17/10/2025
How to Reduce Power Struggles with Your Child
Less stress, more cooperation! Power struggles can be draining, but you can minimize them with a few simple strategies.
Power struggles happen when:
They feel unheard
They lack control over choices
They’re overwhelmed
What to try instead:
Avoid: “Because I said so!”
Try: “Let’s figure this out together.”
Offer small, manageable choices to give them control
Validate their feelings: “I can see you’re frustrated, let’s take a deep breath.”
Stay calm and patient, and lead by example
The key is making them feel involved and heard, which opens the door to cooperation. 🙌
What’s your go-to strategy for handling power struggles? Share below!