03/02/2024
SELF DIGINITY.
(Diginity is a state or quality of being worthy of honour or respect).
LETS SUMMERIZE SELF DIGINITY IN 3 WAYS.
1. SELF CONTENT
Means:
- self respect
- lack of vulnerability
- living with your own means - depending on yourself for survival as an adult.
- knowing yourself, your boundaries, your weaknesses and your strength.
In addition
You owe no one a good life, you owe no one anything but yourself.
You must learn to live with what you are able to manage e.g. if your salary is k5000, you must learn to live within k5000.
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself by wanting to live a life of someone who gets k10000 and above NO, that is unnecessary and the end will be bad for you. Ladies and gentlemen, borrowing or getting a loan is not a problem but get what you payslips can manage, a loan should not crepe you, get something that will leave you surviving.
2. SELF RESPONSIBLE (BILITY)
- knowing what to do at a right time. E.g. when you are at work, you should understand your job description, your boundaries, your weaknesses and your strength in order to be effective and efficient, to satisfy your clients and patients. That's it. You should know that there is nothing more important than a service to HUMANITY, therefore, when it comes to service to humanity, do it with whole your heart.
The role is simple if you can't contribute positively to the system, leave it the way it is, don't damage it.
3. RESPECT FOR SELF AND OTHERS
- they say you can only give what you have. So it starts with yourself learning how to do the right thing to yourself that's the only time you can do the right thing to others.
Respect is treating other people equally, recognising superior, knowing your boundaries and making peace other yourself and others.
IN THE NEXT ARTICLE WE WILL LOOK AT EFFECTS OF POOR SELF DIGINITY.
Let's continue interacting and keep our self diginity.
Thankyou.