Devine Therapy Clinic

12/05/2025

After having a child, I realized that in the eyes of society mothers can't:

- Complain (who told you to have kids?)
- Cry (why are you crying? Did you think it was easy?)
- Getting tired of what? (you do nothing!)
- Sleep (You're lazy!)
- Rest (you'll have plenty of time for that after they grow up)
- Getting pregnant again (are you crazy? How many more kids do you want?)
- Quitting work (how will you support your child?)
- Work (who will take care of the child?)
- Leave them at the nursery (Don’t let others raise them!!)
- Being a housewife (Poor husband, works too hard and his wife stays at home!!)
- Being single (nobody wants a woman with kids)
- Going out for fun (why are you leaving your son with grandma to have fun?)

And you know whats worse???
90% of these phrases are spoken by other women.

Let's learn to be more supportive of each other. I'm human and I love my kids but I'm guilty of all these emotions at some point

07/05/2025

Cheating on someone you share a home with isn't just betrayal it's psychological warfare. You're eating their food, sleeping in their bed, building routines together while deliberately dismantling their trust. It takes calculated cruelty to look someone in the eye daily while hiding an affair under the same roof.

This isn't about impulse t's sustained deception. Every shared chore, every night together becomes part of the lie. You weaponize the intimacy they offer, using your home as camouflage for betrayal. The proximity makes it worse: their toothbrush beside yours as you text your lover, their laundry in the machine while you plan meetups.

Real partners don't exploit cohabitation as cheating camouflage. If you're unhappy, leave. But choosing to betray someone in their own space... That's not a lapse in judgment it's character revealed. The ultimate insult... Expecting them to keep your shared life intact after you've blown it apart.

05/05/2025

STOP WAITING for your man to change — it’s not going to happen.
If he wanted to do better, he would have by now. If he truly respected you, loved you the way he says he does, and valued the relationship, you wouldn’t be having the same conversations, crying over the same problems, or feeling like you're the only one trying. You wouldn’t have to beg for effort, attention, honesty, or basic respect.

The hard truth? A man who sees you hurting and chooses not to change is already telling you everything you need to know. He’s comfortable. He knows you’ll stay. He knows your love will cover for his lack of effort. And as long as you keep waiting, hoping, and holding on, he has no reason to grow — because he’s already getting everything he wants, while you stay stuck hoping for the version of him that only exists in your imagination.

You cannot fix him. You cannot love someone into maturity, into empathy, or into treating you right. That’s a decision he has to make. And if he hasn't made it by now, he's not going to — not for you, not for anyone.

Stop settling for potential. Stop justifying his behavior because of his past, his stress, his childhood, or his “love language.” Actions speak louder than excuses. If you’re constantly feeling drained, disrespected, dismissed, or invisible — that is not love. That is emotional neglect, and it only gets worse over time.

You deserve someone who doesn't have to be told how to treat you. Someone who shows up consistently. Who listens, grows, and wants to make you feel safe. You don’t need to wait for that — you just need to stop wasting time on someone who isn’t capable or willing to be that man.

Let go. He’s not going to change. But you can — by walking away, choosing yourself, and never lowering your standards for someone who refuses to rise to meet them.

~Unknown
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30/04/2025

How you treat her while she’s pregnant will stick with her for the rest of her life yes, I mean, the rest of your relationship and beyond. She will remember the way you cared for her (or didn’t), the way you reassured her (or made her feel alone), and the way you showed up when she needed you most. Pregnancy is a time when a woman feels everything deeply physically, emotionally, and mentally. The love, support, and respect you give her during this chapter will shape how she sees you forever. Be her peace, not her stress. Be her comfort, not her burden. Because trust me, she won’t forget. ❤❤❤

29/04/2025

Check your wife.
Not just if she’s okay, but really okay.

Did she eat today?
Did she get to rest, or did she spend the day chasing little feet and cleaning up little messes?
Did she get a moment of silence, or was her head filled with crying, calling, and chaos?

Check her heart.
Is it heavy? Is she overwhelmed but doesn’t want to bother anyone with her feelings?
Is she tired of being strong all the time?

Check her eyes.
Are they tired from all the things she’s trying to hold together?
Are they longing for a little affection, appreciation, or just a simple, “Thank you, love”?

Check your wife.
She’s not just the mother of your children,
She’s still the woman who once dreamed of her own life too.

And sometimes, all she needs is someone to say,
“Love, I see you. I’m proud of you. How can I help you today?”

28/04/2025

Are you afraid to leave him because of your child?
Are you scared to break the family, even though he’s the very reason why things have become so chaotic and painful?

How long will you keep enduring this situation, when he’s already making you feel like you no longer matter, and that he’s only staying because of the kids?

You don’t need someone who constantly hurts your heart.
You don’t need a relationship filled with pain and emptiness.
Yes, there are many families that are no longer whole and it’s hard, and painful—but it’s even more painful to stay in a “complete” family that has no real connection anymore.

Don’t use the children as a reason to stay in a relationship that only drains you.
Someday, they’ll understand that you didn’t abandon them you chose to free yourself from the pain.

Because in the end, only God truly knows the sacrifices you've made.

Set yourself free, even if it hurts because it hurts even more to stay when your hearts are no longer together.

~izzvel

08/01/2024

Proof of life 2024🙏❤️

28/10/2023

Celebrating my 4th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

17/08/2023

I have reached 800 followers! Thank you for your continued support. I could not have done it without each of you. 🙏🤗🎉

24/05/2023

DON'T DIE WITH YOUR DEAD.

Did you know that when you cry for your dead, you cry for you and not them?

You cry because you “lost them”, because you don’t HAVE THEM by your side. You think it all ends in death. And you think they are NOT there anymore.

So if you’re dead no more, where are they?

Yes they have left, or they are now somewhere else, is that place better than this?

Yes, definitely that place is better than this; so Why do you suffer for their departure?

When you have finished accepting that they are no longer "NOT here", but they are still in another place even better than this, for they’re where they are no longer sick, or suffering.

Then you'll stop mourning them and you'll get them back in memory so they keep accompanying you with the joy of all that you've lived.

If you truly loved them LOVE them AGAIN and this time with greater strength, with greater purity, with greater delivery.

Today, there will be no more reproach of any kind.

Only LOVE, will be the essence between you, between us, between them.

I respect your pain, and the way you express it. I know you cry and you will cry without comfort.

But .. Today I say to you:
Don't die with your dead.

Remember we are only seeing one side of the coin (death).

We are not looking the other way; we are not seeing the wonderful place of light where they stand.

What if we start seeing “death” as a Second Birth?

Second Birth we ALL will go through.

Don't die with your dead, honor them by living your life as they would have wanted you to.

Let them transcend.

And you keep living.

~Andrew Mclaren
Artist: Unknown

20/02/2022

Something is about to happen soon on this page keep checking....l think its high time!!!

24/05/2021