A God-Perfect Marriage

16/07/2023

How can you Fully understand God's Mercy when you have never made any blunder in your life?

How can you understand God's Provisions when you have never had any time of NEEDS?

How can you understand God's power if Satan has never buffeted you before?

Everything that has ever happened to you or that is happening to you now is for you to practically experience a dimension of God that you have only heard about.

So count it all joy when you go through diverse trials.
Rise up whenever you Fall God is about to reveal himself to you in another dimension.

- Adeola Adeyemi

24/10/2022

Unprotected S*x is not just s*x without condom, any S*x outside Marriage is UNPROTECTED.
Accompanied with many destiny-destroying diseases.

Condom can Protect you from few Viruses but it can't protect you from wasting your destiny and making a Ship Wreck of it.

Bed Undefiled is still the message!

- Adeola Adeyemi

23/09/2022

Stagnancy in any aspect of your Life is not always an attack from the devil.

Most times you experience Stagnancy in certain areas of your life because you have Stopped Hearing God's Voice in that area..

Every Time you hit a Wall and there is no Progress what you need is a Fresh Word or Rhema word from God to Come Carry you into your Next level, for by Strength shall no man prevail..

And by his WORDS you will leap over that wall.
Pslams 18:29

But if you are in a Season of Word-Draught, Stagnancy is inevitable.

The Worst kind of Famine is not of Bread or Water but the famine of a NOW-WORD from the Lord.

Amos 8:11

- Adeola Adeyemi

HEAR GOD FOR YOURSELF IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCE

12/07/2022

An Invitation from God

Many people believe that their failures cause God to withdraw.

Yet one of the first lessons in Scripture proves otherwise. After Adam and Eve fell to temptation, God met them in their hiding place.

Jesus did the same with the woman at the well.

Despite her sinful condition, He pursued her, not to give condemnation or a list of dos and don’ts, but to give something that produced far more deliverance than any discipline ever could.

I don’t know what you face as you read this. But God does. And He’s not waiting to tell you off. He’s come with this message of love.

Your friend,

Kyle Winkler
Author & Bible Teacher
Author of Shut Up, Devil
Creator of the Shut Up, Devil app

07/07/2022

https://youtu.be/_qlN9o9L0P4

New Season Prophetic Prayers and Declaration [NSPPD] - 6th July 2022

13/06/2022

*Bro John since you have Received three different Sisters now and you claimed God said they are the one for you are you trying to say they God endorses Polygamy?

*Sister Jane you told bro Joseph that you will pray about his proposal and get back to him, but this is the 12th month and yet you are still pending the innocent bros who is still waiting for your Second Coming.
Let me ask you a question what if God also put you on Pending answer like this nko🙄

*Bro John, the Sister says you are not her Spec or her type yet you still insist on taking her by Force because of a vision?
How I wish you take your walk with God this Serious you would have grown to the point of knowing that the Plans of God for you are beautiful and if you truly know this you won't be forcing yourself into anybody's Life..
The only person you should take insults from is the person you are trying to win over to CHRIST not a Sister who have intentionally Closed her eyes from seeing the Glory of God stored up in a handsome brother like you.
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- Adeola Adeyemi

Ephesians 4.25
What this adds up to, then, is this: no more lies, no more pretense. Tell your neighbor the truth. In Christ's body we're all connected to each other, after all. When you lie to others, you end up lying to yourself. (MSB)

01/06/2022

IGNORING YOUR SPOUSE AFTER A MISUNDERSTANDING DOES NOT CHANGE ANYTHING.

So many adults still portray this childish attitude of ignoring their spouse after a misunderstanding, staying away from them won't solve the problem, keeping malice with them only makes the issue on ground to last for a longer period of time.

If you don't talk about it how would you fix the problem, the problem wouldn't disappear because the both of you are not talking to each other, the more the situation lasts the more harm it would cost in your relationship.

Who is at fault is not important when you have not talked about it, the most important thing at the moment is accepting that the both of you talk about it, understand where the misunderstanding is coming from and then taking responsibility of accepting your fault and apologize, promising not to allow it happen again.

Ignoring your spouse creates room for the devil to play mind games with you and complicate the situation the more, if you're both together the devil cannot pe*****te but when you leave your spouse all by themselves, when they became idle, the devil tend to use that opportunity and cause more havoc in your relationship.

Never make the mistake of ignoring your spouse after a misunderstanding, infact the best time to be with your spouse is after a misunderstanding, create room for dialogue, for discussion, make sure you talk about it, not just talking about it make sure you solve what ever misunderstanding it is.

Relationship coach
Moses Joseph Uteno

1Cor.7.5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (NKJV)

22/05/2022

HOW TO TREAT YOUR WIFE:

●Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
●Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
●Do not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
●Never compare your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you. (2 Cor. 10:12)
●Don’t ever allow her to beg you for s*x. She owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
●Be gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be tender. (Eph. 4:2)
●Hide nothing from her. You are now one and she’s your helpmeet. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her. (Gen. 2:25)
●Do not make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.
●Do not let her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her even till old age. (Eph. 5:29)
(Part 1 of 2)

●Never shout at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room. (Matt. 1:19)
●Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. (1 The 5:18)
●All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. (Pro. 31:14)
●Never place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
●Invest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with God. That’s the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
●Spend time with her to do Bible study and pray. (James 5:16)
●Make time to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
●Never use money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of God. (1 Pet. 3:7)
●Do not expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her. (Eph. 5:30)
●Honour her parents and be kind to her siblings. (SOS 8:2)
●Never cease to tell her how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that. (Eph. 5:25)
●Grow to be like Christian ,That’s the only way you can be a good and godly husband. (Rom. 8:29)

20/05/2022

HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR SPOUSE'S MENTAL HEALTH...✍️

1. Avoid insults and abuse, they linger on in your spouse's mind even after the fight has ended.

2. Have a habit of asking your spouse, "How are you?", "Are you OK?". Sometimes your spouse needs someone to talk to, be that someone.

3. Be present for your spouse, give your spouse quality time. Being married yet feeling alone is not good for mental health.

4. Solve conflicts quickly. It is mentally unsettling when issues are prolonged.

5. Dance, laugh, play with your spouse. Pleasant memories are good for mental stability and rejuvenation.

6. Protect your spouse's sleep. Avoid drama before going to bed, go to bed at the same time as often as possible, cuddle and keep warm in bed. Good sleep = good mental state.

7. Avoid money conflicts. If there is one thing that brings mental strain in marriage is money problems.

8. Compliment your spouse and appreciate your spouse. This makes your spouse think well of self.

9. When you notice your spouse needs some "me" time, grant it. Forcing conversations and interaction might backfire and cause more mental tension. Allow your spouse time to process their thoughts as you affirm him/her of your unwavering commitment and love.

10. When you notice your spouse is not OK, or has become temperamental or irritable; gently and without judgement ask your spouse "Is everything OK?". You know your spouse best.

11. When your spouse opens up about a problem or an issue, don't belittle it. It is mentally draining when one feels trivialized, misunderstood or not listened to.

12. Cheer your spouse in the way they love to be cheered up when your spouse is in low spirits.

13. Hug your spouse. You would be amazed how much healing power a hug has and how many married people are yearning to be hugged.

14. When your spouse appears overwhelmed by tasks; lend a land. Give your spouse space to breathe, lighten the load.

15. Enjoy being together

16. When you have done wrong, take responsibility and apologize. It sooths your spouse's mind.

17. Pray for your spouse's well-being. The spiritual taking care of the mental.

18. Allow your spouse to do things that make him/her unwind such as going for walks, watching a movie, going to the spa, spoiling oneself.

19. Change environments time to time. Go out on dates, go for a holiday where you two aren't distracted; don't always be in the house. New experiences stimulate the mind.

20. Be patient with your spouse. Rushing your spouse to do things as you want and when you want can cause mental anxiety.

21. Don't let your spouse do everything in the marriage. Play your part to keep your spouse from mental fatigue.

22. Be peace to your spouse. Let your tone and demeanour be inviting and pleasant.

23. Be faithful. Nothing tears the mind apart like knowing or suspecting your spouse is cheating.

12/05/2022

We have an Online Prayer Group on WhatsApp where we do Conference Call everyday.
There used to be a LIMIT on the Numbers of those who can Join the Conference Call at a time.
So lately it came to Our Notice that a Feature that will Help us Break that Limit has been Activated but we all _Need to Upgrade our WhatsApp to be able to Enjoy._
And this is tantamount to us as a Believer there are Certain Upgrades we Need to daily do in the Spirit to be able to Qualify for Higher Features in God and to take Off any Limitations that is Currently on our Life.
Most things we are struggling to get in Life will effortlessly Come to us when we Labour to Grow in the Spirit!
It takes Data and Good Phone Memory to Upgrade our WhatsApp but it takes Hunger and Dying daily to the seductions of the Flesh to Upgrade ourselves for new features in God..

So I'm also telling you to UPGRADE YOURSELF IN THE SPIRIT FOR THERE ARE HIGHER FEATURES AND POSSIBILITIES IN GOD refuse to be Limited.
2 Peter 3:18, Hebrews 6:1, 1 Peter 2:2, Isaiah 55:1
- Adeola Adeyemi

12/05/2022

Exercising your spirit

10/04/2022

This is how those so called Online Worshippers who will rather stay in their rooms on Sunday than to go to church when nothing is obviously wrong with them this is How they follow services online.

They connect with their phone and drop it somewhere then they are watching Netflix with Pop corn or replying Messages.

Omolomo he can't kill himself 😄

When you are not on Transit, or a Sick bed or in Prison or you have any inexcusable reason what are you doing inside your Room on Sunday?

*You Can't practice Christianity on your own Terms if it is not on his terms you don't belong to Him*

SIMPLE!

Everything might have been digitalized but the GOSPEL is not!

There is nothing we will not see on Social media.
When any church related issues happens like this you will hear them say thats the reason they don't like going to Church that they will rather worship their own God in their Rooms.
Unserious people.
Alainikanse of Africa.
When the devil wants to Destroy a man he will make him wise in own Eyes.
May we never be Foolish
(Heb 10:25)
Heb.10.25 Not forsaking or neglecting to assemble together [as believers], as is the habit of some people, but admonishing (warning, urging, and encouraging) one another, and all the more faithfully as you see the day approaching. (AMP)

Thank God for the internet and it's contribution to the Gospel so far but it should not in anyway WATER down the Faith you once Received!

- Adeola Adeyemi

02/04/2022

My Testimony,
I had so much Friends in those days when I used to hide my Love for Jesus but on the day I decided to make my love for him public they reduced to almost nothing.

But the testimony is that I wasn't troubled at all not even a bit of sorrow because when they all left his company and presence became more tangible and real to me.

Are you afraid of the loss that making your love public for Jesus can bring?

I tell you tonight the Gain is Far!!!!!!! Better!

The Gain is the tangible Presence of JESUS in your life.

When Your Love for Jesus is a Secret Compromise is looming!

If not for anything but for the Safety of your soul be OPENED about your love for Jesus.

Don't just tell people that you are a Christian SHOW them how madly you are in love with Jesus.

It doesn't Bite☺️





- Adeola Adeyemi

28/03/2022

Your desire is actually the Foundation of that Temptation you fell into, the devil only contributed his part in Helping you build upon the Foundation that you had already laid..

So when a man falls into Sin and say it is the devil's fault he is telling a lie and he doesn't want to be free..

You are actually the architect of the Problem you only invited the devil to Help you build, he wouldn't have come if you didn't invite him..

It is only by taking responsibility for your own sins and not blaming it on anyone or the devil that you will be forgiven and Restored!
It won't Hurt you to say
"Lord I missed it, Please Forgive me"

But as long as you have someone to blame there is no hope for Restoration!
And when you admit your Wrong believe in his Mercy lest you find yourself Committing the Greater sin of Unbelief..
Shalom!

10/03/2022

One of the Things God taught me at the backside of the mountain that he is still teaching me now is to Forget every wickedness of men towards you and pay them with Good

Joseph had to Forget the Offences and the Evil deeds of his Brothers according to the Name of his First son(Manasseh) before God could make him Fruitful according to the Name of the Second son (Ephraim)
You can't be Fruitful (Ephraim)
If you cannot forget the Hurts and the pains of the Past.
Sometimes it can be Painful to the Flesh to be a Christian because when you should fight he wants you to hold your peace and turn it over to him.
Let me admonish someone this evening
The Journey is still very long for you to be Carrying the weight of Offences with you if you want to reach your destination at all or on time you must learn to drop those Offences on the way lest they hinder you.
Because those weights will rather slow you down than give you speed.
Forgive those whom the devil is using to pile up those Offences in your Heart even those whom you highly esteemed.
Did they S*xually, Financially, Emotionally or materially took advantage of you let it go.
There might be no GLORY in your Past but there is enough GLORY in your Future.
If only you will forget your Past and Press on.
Lastly Learn to Insulate your Heart against Offences Proverbs 4:23
Do not allow anyone into the inner Cycle of your life whom God did not approve of..
Your Own Choice will always bring you Pain but his Choice for your life brings Life and Peace..
3 Things Remains
Faith, Charity and Hope.
Anytime you are Tempted to Err and continue in bitterness remember love and remember that Christ is Coming for a Bride whose Garment is unstained with Sin!

08/03/2022

When we were Much Younger my Mom will be the last Person to Sleep so that she can kill all the mosquitoes in our room lest we get infected with malaria.

We sleep Every night with the Consciousness that mommy will protect us against mosquitoes every night.

When she is Done she goes to bed but there is a God in Heaven Who watches over you as you go to bed, he never Sleeps nor Slumber and his Jealousy will attack anything that try to Come against you.

So go to bed with that Assurance.

Fear no Evil, Go and Sleep and Rest in the Arms and in the Love of Abba.

Pslams 121:4
Ps.121.4 Not on your life! Israel's Guardian will never doze or sleep. (MSB)

Zechariah 2:4,
Zech.2.4 And said unto him, Run, speak to this young man, saying, Jerusalem shall be inhabited as towns without walls for the multitude of men and cattle therein: (KJV)

1John 4:16
1John.4.16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. (KJV)
1John.4.16 We know it so well, we've embraced it heart and soul, this love that comes from God. God is love. When we take up permanent residence in a life of love, we live in God and God lives in us. (MSB)

- Adeola Adeyemi

12/01/2022

“He loves me; He loves me not. He loves me; He loves me not!”

For the first decade of my faith, that’s the rollercoaster of emotions I felt regarding my relationship with God.

You see, somewhere along the line, I came to believe that maintaining God’s love was up to me fixing myself of my every problem.

The problem is, I’m human. And humans have proven that they can’t perfectly maintain any standard. We all ebb and flow between success and failure. Hence the rollercoaster of emotions.

Friend, if you can relate to the insecurity I once felt about my relationship with God, then please hear me: God sent Jesus precisely because He knows that you can’t be perfect in everything.

Jesus came as God’s demonstration that His love isn’t here today and gone tomorrow, based upon your performance. But that it’s unconditional, not based on what you’ve done or what you’re sitting on.

So, may you not fear that perfection is what keeps you loved by God. But may you know that God’s perfect love is what keeps you from fear (1 John 4:18).


Today, I pray any insecurity of “He loves me; He loves me not” is exchanged for the certainty of “He loves me! He loves me! He loves me!”

Cheering for you,

Kyle
Creator of the Shut Up, Devil! app

30/07/2021

Prov.15.3 The eyes of the LORD are in every place, beholding the evil and the good. (KJV)
Greetings beloveds, I want you to know that regarding that matter of your life, God is seeing and He is in control. God is our ever-present help, rely only on Him. Don't hide your imperfections from Him. He is a merciful God. Come as you are, enter in His presence, do not be afraid because God loves you still. God saw you and all your ‘inadequacies’ even before you realized them. So,
don’t disqualify yourself! God knows and understands you more than you
understand yourself . Everyone close to you may give up on you, but when you call on JESUS CHRIST, He will be right there. Romans 10:13
If you're interested in knowing this Ever present helper who is ever reliable and have a relationship with Him, or maybe you need to rededicate your life to Him, pray this prayer of surrender believing:

LORD JESUS, I COME TO YOU TODAY. I KNOW AM SINNER AND I BELIEVE YOU DIED FOR ME AND ROSE AGAIN ON THE THIRD DAY FOR MY JUSTIFICATION. I CONFESS YOU TODAY AS MY LORD AND PERSONAL SAVIOUR. COME INTO MY LIFE AND BE LORD OVER EVERYTHING. THANK YOU LORD FOR SAVING. AM NOW BPRN AGAIN, AM A CHILD OF GOD.

If you prayed that prayer, you're a child of God. God is your Father and faithful friend. Talk to Him daily
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