My Children Became My Emotional Risk Assessment Team 😭😂So here I am, unbraiding my daughters’ hair, preparing for o...
25/04/2026

When My Children Became My Emotional Risk Assessment Team 😭😂

So here I am, unbraiding my daughters’ hair, preparing for our usual salon date same hairdresser, same system, same well-structured plan because we are not raising chaos in this house😌.

Out of nowhere, my girls unlock a memory.

Lubona: “Mummy, do you remember that day aunty M called and said she was no longer available and you should pick us up?”
Me: “Yes” already feeling my blood pressure greet me😅🤣😆
Lubona: “Did you like that joke?”
Me: “In all honesty, NO.” 😅😭

Then the full report comes out:

Lushomo: “We begged her not to do that to you.”
Lubona: “We told her, ‘Mummy will not like that, we know her very well.’”
Luumuno: “But she still called you”
Lubona: “And in the background we just knew, you won’t like it.”

😅🤣😂

Let me take you back.

That day I had a 07:00hrs live session at ZNBC. Meaning this was not a “let’s see how the day goes” type of morning. This was a military operation.

Plan:

✅️06:30 — Drop children at the salon

✅️06:31 — Exit like a focused woman with a destiny
✅️07:00 — Secure my interview slot at ZNBC 💼

We arrive. Aunty M is not there.

I call.

“Aah mummy, I’m 5 minutes away.”

Now listen, I am a woman who believes in systems, order, timelines, and the gospel according to “stick to the plan.” So when you say 5 minutes, I receive it in faith.

The helper is there. Children are settled. I leave.

Peacefully.

Confidently.

Like a woman whose life is under control.

Then the call comes.

“Aah mummy, change of plans. I won’t be available. Please come pick them.”

Let me just say, if confusion had a physical form, it would have been sitting in my chest that morning.

My brain:

“Interview.”

“Children.”

“Salon.”

“Time???”

“WHAT DO YOU MEAN CHANGE OF PLANS???”😭

And somewhere in that same salon my daughters were just there like:

“We warned her.”😅

Honestly, the part that is finishing me now is not even the incident.

It’s the fact that my children accurately predicted my reaction.

They didn’t just know I wouldn’t like it, They knew it would disturb the entire ecosystem of my being😭😂

Because if there’s one thing about me: I love order.
I respect time. And I strongly believe plans are not suggestions, they are commitments 😌

So yes, I survived the interview day chaos.

But today I learned something important:

I am not just raising children,
I am raising a panel of tiny behavioral analysts who understand me better than some adults 😭😂

And honestly?

I don’t know whether to be proud or concerned😅

“I Asked ‘How’s School?’ and Accidentally Opened a Therapy Session 😅”Sometimes life hands you a moment that refuses to m...
25/04/2026

“I Asked ‘How’s School?’ and Accidentally Opened a Therapy Session 😅”

Sometimes life hands you a moment that refuses to mind its own business.

Today I met a young, beautiful girl in boarding school. I asked a simple, harmless question: “How’s school?”
This child did not answer, she downloaded her entire emotional storage right there in front of me. Tears. Real ones. Not the “I’m fine but blinking aggressively” type. No, this was full-on system crash.

And just like that, I was transported back to the day I dropped my own daughter at boarding school. You know that moment when you’re trying to be a strong parent but your heart is doing gymnastics? Yes, that one.

So I asked her, “Have you spoken to your mum?”
She said yes but also said something that stayed with me: “She doesn’t want to listen.”

Now pause.

As a Behavioural Psychologist, this is where my internal siren went off. Not loudly, no, no. It was more like that polite but persistent “something is not adding up here” alarm.

Because here’s the thing:
When a child repeatedly raises a concern and feels unheard, they don’t just stop talking, they start shutting down. And when there’s bullying involved? That’s not just “kids being kids.” That’s a psychosocial stressor with real consequences on identity, self-worth, and long-term emotional regulation.

But here’s where it gets even more layered.

Apparently, her mother also went to that same boarding school.
Translation? We may be dealing with a classic case of “I survived it, so you will too.”

Ah. Intergenerational resilience, sometimes helpful, sometimes a little overconfident 😅

Because survival and well-being are not the same thing.

So there I was hugging this child, rubbing her back, praying for her while my brain was running a full psychological assessment in the background like:

✅️distress levels: high

✅️emotional safety: questionable

✅️support system: partially responsive

✅️my urge to call her mother: very high

Then reality tapped me on the shoulder:
“Madam Dean, your own child is also in boarding school. Sit down.”

And honestly? That humbled me.

Because even with all the check-ins, deep conversations, and my “let me analyze this behaviour quickly” tendencies, my child is still going back. For three years.
This one? Eight years.

Eight.

At this point I was no longer just concerned, I was negotiating with my own conscience like,
“Should I intervene or mind my well-behaved business?” 😅

But here’s the deeper reflection:

Not every child experiences the same environment the same way.
Two children can be in the same school, one thrives, the other quietly unravels.

So dear parents, especially us who say, “But I went there and I turned out fine,”
Let’s remember🤗

Your child is not your past.
They are their own present.

Listen a little deeper.
Ask one more question.
Believe them the first time.

Because sometimes, “I’m not okay” doesn’t come with a speech.
Sometimes it comes with tears in front of a stranger who simply asked, “How’s school?”

Now, back to my dilemma🤔🙄
Do I call this mother or do I drink water and behave?😅

When Your Name Enters Rooms Before You DoThere’s a quiet truth many of us overlook in business and service.Some of my bi...
23/04/2026

When Your Name Enters Rooms Before You Do

There’s a quiet truth many of us overlook in business and service.

Some of my biggest opportunities didn’t come from marketing budgets, paid ads, or strategic positioning. They came from conversations I was never in.

Rooms I’ve never entered.
Meetings I’ve never attended.
Decisions made behind closed doors.

And somehow my name was there.

“We were discussing health and wellness and your name came up.”

What’s even more humbling?
Many of those voices recommending me are people I once served for free.

Yes, the very thing we sometimes resist…
The very thing we question…
The very thing we fear will “drain” us!

has been planting seeds in places we cannot see.

This is the power of genuine service.

When you show up with excellence, integrity, and intention whether paid or not, you are building something far greater than a transaction. You are building trust capital. You are building a reputation that speaks in rooms you haven’t entered yet.

So today, I choose gratitude.

To everyone who has mentioned my name in a room I wasn’t in
To those who have trusted my work enough to recommend me
To those who saw value in what I offered even when it was given freely

I am deeply grateful.

And to anyone building, serving, or doubting the value of doing things well even when there’s no immediate return, don’t stop.

Your consistency is speaking.
Your excellence is echoing.
Your name is traveling.

May God position you in front of the right people.
May your work announce you in powerful spaces.
May your name be spoken in rooms that matter, by people who matter.

And may you never underestimate the power of doing good work, even when no one seems to be watching.

To all my recommenders, I say thank you. Truly.🤗

TODAY'S DEVOTION READ, PHILLIPIANS 3:7-11…that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of H...
23/04/2026

TODAY'S DEVOTION

READ, PHILLIPIANS 3:7-11
…that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death. Philippians 3:10, NKJV

The Fellowship of His Sufferings

For Jesus to reach His destiny of the resurrection, He had to go through suffering in Gethsemane and the agony of the cross. The apostle Paul says that if we want to know the power of His resurrection, it involves enduring some suffering. You have to have a strong will, a made-up mind, a warrior mentality. “I will not give up and start complaining, blaming, doubting, or worrying. I know that on the other side of this suffering is the power of the resurrection.” On the other side, there’s healing, abundance, divine connections, new levels. The suffering is not permanent. It’s for a season. It’s designed for you to pass through it so you can come into the power, the fullness, the abundance that God has in store.

The fact that you feel distressed by adversity is a sign that a resurrection is coming, that you’re close to something amazing—doors opening that you never dreamed would open, the right people showing up, healing from what looks impossible. You keep doing the right thing when it’s hard, and you’re about to see the power of the resurrection.

A Prayer for Today
“Heavenly Father, thank You that You are with me through every season of suffering. Thank You that You can bring me through the difficulties better off than I was before they showed up. I believe that as I keep doing the right thing, I will experience the power of Jesus’ resurrection. In Jesus’ Name, Amen."

Health, Wellness & The Power of Sport in University Life🤗University life is a journey filled with ambition, pressure, gr...
22/04/2026

Health, Wellness & The Power of Sport in University Life🤗

University life is a journey filled with ambition, pressure, growth, and discovery. In the middle of lectures, assignments, and deadlines, one thing often gets overlooked, your health and wellness. Yet, it remains the very foundation of success.

The moments captured during our Sports Day are more than just pictures, they are a reminder that wellness is not only about avoiding illness, but about actively choosing a lifestyle that nurtures both body and mind.

Sport is one of the most powerful wellness tools for students.
It brings energy, joy, connection, and balance into an otherwise demanding academic environment.

Through activities like running, football, netball, or even simple recreational games, students are able to:

✅️Reduce stress and anxiety by releasing built-up tension

✅️Improve concentration and academic performance

✅️Build teamwork, leadership, and social connections

✅️Enhance physical health and resilience

What stood out most during Sports Day was not just the competition, but the laughter, the teamwork, and the sense of belonging. These are critical elements of mental and emotional well-being.

As students, it is important to understand that:

✅️Taking care of your body improves how your mind functions

✅️Rest, nutrition, and movement are interconnected

✅️Wellness is a daily practice, not a one-time event

To every student:

Make time to move. Make time to breathe. Make time to live beyond the classroom.

Because in the end, university is not just about earning a qualification, it is about becoming a healthy, balanced, and resilient individual.

And sometimes, the most powerful lessons are learned outside the lecture room on the field, in the laughter, and in moments like these.😍🤩

WHAT’S FOR LUNCH? 🍽️ Let’s Talk About That Plate!“Don’t forget to cook at least 2–3 varieties of vegetables.”That’s not ...
22/04/2026

WHAT’S FOR LUNCH? 🍽️ Let’s Talk About That Plate!

“Don’t forget to cook at least 2–3 varieties of vegetables.”
That’s not just a suggestion, it’s a simple but powerful nutrition rule that can transform your health.

In many homes, lunch is centered around nshima or rice with one relish. But your body thrives on diversity. Different vegetables provide different nutrients, and combining them gives you a balanced, protective meal.

🥕 Why include 2–3 types of vegetables in every meal?

1️⃣Nutrient Diversity
No single vegetable has everything your body needs. For example:

✔️Leafy greens (like r**e, spinach) - rich in iron and folate
✔️Orange vegetables (like carrots, pumpkin) - high in vitamin A
✔️Cruciferous vegetables (like cabbage) - support detoxification
✔️Mixing them ensures your body gets a full spectrum of vitamins and minerals.

2️⃣Stronger Immunity
A colorful plate means more antioxidants. These help your body fight infections, reduce inflammation, and keep you energized.

3️⃣Better Digestion
Vegetables are packed with fiber, which improves digestion, prevents constipation, and supports a healthy gut.

4️⃣Weight Management
Vegetables are filling but low in calories. Adding more of them helps control portions without leaving you hungry.

5️⃣Chronic Disease Prevention
Regular intake of a variety of vegetables lowers the risk of conditions like hypertension, diabetes, and some cancers.

6️⃣Teaches Healthy Habits at Home
Children learn what they see. A plate full of vegetables normalizes healthy eating and builds lifelong habits.

🥗 Simple Lunch Idea:

✔️Nshima or rice
✔️Beans or fish
✔️Cabbage + pumpkin leaves + carrots (3 vegetables, one plate!)

✅️Eating well doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive, just intentional.

✴️Next time you ask, “What’s for lunch?”
Make sure the answer includes color, variety, and nourishment.🌱

TODAY'S DEVOTION READ  ISAIAH 27:2-6"Let him take hold of My strength."Isaiah 27:5, NKJV YOU CAN HANDLE IT We all face p...
22/04/2026

TODAY'S DEVOTION

READ ISAIAH 27:2-6
"Let him take hold of My strength."
Isaiah 27:5, NKJV

YOU CAN HANDLE IT

We all face pressure, opposition, situations that are unfair. Someone who should be for you turns against you. We all have times when we feel overwhelmed and think it's too much. But God promised that you'll never face anything that you can't bear. You have to remind yourself that you can handle it. You've been designed for it. You're not going to collapse under that weight. You don't have to try to get revenge or live bitter. You can overlook an insult, you can take the high road, and you can forgive.

The key is to take hold of God's strength, He will put in you the courage, the power, the determination, and the fortitude you need. Instead of thinking about how difficult it is, turn it around and say, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. I've been armed with strength for this battle. I'm anointed for difficult times. I may walk through the dark valley, but I am not settling here. This valley is not my home. I'm coming out better, stronger, victorious, into new levels of my destiny."

A Prayer for Today
"Heavenly Father, thank You that You are the Most High God and seated on Your throne. Thank You that I can come to You and take hold of Your strength when I feel overwhelmed. I declare that You have armed me for the battle I am to fight and that I am strong. In Jesus' Name, Amen."

21/04/2026

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Kuli judgement day kuma comment section uku😅One mummy: “I really don’t know how you manage, I can NEVER take my child to...
21/04/2026

Kuli judgement day kuma comment section uku😅

One mummy: “I really don’t know how you manage, I can NEVER take my child to boarding school.”
Another one: “My biggest regret is sending my child to boarding school.”

Meanwhile us in the corner: adjusting seating position like we are at a presidential debate we did not apply for 😌🍿

Relax mummy, we hear you but please don’t turn this into an audition for “Most Suffering Parent of the Year”🤣

Some of us have already been through that emotional rollercoaster. First term? Tears. Second term? Escape mission initiated. We literally behaved like we were in a movie called Fast & Furious: Parent Edition 🏃🏽‍♀️💨🤣😅

Now? Ahhh! we are back with upgraded software:
“I don’t care 2.0”😌

We drop them at school like:
“Go my child, become great, we shall meet in holidays, maybe.”😅🤣🤭

And then we go home and start sipping milk like responsible adults waiting for visitation day like it’s a national event 🥛📅

So yes, thank you for your opinions, they are noted,
but some of us have already graduated from Emotional Boarding School Parent Level 1 to Certified ‘They Will Be Fine’ Professionals😂🤩

No quitting. No running away.
Just strategic parenting and selective emotional detachment 😌🤣

NB: Our family Lawyer, Lubona and I are currently reviewing all these comments. Please be advised that unnecessary drama will be prosecuted☺️🤣
We say Hiiiii👋🤣

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