Pelican Counselling Institute

30/12/2023

When someone has seen the worst parts of you and still decides to stay, that's when you know they are worth keeping. Not everyone is willing to stick with you when times get tough so appreciate those who remain by your side when you're at your worst because they are the ones who deserve you at your absolute best...✍🏾

05/12/2023

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him in peace
4. Hug him
5. Don't bother him with his movements
6. Clean the house
7. Wash his clothes
8. Always pray for him.

So what's so hard about that?

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer/prayer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎:

44. give her compliments regularly
45. go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. not stress her out
48. not look at other girls

𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐒𝐎:

49. give her lots of attention
50. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
51. give her lots of space, allow to visit her family members and your relatives.

𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓:

52. To learn not to ask for change when u give money for shopping. Whatever u give out becomes rightly hers no matter how big the note is.........
𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐀 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐈𝐒 𝐀 𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒 𝐁𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 😄😀😃😜🌹 Send this to everyone on your list. Make a happy home. Wishing you all a 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐅𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐘.

05/12/2023

13/11/2023

Find someone who openly communicates their feelings to you. Someone who realizes that you are not perfect but still loves you the way you are. Someone who would never want to lose you and feels so blessed to be with you.

One who gives you all their heart completely. Someone who says I love you and means it. Last but not the least, find someone who looks forward to a future with you and with each and every new day, falls in love with you all over again.
🙏👏
Class dismissed 🥂

11/11/2023

It's best to sit down together and effectively communicate about your problems. Never assume the other person (spouse) already knows...because assumptions will create other problems. But when you both effectively communicate with one another, it helps the relationship stay strong and healthy.

10/11/2023

A husband and wife should never stop having fun, flirting, and going out on dates together. All of those things are essential...✍🏾

08/11/2023

I passed my hardest moments alone while everyone thought I was fine.

08/11/2023

Nothing beats the feeling of being loved and supported. Nomatter what you go through during the day but if you know you have somebody you love to get home to, it makes everything else worth it. Never underestimate the power of a loving relationship. Just because they hurt you once, it doesn't mean you should give up on love completely. You will find your person ❤️

07/11/2023

Be proactive: This means taking initiative and being responsible for your actions, rather than being passive and letting circumstances dictate your choices.