Happiness Beyond Belief Personal Development

14/12/2021

Welcome to my eBook - ‘Beautiful Beyond Belief’. If you find it difficult to come to terms with the way you look or are always critisising and putting your looks down, or wishing you were prettier or more beautiful, or just thinking you are just plain ugly, you need to read this book and learn how to get rid of the ‘negative thoughts and feelings’ you have been unconsciously programmed with, that keep you stuck in an never ending cycle of self-hatred and self-criticism.
If you are contemplating cosmetic procedures or surgery because you hate or dislike certain parts of your body, then you need to read this book, and learn how to get rid of the negative beliefs that keep you stuck in a never ending cycle of self-hatred and self-criticism.

In a world full of people who dictate what you should be, what you should wear and how you should look, it's hard to just love and be
yourself, the original you. But with a little bit of introspection and
removing some old, worn out programmes in your unconscious, you will finally accept yourself, as you are with your own quirks and
character and unique beauty.

When you eliminate these false, toxic beliefs you will become the beautiful, unique, OK, person you always dreamed you could be!

If you learn and use the technique I am about to share with you, it will completely change what you think and believe about many things in your life, including how you see and what you feel about your body! You will accept yourself for who you are and become the lovely person you have tried to cover up with lipstick and make up.

This book contains just 24 pages of ‘negative beliefs’ about your looks that you have accepted as the truth about yourself– and how they have impacted your self-esteem and self-image, creating self- hatred and self-destructive behaviours and patterns in your life.

But in order for that to happen to you, must apply yourself to removing the ‘negative beliefs’ that created these habits and patterns that have been fed to you by the media, celebrity and society and expectation of what a woman should look like.

Make a promise to yourself that you will not be dictated to by the media who only want to coerce and programme you to remain hooked to hating the way you look.

In just 27 pages, you will be free of this insidious programming and will be able to love and accept yourself just the way you look. As unique and lovely as you have always been but never believed it. All the instructions on how to remove these hardwired ‘negative beliefs’ are explained in the back of this book.

If you have children, friends or family members who are suffering from poor self-image, low-self-esteem with Christmas or a birthday looming, instead of buying them or a face lift job or Botox injections; why not buy a copy of this book for them. For just $19.50 it will be the most valued gift ever.

Message me to get your eCopy now.

It will be the most treasured gift you could ever give. I wish you well on your journey towards a great self-image and wonderful self-esteem.

Annie Moyes

23/11/2021

Annie Moyes - Excerpt from Journal: February 2016

For many years, through personal experience, I have been studying grief and pain and working with people who have also been unable to adequately convey the real feelings etched deep inside themselves, that are etched deep inside every one of us;

Those of grief for what and who we have lost
And the apologies we were too late to give
For the pain we have caused and the love we have failed to give
And receive as part of punishment we heap upon ourselves

Because we are unable to express our hurt
In any other way than to hurt those we love
Because those we loved have hurt us…and on….

And then the remorse and guilt and shame we wear,
like a hair shirt, silently eroding away our happiness and joy

This is who we are
This is being human
This is the cost and price we pay

This is being lost and hoping beyond hope
That one day someone will find us,
And know somehow, as if by magic
Without a single word spoken,
Who we are,
And forgive us anyway
And heal our broken, aching hearts.

©Annie Moyes - 2016

20/09/2021

Hello dear friends, just a quick update with good and not so good news.

Unfortunately I won't be working with clients any more which is really sad for me, but the good news my sister Barbara, my joint partner in Happiness Beyond Belief for the past 26 years has been freed from UK lockdown and is back in Perth permanently.

She is now available for one on one Emmote sessions and is keen and ready to get started immediately. If you'd like to book an introductory session with her you can email me on: annie@anniemoyes.com.

Hoping you are all managing to stay safe and sane through these tumultuous times. I miss you all. Annie

13/07/2021

Some good news, Barb is back from a disappointing journey to the UK. She and Jack never got the European adventure they set out on because Covid stopped it before they even got started. Luckily Perth is relatively free from Covid and they were allowed home a couple of weeks ago.

Having found a car and a new home, she is ready to start working with clients again, so if you are wanting to shift some of your negative thoughts and feelings, you can contact her on 0415 586 355.

Our unique Emmote Process heals the past . We teach you how to break free from the 'negative beliefs

24/01/2021

It’s a Great Day For A Guilt Trip – Let’s Go!

It’s happened to us all throughout history. There’s Mum standing there with her hands on her hips with ‘that look’ on her face. You know the one!

At three years old we’re too young to understand what ‘that look’ means but we can see it’s not good, or happy, or nice. Did we do something wrong, or bad, or forbidden? We’re still only a toddler but apparently we “should have known” that scribbling on the wall is naughty and that we would get punished for it.

Perhaps it’s the first time we’ve actually felt guilty. But somehow worse than the feeling of guilt is the shame that Mum thinks we’re bad! Get used to it kid, because this is just the start of the ‘guilt and shame trip’ that will last a lifetime.

For millions of people, religion and guilt go hand in hand. Religion is the righteous voice that makes us feel guilty in order to control the way we live our lives.

Sermons consistently remind us of our guilt: “You’re bad. Do better. Come back next week and I’ll remind you how you’ve failed so that you can feel even worse about yourself!” Indeed, for some Christians, the worse you feel about yourself, the better a person you are!

Many Catholic women suffer from ‘the guilt trip’ every time they have s*x. One of my ex-Catholic clients irrationally believed that God was actually watching her every time she was having s*x! She knew rationally that God was busy elsewhere, but her beliefs that enjoying ‘s*x’ was a sin, led to serious problems in her marriage. Thankfully after eliminating these beliefs, s*x became a joy and passion for her!!

For the rest of us, guilt and shame is the cross we bear for merely being human. It’s called ‘conscience’ and helps us differentiate between right and wrong and keeps most of us on the moral path.

Sometimes though it’s hard to stop ourselves falling off the moral high ground and when sometimes we do, we beat ourselves up that we weren’t strong enough to resist.

But it’s the irrational guilt that cripples us, creating depression, low self-esteem, addictions and self-abuse - like not enjoying s*x because God is watching – being afraid to upset or offend somebody and then feel guilty about it – denying ourselves success because we feel guilty about doing better than somebody else.

Once you eliminate your ‘guilty’ and ‘ashamed’ beliefs you will be free from these unhealthy and irrational feelings, allowing you to make healthy choices and decisions for your future.

http://happiness-beyond-belief.com/what-are-beliefs/its-great-day-guilt-trip-lets-go/

20/06/2020

Cinderella - A Fairy-tale Romance

Once upon a time there was once a beautiful young girl called Cinderella. Her loving Mum and Dad died when she was young so she had to go and live with her wicked Aunt and her two mean, ugly cousins.

They quickly put poor little Cinders to work cleaning up after them to pay for her keep. She scrubbed and cleaned and ironed and washed and had very little to eat, had to sleep on a bench in the kitchen and was never given any love or friendship.

As she was cleaning day after day, Cinders let her mind float away and imagine what her future might look like outside of this horrible family. She dreamed of a handsome, tall, rich, loving man who would come along and ‘save her from all this’. She also dreamed of a million dollar mansion where she could have everything she wanted including a maid and that she would be loved forever after.

Well most girls know how this Fairy tale ends as we were raised on it as children, but just to tell those of you who never read this story as children (particularly men).

Cinders was rescued by a ‘Prince On A White Horse’ who had searched high and low across the land looking for her, and who, having placed a glass shoe on her foot, fell madly in love with her, carried her away to his Palace, loaded her with diamonds and money and hundreds of pairs of $500 Christian Louboutin shoes, and they both lived happily ever after.

How wonderful! How amazing! How unbelievable!

No-one knows who wrote the first fairy tale of Cinderella but it seems every country in the world has its own account of this story. The problem with this fairy tale is that it is just that, a fairy tale, and has no place in the realms of reality.

And another problem with this fairy tale is that millions of girls around the world were/are programmed with the belief that “One day my Prince will come along and rescue me”

For Mary, Crown Princess of Denmark this fairy tale actually did come true and for Princess Diana.... and we all know what happened to her, it seems even some Prince Charmings' turn out to be Right Royal Bast..ds! So if we are not born into Royalty the chances of us meeting a real-life prince are practically non-existent.

In the meantime we meet a nice, regular guy but because he doesn’t have all the qualities of Prince Charming - status, kudos, money, a palace, or even a white horse - we either reject him out of hand, or half-heartedly accept him as second-best and grow to hate him because he doesn’t match our beliefs about how our ‘Prince Charming’ is supposed to be.

If we stay we become critical and nagging and try to change him into what we dreamed he should be. But he’s just an ordinary guy, just trying to love us, live with us and help us make ends meet, but that’s not good enough for us. It’s Prince Charming or nothing!

So if you’ve had relationships where you always seem to attract the ‘wrong guy or are still hanging around waiting for your Prince to come, you probably need to get rid of the ‘belief system’ you built around this and other similar fairytales, so that you’ll know when your second-best-to-Prince Charming arrives at your door. Perhaps not with a glass slipper, but with his heart in his hands.

Contact us to find out how we can help you catch your own Prince Charming – and keep him. Or if you already have him and don’t recognise him for the Prince he is - you can spend the rest of your life dissatisfied and unhappy with what you’ve got! Your happiness and well being are all we care about. www.happiness-beyond-belief.com

© Annie Moyes – 2011 - 2020 – All Rights Reserved

19/06/2020

What Is A Comfort Zone?

Because our brain tends to use one fixed, automatic, repetitive pattern to keep us from feeling the pain connected to the ‘negative belief’, say “I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH”, it’s nearly impossible for us to ‘unthink it’, as it's stored in our unconscious memory vault and we will forever believe that “we are not good enough”.

Unfortunately, having someone say to us “You’re really good at this” would also connect us to “I’m not good enough” so the same automatic belief comes in to block both positive and negative messages. This is generally called a denial!

To add to the problem, whatever our ‘negative beliefs’ about ourselves might be, they will unconsciously attract the kind of people whose behaviour and lifestyle fits in with, or validates our negative beliefs, as if we had a sign above our head inviting the very people who will trigger those beliefs to come in and do just that!

You have probably heard of the expressions ‘Like attracts like’ or perhaps ‘staying in our comfort zone’. There are several theories that could account for these phenomena. One theory is that we subconsciously emit minute signals that others pick up. Things like imperceptible hand and eye movements, the way we stand, the way we walk, the way we talk etc. what we commonly call “body language”.

Another theory is that we have an ‘energy field’ around us that filters out people just like ourselves. We just seem to feel more comfortable with people that have a similar background, similar tastes and similar beliefs.

Perhaps it is a mixture of both of these theories. Whatever the cause, is seems almost predictable that someone coming from a broken or violent home is less likely to form a happy, long lasting relationship. And it is predicable that we ‘unconsciously’ choose a partner who ends up having the same traits as our parent(s) that we hated and desperately wanted to escape from.

We can’t help it, it’s the way our brain mechanically works. Whatever is buried within the trillions of neural pathways and millions of memories stored in our unconscious we have come to believe them to be true and instinctively, impulsively, irrationally create our ‘story’ from them and then set out to make our story become reality.

Once we remove these negative thoughts and feelings we can then live a life at choice, making it easier to attract wealth, love and happiness into our lives.

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If you would like to know more about how to remove your ‘negative beliefs’ hop over to our Contacts Page to receive your FREE ONE-HOUR Skype or One-On-One session and send us a message. We will get back to you.

Our unique ‘Emmote’ process quickly and permanently removes the ‘negative thoughts and feelings’ that create a ‘negative belief’. It also severs the hardwired synapses in our brain between the thought and the feelings, eliminating them. Completely! Permanently!

And because we teach you how to use the ‘Emmote’ process we empower you with the knowledge and tools to help yourself whenever anything negative comes up for you in the future. So what have you got to lose?

Our ‘Emmote’ process is so powerfully life changing we 100% Guarantee it. So what have you got to lose? ©Annie Moyes – January 2020- All rights reserved

06/05/2020

Addicted To Our Addictions

You wouldn’t believe the lengths that some people go to avoid dealing with their emotional pain. Or perhaps you would because you are suffering from one of these addictions right now. Alcohol, prescription and recreational drugs, cosmetic surgery, gambling, food, extreme sports and exercise, computer games, shopping, s*x, destructive relationships, hoarding. Addictions come in all sorts.

Those of us with a modicum of sense or self-esteem left, realise that whatever we have unconsciously chosen to numb our pain is self-destructive and self-defeating. And each day we promise ourselves, “This is the last time I drink, take a gamble, swallow those pills, drown my sorrows or harm myself”. “I’m done”, “I’ve had it”, “No more”! we swear. We know it’s stupid, expensive and bad for us but we just can’t seem to help ourselves.

And perhaps we can’t believe how we came to be in this predicament? No matter how hard we try we seem trapped on a treadmill to hell or total self-destruction. But you know what, there is a reason for these addictions and once you understand why you might feel a whole lot better!

Our brain is hard-wired to avoid emotional pain at all costs!
And to avoid that emotional pain we use whatever means we can to escape it. The reality is once our brain has become addicted to whatever poison we have chosen we can then ‘blame the addiction’ and not the pain for why we can’t or won’t change.

Go to any AA meeting and see people just like yourselves trying desperately to find some way to overcome the shame, guilt and self-loathing that are the result of having a ‘hidden agenda’ and trying to keep their ‘nasty little habit’ a secret.

Those of us unable to break free from our addictions are experts at justifying or making excuses for it.
“I know it’s bad for me but..”
“I know it’s wrong but …”
“I know I shouldn’t be doing this but..”
“An alcoholic is someone who drinks more than me..”
“Smoking dope isn’t addictive...”
“I just want to make by b***s look better... “
“I have a slow metabolism; I only need 500 calories a day...”
“I only drink one bottle of wine a night, my friends drink twice that much...”
“Exercising 2 hours a day is perfectly OK...”

We can justify our addictions until the cows come home, but the sad fact is we’re too scared to give them up in case the pain we’ve been suppressing all these years overwhelms us.
Apart from the terrible damage these additions cause to our body, our relationships, our work and our lives, they just prolong the agony and make us feel more ashamed and guilty and helpless because we can’t control or stop them.
The cause of these addictions is simply the ‘negative beliefs’ we took on in childhood that still control us today. Getting rid of the beliefs that caused the pain will stop the addictions dead in their tracks.

How do I know, because after I had eliminated some of my self-defeating beliefs I stopped drinking alcohol completely and I didn’t even know I had! I do sometimes have a glass of wine or champagne for special occasions, but the ‘need’ to drink to ‘drown my sorrows’ has completely disappeared.
And we have worked hundreds of clients with addictions. As they started removing their core ‘negative beliefs’ their addictions just disappeared because they no longer had the need to continue their self-destructive patterns and habits.
Annie Moyes –2020

02/05/2020

Emptiness – Creating the Addiction

One thing this awful virus has driven home is the Emptiness inside that has resulted in the unresolved pain that most of us cannot bear, or dare to face.

Emptiness (the closest feeling to death) means there is nowhere in our head (or heart) for any more pain, so we ‘switch the pain off’ for break, a respite, a vacation from the endless unnamed and unseen hurt.

The Emptiness then creates the void, the vacuum that compounds our experience of nothingness.

Emptiness + nothingness, then creates ‘dissociation, which creates more emptiness, more nothingness, which ironically creates the longing for feeling, any feeling – except the pain feeling.

We know we are broken so we must find a way to glue ourselves back together, to feel something, anything, otherwise, we fear becoming the shell of the person we believe we are.

The instant fix of our addictions might fill the black void for a few hours, minutes, seconds. But the addiction is the glue that creates the void so we have to do it again, and again because the emptiness it too painful. Even more painful than the experiences the created it.

And because the human brain is designed to avoid pain at all costs, we have to keep feeding the addiction, which then becomes THE addiction in itself.

This never-ending circle, pain, emptiness, nothingness, void, addiction.

The only solution? Eliminate the original pain core, and the emptiness, nothingness and addiction disappear into the void. Ask me how.

Annie Moyes – May 2020

16/03/2020

The world has in a very short time become dangerous to us all and we're struggling to understand what has happened and why. But there is alongside the shock and panic, a brighter side to all that's happening in the world at the moment though you probably can't see it right now.

There are cosy times at home (lock down) keeping yourself and your family safe from the virus. Spending more time with your kids or reading that book you've had on the shelf for ages, doing that DIY you never had time for, learning to make a meal from what you have in the pantry. Doing all those odd jobs, cleaning rugs and bed linen, making toys with the kids, or just hanging out and having fun.

Whatever you're doing I'm wishing you all the very best of health and hope you will come through this period, kinder, more grateful and understanding, more tolerant and thoughtful of others. We are all in this together and we'll all come through this together. Annie

12/03/2020

What’s ‘What If?’ All About?

We all ‘What If’ everything, it is immediate and unconscious. Our ‘Prediction Brain’ is wired to put a ‘future ending’ on everything. We can’t help it!

“What if I go out with this guy and he turns out to be a pervert?” “What if I apply for that job and get turned down?” “What if I get on that plane and it crashes?” ‘What if I arrive at the church and my fiancé stands me up?” “What if my partner leaves me and I am left alone with the children?”

Everything we think has a ‘what if’ attached to it. “What if I had died in the car crash”, “What if I go on Australian Idol and get laughed off”? What if I change schools and everybody rejects me?”

‘WHAT IF?

‘What if’ is the brain’s survival and problem solving ability to instantly ‘connect the dots’ and see the final outcome, and to look for the danger lurking in it.

Parents, TV, books, movies are all great at dreaming up scenarios that get children ‘believing the worst is going to happen’. And children are great at imagining ‘What if’s’ once an idea has been put into their mind.

“What If” is a survival mechanism but becomes ‘negative prediction beliefs’ in childhood. ‘Imagining the worst’, seeing only ‘unhappy endings’, believing that ‘it will all come to nothing’ are typical negative prediction beliefs that stay with us for life.

Of course most adults applying logic to their ‘flights of fancy’ and are able to bring themselves back into the ‘real world’ , but if there has been continued trauma in a child’s life they can end up forever trapped in the negative ‘what if’s’ that become depression, anxiety and panic attacks as adults.

If your life is full of negative ‘What If’s’ and you find it difficult to stop them, message me for your FREE ONE HOUR Skype or One-On-One session and I’ll get straight back to you.

© Annie Moyes - January2020